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Serious BIG problem!!

nah. There's a chance i only followed someone that happened to have the same name as her/she just doesn't check insta, lmao.

But it also could be that she just doesn't wanna follow me back and isnt interested
It would be strange if she wouldnt follow bc you know eachother and that a normal friendly gesture
 
Nvm but why y’all wondering than you dating life is off and act like it’s bc of looks
And who says I complain
Who says I do that too
And yes it is partially because of looks
 
And who says I complain
Who says I do that too
And yes it is partially because of looks
I didn’t spoke just about you,many here said that and it feels genially disgusting.But I didn’t want to attack you or what you do,I was just curious why so many guys complain about dating life if they think like that
 
I didn’t spoke just about you,many here said that and it feels genially disgusting.But I didn’t want to attack you or what you do,I was just curious why so many guys complain about dating life if they think like that
Most guys who complain don't do that, at least that's what I seem to see
 
Okay so I'm in my final year of school, and for context things are going pretty well right now. Just finished the first week.

But we got 2 issues.

Issue number 1 is..


In my 3rd period class, I met this girl, and I think she might be one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen.
She's got a wonderful smile, a gentle voice, and she has these adorable freckles as well as the most gorgeous hazel eyes I've seen. And funnily enough actually has a lighter skin tone than me in spite of the fact she's from Syria (I say this because I thought she was Turkish at first lmao)

I could probably go on, but all you need to know is that I have a crush on her.
We'll call her R.


I met her on pretty much the first day of this semester, when I was settling into my 3rd period class. She was one of the last people to walk into the room, and although other people had spots open next to them, she sat next to me.
(I doubt this means anything but it enabled me to actually get to know her a little, so I consider it a good thing)

Then the teacher made us get into groups for icebreakers, so one of the first things I did was turn to my left and ask R if she'd like to be in a group with me. She said yes, and we got like 1 more person in our group from there, with the day going by after that.

Later, about maybe a day or 2 ago I remember the teacher noticed we still had time left in the period after finishing a quiz, so she made us do this debate activity where 2 students come up to the front. Pick a small piece of paper with an animal's name on it from a jar, and attempt to debate which animal would beat which.

Me and this kid Jackson were the only 2 who actually volunteered. He got an elephant while I got a shark.
And after a little debating all you really need to know is that we reached the consensus that the shark gets obliterated on land, and the elephant gets obliterated in the water.

The important part, though, is that after the class ended I used the debate as an opportunity to talk to R some more, because I figured it was a good conversation starter.
And it was! After talking about that for a bit, we started discussing our classes we had. And as we were doing that, I ended up deciding to walk with her all the way to her class.

Which, surprisingly, she seemed alright with.
(And the reason I say that is because I just met her)

Moving on, though. We seem to have made walking & talking after class a regular thing. One problem though is that I've no idea if she's actually comfortable with me, someone she just met last week deciding to walk all the way to her class with her.
She's never addressed it, mind you, and mostly laughs and smiles when we talk on the way there, but you can never really be sure from just guessing.

TL;DR for this part: Met a gorgeous, smart girl in my third period class, I think she's interested in getting to know me but I'm not sure yet.


As for the second..:



So, as some of you may know from my Previous Thread, (go read it if you don't) I know this one girl that may or may not like me. I say that because she gives me pretty mixed messages (see the thread in question if u dunno what I mean)

We'll call her M.

So, after the events of my previous thread on her, M kind of just unadded me on snapchat. Which I thought was "whatever" and just thought she didn't like me anymore.

But at the end of the day today, as I was walking to the front to bike home, I hear someone calling my name, I take an earbud out and turn, and it's M.
She starts asking me how I've been and stuff like that, more or less acting like she didn't unfriend and more or less stop talking to me for months.

Still, I thought it was interesting how this girl with big tits and a fat ass still seemed to want to talk to me, so me and her had a convo about our classes and all that. It was pretty awkward, I'll admit.
Then, I kind of ended the conversation, and she said something that made me kinda laugh, she said "see you later".

What do you mean 'see you later'? Aren't you the same person that would talk to me randomly, and then randomly just ghost me?

But, as I was walking away, I turned back to ask her if she was going to the senior sunrise that was happening on the 7th. (I was already gonna be going there) So when I told her that id be there, she essentially just said "Alright, I'll see you there"



TL;DR for this part: Hot girl that used to talk with me, then ghosted me, once again just starts talking with me like nothing happened. I will admit I am still attracted to her, though. I definitely am.




