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BUT HE DOESNT WANT MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE IT'S SO OVER
time to break up don't waste time
its not going to work out if he isn't strongly attracted to you

people need to be strongly attracted and attached to each other in a relationship for it to work


u can't force someone to be attracted to u so u can't ro anything about it

if he doesn't like u and doesn't care u about and is a horrible person he might cheat on you (if he is a good guy he'll just break up)
 
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nothing is worse than alreday feeling like dookie and then cat doesn't want to let you hug himuiygurdtesytdjryfkeusldhadxgyfsj not even american dad is doing it tonight.
whydid i get this fat cat if he isn't even going to be my emotional support
THIS MORNING WHEN I WASN'T FULLY AWAKE HE CUDDLED WITH ME IN MY ARMS YIPPEEE!!!!!!!! LIFE IS NOT OVER AS LONG AS I HAVE MY BABY
 
i tried talking to him about things, i asked if he still liked me nd if he was forcing himself to stay with me he answered with a yes and a no but he said he has been thinkign about things between us and it is affecting him ? he didn't explain and he said he was going out with his sister and it's been 5 hours with no reply holy shit i am so cooked it's not even funny i wanna kms
Dont ask random strangers about your relationship. Figure things out yourself, you know whats right lol
 
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Then u should reaccess ur qualities as a s/o
i thought it was spelt reassess
and anyways I think I was doing everything right if not BETTER this time around, he was influenced by the opinions of his friends and thinking he could not give me what i wanted to break up with me
stupid reasons but i consider myself free anyways woohoo
 
i thought it was spelt reassess
and anyways I think I was doing everything right if not BETTER this time around, he was influenced by the opinions of his friends and thinking he could not give me what i wanted to break up with me
stupid reasons but i consider myself free anyways woohoo
What did his friends say
 
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What did his friends say
since some of his friends stopped talking to him like they used to he thinks it's cuz some of them know he r***d me
i am sure they didn't OUTRIGHT tell him "hey this is wrong of you to date her" especially because some of his friends knew about that since like May and he continued to pursue my over the summer

"Everyone knows and it’s not right
Not right that they know but not right that we’re together
No matter what I do people will only see me as that I will never be close to your friends etc
my friends your friends our friends
I don’t want you to have a lover with that background
Our past and my past actions for starters, how everyone knows, and I realize that I still have a lot of work that I need to do personally Ikik thst we could do that while being together but I can’t give you what you deserve right now"
-his texts
 
since some of his friends stopped talking to him like they used to he thinks it's cuz some of them know he r***d me
i am sure they didn't OUTRIGHT tell him "hey this is wrong of you to date her" especially because some of his friends knew about that since like May and he continued to pursue my over the summer

"Everyone knows and it’s not right
Not right that they know but not right that we’re together
No matter what I do people will only see me as that I will never be close to your friends etc
my friends your friends our friends
I don’t want you to have a lover with that background
Our past and my past actions for starters, how everyone knows, and I realize that I still have a lot of work that I need to do personally Ikik thst we could do that while being together but I can’t give you what you deserve right now"
-his texts
I don't know how anyone can live with doing that
 
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I don't know how anyone can live with doing that
Like it's so weird to think about how do you live knowing that for the rest of your life no matter what you do you did that
It wasn't like something violent or anything, I didn't even know I could call it r**e until I told my sister after our first break up. I knew it was wrong when it happened because of what I felt but I never called it by what it was until February of this year, I didn't accept it until June/August of this year and it happened September of last year

he is an odd one for being able to pursue me even after everything that happened tho that was odd
 
It wasn't like something violent or anything, I didn't even know I could call it r**e until I told my sister after our first break up. I knew it was wrong when it happened because of what I felt but I never called it by what it was until February of this year, I didn't accept it until June/August of this year and it happened September of last year

he is an odd one for being able to pursue me even after everything that happened tho that was odd
I don't mean to question too much cuz ik how sa feels but was it before yall dated
 
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  • #181
I don't mean to question too much cuz ik how sa feels but was it before yall dated
nope it was 4 months into dating and also it is okay to ask stuff, I would not have shared anything to begin with if I was not comfortable with it. Talking about it helps remind me that it happened and it was not normal too
 
nope it was 4 months into dating and also it is okay to ask stuff, I would not have shared anything to begin with if I was not comfortable with it. Talking about it helps remind me that it happened and it was not normal too
Mine I didn't know it was either I was in the ward and since it was just groping I didn't know it was sa
 
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Mine I didn't know it was either I was in the ward and since it was just groping I didn't know it was sa
yeah that seems hard to catch onto I don't blame you, and I know it's a lot harder to label sa as what it is for men as well
 
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  • #186
Yea I always thought it was only penetrative but I have had it happen like 2 times and one I guess doesn't count cuz I let it happen or got pressured but that felt the worse
HELL NAH IT COUNTS EVEN IF YOU FEEL PRESSURED INTO IT that's coercion bud!!! I have dealt with coercion in past two relationships but luckily it is easier to accept and overcome
 
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  • #189
I'm going to edit these once we stop talking
you can pm me too yk idm!! and to what you said yes that counts...especially if it was someone older who has the capability to know what they are doing
 

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