So now I'm in a dilemma. Because my heart likes R, but my body definitely likes M.


If the ball was in your hands, what would you do?

Comment down below.
don't think with your dick long term
 
Yeah and Mabye try to spend more time with R during it

I think M just wants the attention you used to give her. Nothing good will come out of talking to her
So M approached me at the senior sunrise as I was walking off to go take a piss in the forest. And she said that me and her had to take a photo together.

I was like "sure" and then her friends told me to put my arm around M

I didn't wanna do that cuz I didn't know her that well, so I didn't.

Still, ended up being in a photo with her. No idea what their motivations were.
 
Okay so I'm in my final year of school, and for context things are going pretty well right now. Just finished the first week.

But we got 2 issues.

Issue number 1 is..


In my 3rd period class, I met this girl, and I think she might be one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen.
She's got a wonderful smile, a gentle voice, and she has these adorable freckles as well as the most gorgeous hazel eyes I've seen. And funnily enough actually has a lighter skin tone than me in spite of the fact she's from Syria (I say this because I thought she was Turkish at first lmao)

I could probably go on, but all you need to know is that I have a crush on her.
We'll call her R.


I met her on pretty much the first day of this semester, when I was settling into my 3rd period class. She was one of the last people to walk into the room, and although other people had spots open next to them, she sat next to me.
(I doubt this means anything but it enabled me to actually get to know her a little, so I consider it a good thing)

Then the teacher made us get into groups for icebreakers, so one of the first things I did was turn to my left and ask R if she'd like to be in a group with me. She said yes, and we got like 1 more person in our group from there, with the day going by after that.

Later, about maybe a day or 2 ago I remember the teacher noticed we still had time left in the period after finishing a quiz, so she made us do this debate activity where 2 students come up to the front. Pick a small piece of paper with an animal's name on it from a jar, and attempt to debate which animal would beat which.

Me and this kid Jackson were the only 2 who actually volunteered. He got an elephant while I got a shark.
And after a little debating all you really need to know is that we reached the consensus that the shark gets obliterated on land, and the elephant gets obliterated in the water.

The important part, though, is that after the class ended I used the debate as an opportunity to talk to R some more, because I figured it was a good conversation starter.
And it was! After talking about that for a bit, we started discussing our classes we had. And as we were doing that, I ended up deciding to walk with her all the way to her class.

Which, surprisingly, she seemed alright with.
(And the reason I say that is because I just met her)

Moving on, though. We seem to have made walking & talking after class a regular thing. One problem though is that I've no idea if she's actually comfortable with me, someone she just met last week deciding to walk all the way to her class with her.
She's never addressed it, mind you, and mostly laughs and smiles when we talk on the way there, but you can never really be sure from just guessing.

TL;DR for this part: Met a gorgeous, smart girl in my third period class, I think she's interested in getting to know me but I'm not sure yet.


As for the second..:



So, as some of you may know from my Previous Thread, (go read it if you don't) I know this one girl that may or may not like me. I say that because she gives me pretty mixed messages (see the thread in question if u dunno what I mean)

We'll call her M.

So, after the events of my previous thread on her, M kind of just unadded me on snapchat. Which I thought was "whatever" and just thought she didn't like me anymore.

But at the end of the day today, as I was walking to the front to bike home, I hear someone calling my name, I take an earbud out and turn, and it's M.
She starts asking me how I've been and stuff like that, more or less acting like she didn't unfriend and more or less stop talking to me for months.

Still, I thought it was interesting how this girl with big tits and a fat ass still seemed to want to talk to me, so me and her had a convo about our classes and all that. It was pretty awkward, I'll admit.
Then, I kind of ended the conversation, and she said something that made me kinda laugh, she said "see you later".

What do you mean 'see you later'? Aren't you the same person that would talk to me randomly, and then randomly just ghost me?

But, as I was walking away, I turned back to ask her if she was going to the senior sunrise that was happening on the 7th. (I was already gonna be going there) So when I told her that id be there, she essentially just said "Alright, I'll see you there"



TL;DR for this part: Hot girl that used to talk with me, then ghosted me, once again just starts talking with me like nothing happened. I will admit I am still attracted to her, though. I definitely am.




So now I'm in a dilemma. Because my heart likes R, but my body definitely likes M.


If the ball was in your hands, what would you do?

Comment down below.
Ensure they don't know about eachother, talk to both of them in private.

Determine who you like - and don't entirely shut down the other if you decide to pursue one.
 
So M approached me at the senior sunrise as I was walking off to go take a piss in the forest. And she said that me and her had to take a photo together.

I was like "sure" and then her friends told me to put my arm around M

I didn't wanna do that cuz I didn't know her that well, so I didn't.

Still, ended up being in a photo with her. No idea what their motivations were.
They trulyna ship u guyssss
 
Ensure they don't know about eachother, talk to both of them in private.

Determine who you like - and don't entirely shut down the other if you decide to pursue one.
Ensure they don't know about eachother, talk to both of them in private.

Determine who you like - and don't entirely shut down the other if you decide to pursue one.
Seems pathetic like a wannabe “player”
 
Seems pathetic like a wannabe “player”
Its having all options available to you, as most people reveal how quantifiable they are as a partner after a period of time.

First impressions don't provide an entire painting of someone, and thus a throughout investigation to them long term should be conducted to identify the most optimal candidate.
 
Its having all options available to you, as most people reveal how quantifiable they are as a partner after a period of time.

First impressions don't provide an entire painting of someone, and thus a throughout investigation to them long term should be conducted to identify the most optimal candidate.
M is not an first impression it’s her character
 
Its having all options available to you, as most people reveal how quantifiable they are as a partner after a period of time.

First impressions don't provide an entire painting of someone, and thus a throughout investigation to them long term should be conducted to identify the most optimal candidate.
Olone the word candidate is strange,did you ever had a gf(not ment Offensiv)
 
Olone the word candidate is strange,did you ever had a gf(not ment Offensiv)
I've previously had girlfriends, now I only have sexual partners.

You're speech is slurred, please refrain from speaking in odd lingo in future.

Thank you.
 
This doesn't make sense, please rephrase.
She
I've previously had girlfriends, now I only have sexual partners.

You're speech is slurred, please refrain from speaking in odd lingo in future.

Thank you.
sorry if you didn’t understood me I thought it’s understandable,but your thinking still seems weird but nvm to each their own maby it’s different for others depending where and around which people they live
 
She

sorry if you didn’t understood me I thought it’s understandable,but your thinking still seems weird but nvm to each their own maby it’s different for others depending where and around which people they live
Olone the word candidate is strange,did you ever had a gf(not ment Offensiv)
Every word you typed had a 50% chance of being spelt correctly - or used with appropriate grammar. My ability to comprehend a thought isn't what is concerning.
 
Every word you typed had a 50% chance of being spelt correctly - or used with appropriate grammar. My ability to comprehend a thought isn't what is concerning.
I Never said it was concerning i choose a wrong language while typing don’t overreact
 
So M approached me at the senior sunrise as I was walking off to go take a piss in the forest. And she said that me and her had to take a photo together.

I was like "sure" and then her friends told me to put my arm around M

I didn't wanna do that cuz I didn't know her that well, so I didn't.

Still, ended up being in a photo with her. No idea what their motivations were.
Damm. Did you spend time with R at all?
 
M is giving too many mixed signals, get closer to R
 
Okay so I'm in my final year of school, and for context things are going pretty well right now. Just finished the first week.

But we got 2 issues.

Issue number 1 is..


In my 3rd period class, I met this girl, and I think she might be one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen.
She's got a wonderful smile, a gentle voice, and she has these adorable freckles as well as the most gorgeous hazel eyes I've seen. And funnily enough actually has a lighter skin tone than me in spite of the fact she's from Syria (I say this because I thought she was Turkish at first lmao)

I could probably go on, but all you need to know is that I have a crush on her.
We'll call her R.


I met her on pretty much the first day of this semester, when I was settling into my 3rd period class. She was one of the last people to walk into the room, and although other people had spots open next to them, she sat next to me.
(I doubt this means anything but it enabled me to actually get to know her a little, so I consider it a good thing)

Then the teacher made us get into groups for icebreakers, so one of the first things I did was turn to my left and ask R if she'd like to be in a group with me. She said yes, and we got like 1 more person in our group from there, with the day going by after that.

Later, about maybe a day or 2 ago I remember the teacher noticed we still had time left in the period after finishing a quiz, so she made us do this debate activity where 2 students come up to the front. Pick a small piece of paper with an animal's name on it from a jar, and attempt to debate which animal would beat which.

Me and this kid Jackson were the only 2 who actually volunteered. He got an elephant while I got a shark.
And after a little debating all you really need to know is that we reached the consensus that the shark gets obliterated on land, and the elephant gets obliterated in the water.

The important part, though, is that after the class ended I used the debate as an opportunity to talk to R some more, because I figured it was a good conversation starter.
And it was! After talking about that for a bit, we started discussing our classes we had. And as we were doing that, I ended up deciding to walk with her all the way to her class.

Which, surprisingly, she seemed alright with.
(And the reason I say that is because I just met her)

Moving on, though. We seem to have made walking & talking after class a regular thing. One problem though is that I've no idea if she's actually comfortable with me, someone she just met last week deciding to walk all the way to her class with her.
She's never addressed it, mind you, and mostly laughs and smiles when we talk on the way there, but you can never really be sure from just guessing.

TL;DR for this part: Met a gorgeous, smart girl in my third period class, I think she's interested in getting to know me but I'm not sure yet.


As for the second..:



So, as some of you may know from my Previous Thread, (go read it if you don't) I know this one girl that may or may not like me. I say that because she gives me pretty mixed messages (see the thread in question if u dunno what I mean)

We'll call her M.

So, after the events of my previous thread on her, M kind of just unadded me on snapchat. Which I thought was "whatever" and just thought she didn't like me anymore.

But at the end of the day today, as I was walking to the front to bike home, I hear someone calling my name, I take an earbud out and turn, and it's M.
She starts asking me how I've been and stuff like that, more or less acting like she didn't unfriend and more or less stop talking to me for months.

Still, I thought it was interesting how this girl with big tits and a fat ass still seemed to want to talk to me, so me and her had a convo about our classes and all that. It was pretty awkward, I'll admit.
Then, I kind of ended the conversation, and she said something that made me kinda laugh, she said "see you later".

What do you mean 'see you later'? Aren't you the same person that would talk to me randomly, and then randomly just ghost me?

But, as I was walking away, I turned back to ask her if she was going to the senior sunrise that was happening on the 7th. (I was already gonna be going there) So when I told her that id be there, she essentially just said "Alright, I'll see you there"



TL;DR for this part: Hot girl that used to talk with me, then ghosted me, once again just starts talking with me like nothing happened. I will admit I am still attracted to her, though. I definitely am.




So now I'm in a dilemma. Because my heart likes R, but my body definitely likes M.


If the ball was in your hands, what would you do?

Comment down below.
R why would the answer ever be M
 
what's ur gpa bro mines bad its 2.38. I'm not stupid like genuinely yesterday on the math map test I skimmed through and answer quickly( not just random clicking for most) I literally only randomly clicked 10 questions and still got average to above in all of the math topics. also I am crazy when it comes to breaking down peoms or writing stories. historys alr. maths alr but still its just only cause I have a hard time tracking assignments and shit
you still have to map in senior year???
 
Okay so I'm in my final year of school, and for context things are going pretty well right now. Just finished the first week.

But we got 2 issues.

Issue number 1 is..


In my 3rd period class, I met this girl, and I think she might be one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen.
She's got a wonderful smile, a gentle voice, and she has these adorable freckles as well as the most gorgeous hazel eyes I've seen. And funnily enough actually has a lighter skin tone than me in spite of the fact she's from Syria (I say this because I thought she was Turkish at first lmao)

I could probably go on, but all you need to know is that I have a crush on her.
We'll call her R.


I met her on pretty much the first day of this semester, when I was settling into my 3rd period class. She was one of the last people to walk into the room, and although other people had spots open next to them, she sat next to me.
(I doubt this means anything but it enabled me to actually get to know her a little, so I consider it a good thing)

Then the teacher made us get into groups for icebreakers, so one of the first things I did was turn to my left and ask R if she'd like to be in a group with me. She said yes, and we got like 1 more person in our group from there, with the day going by after that.

Later, about maybe a day or 2 ago I remember the teacher noticed we still had time left in the period after finishing a quiz, so she made us do this debate activity where 2 students come up to the front. Pick a small piece of paper with an animal's name on it from a jar, and attempt to debate which animal would beat which.

Me and this kid Jackson were the only 2 who actually volunteered. He got an elephant while I got a shark.
And after a little debating all you really need to know is that we reached the consensus that the shark gets obliterated on land, and the elephant gets obliterated in the water.

The important part, though, is that after the class ended I used the debate as an opportunity to talk to R some more, because I figured it was a good conversation starter.
And it was! After talking about that for a bit, we started discussing our classes we had. And as we were doing that, I ended up deciding to walk with her all the way to her class.

Which, surprisingly, she seemed alright with.
(And the reason I say that is because I just met her)

Moving on, though. We seem to have made walking & talking after class a regular thing. One problem though is that I've no idea if she's actually comfortable with me, someone she just met last week deciding to walk all the way to her class with her.
She's never addressed it, mind you, and mostly laughs and smiles when we talk on the way there, but you can never really be sure from just guessing.

TL;DR for this part: Met a gorgeous, smart girl in my third period class, I think she's interested in getting to know me but I'm not sure yet.


As for the second..:



So, as some of you may know from my Previous Thread, (go read it if you don't) I know this one girl that may or may not like me. I say that because she gives me pretty mixed messages (see the thread in question if u dunno what I mean)

We'll call her M.

So, after the events of my previous thread on her, M kind of just unadded me on snapchat. Which I thought was "whatever" and just thought she didn't like me anymore.

But at the end of the day today, as I was walking to the front to bike home, I hear someone calling my name, I take an earbud out and turn, and it's M.
She starts asking me how I've been and stuff like that, more or less acting like she didn't unfriend and more or less stop talking to me for months.

Still, I thought it was interesting how this girl with big tits and a fat ass still seemed to want to talk to me, so me and her had a convo about our classes and all that. It was pretty awkward, I'll admit.
Then, I kind of ended the conversation, and she said something that made me kinda laugh, she said "see you later".

What do you mean 'see you later'? Aren't you the same person that would talk to me randomly, and then randomly just ghost me?

But, as I was walking away, I turned back to ask her if she was going to the senior sunrise that was happening on the 7th. (I was already gonna be going there) So when I told her that id be there, she essentially just said "Alright, I'll see you there"



TL;DR for this part: Hot girl that used to talk with me, then ghosted me, once again just starts talking with me like nothing happened. I will admit I am still attracted to her, though. I definitely am.




So now I'm in a dilemma. Because my heart likes R, but my body definitely likes M.


If the ball was in your hands, what would you do?

Comment down below.
the amount of formating one uses just to tell a lifestory can be a concerning sign of autism
 
like bro pick the first girl the second girl sounds like a bum ✌️
 
like bro pick the first girl the second girl sounds like a bum ✌️
When i first met M i was assuming that if I could be friends with/date her it would open me up to a whole new amount of people to hang out with and get to know
 
100% r just how you talk abt her is almost the opposite to m.”
Guys I was talking again with her today and I really like the way she looks at me
 
When i first met M i was assuming that if I could be friends with/date her it would open me up to a whole new amount of people to hang out with and get to know
well i mean do you value meeting people over a relationship?
 
Bang them both, never call either again and act like it never happened.
 
Okay update

This friday (1 day ago) she (R) just kinda came to the table i was sitting at in my 3rd period with 2 of my other friends and asked if she could sit with us

We obviously said sure. Although I'm not sure if she came to sit with us because of the fact she's also friends with one of the people at my table, or because she wanted to sit with me
(I'm assuming it's the first option)

Anyway, I did get to know her a little bit more through convo, and I even got her on instagram.
Though, now I'm not really sure what to talk to her about over instagram. I'm at a bit of a loss of what to make conversation with.
 
Okay update

This friday (1 day ago) she (R) just kinda came to the table i was sitting at in my 3rd period with 2 of my other friends and asked if she could sit with us

We obviously said sure. Although I'm not sure if she came to sit with us because of the fact she's also friends with one of the people at my table, or because she wanted to sit with me
(I'm assuming it's the first option)

Anyway, I did get to know her a little bit more through convo, and I even got her on instagram.
Though, now I'm not really sure what to talk to her about over instagram. I'm at a bit of a loss of what to make conversation with.
If she post smth like it and ask smth about it
 

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