Can someone give me advise on how to ascend softmaxx or hardmaxx

[Ironingot]

I need all the help I can get I’m struggling atm

 

[GodOfHisOwn]

You want an advise? Maybe a brutal one at that. OK, listen to me now, buddy. You don't need anything at all. Yes, that's true. You don't need to obsess over your appearance unless you are gay or whatever. You are probably only thinking about how you look, which I can understand, but that won't fix any shitty problem in your life.

Will "transforming your looks" help you talk with more girls? Maybe.

Will it help you improve all the other areas of your life? No, it won't. Because if you really took a look at it, all those "glow up" guys seem so superficial that even Neo from Matrix stays normal next to them.

What do you need instead? You need friends, you need financial stability (you gotta find ways to multiply your wealth), you need interesting stuffs to spend time with (so that you will have something to talk about later). See? None of these things have to do anything with women. None, zero, nil. You gotta live for yourself and only for yourself. I am not even that good looking (probably 6/10, which I find stupid to put a rate on anything) but I am social. I learned it my way and I live my life my way.

So, back to the real, take-the-home advises:

• If you want to start from somewhere, start with having friendships with other guys. You'll see it is more fun to talk with other guys than to talk with majority of women (also, before being good at talking with women, you have to get good at talking with other men).
• Surf on the Reddit to find some hobbies you think you will be enjoy doing. If you have Internet and a place to live already, you have no excuses. Just go and check it out.
• If you have bad relationship with your family, try fixing it because they are the only people who will be there for you. Not your friends. Not even women. Only your parents (and siblings if you have a good one).

Here, this is ALL you NEED to hear. Take care.

 

[PslAngel]

You want an advise? Maybe a brutal one at that. OK, listen to me now, buddy. You don't need anything at all. Yes, that's true. You don't need to obsess over your appearance unless you are gay or whatever. You are probably only thinking about how you look, which I can understand, but that won't fix any shitty problem in your life.

Will "tranforming your looks" help you talk with more girls? Maybe.

Will it help you improve all the other areas of your life? No, it won't. Because if you really took a look at it, all those "glow up" guys seem so superficial that even Neo from Matrix stays normal next to them.

What do you need instead? You need friends, you need financial stability (you gotta find ways to multiply your wealth), you need interesting stuffs to spend time with (so that you will have something to talk about later). See? None of these things have to do anything with women. None, zero, nil. You gotta live for yourself and only for yourself. I am not even that good looking (probably 6/10, which I find stupid to put a rate on anything) but I am social. I learned it my way and I live my life my way.

So, back to the real, take-the-home advises:

• If you want to start from somewhere, start with having friendships with other guys. You'll see it is more fun to talk with other guys than to talk with majority of women (also, before being good at talking with women, you have to get good at talking with other men).
• Surf on the Reddit to find some hobbies you think you will be enjoy doing. If you have Internet and a place to live already, you have no excuses. Just go and check it out.
• If you have bad relationship with your family, try fixing it because they are the only people who will be there for you. Not your friends. Not even women. Only your parents (and siblings if you have a good one).

Here, this is ALL you NEED to hear. Take care.

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[GodOfHisOwn]

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Seriously, dude. No need to get obsessed over some superficial thing. Aesthetics are not forever. You grow older each time and all the "sharp look" etc you have disappear as a result of it. If one needs to obsess over something, providing value should be that thing.

 

[PslAngel]

Seriously, dude. No need to get obsessed over some superficial thing. Aesthetics are not forever. You grow older each time and all the "sharp look" etc you have disappear as a result of it. If one needs to obsess over something, providing value should be that thing.

i am obsessing over school and human connections, idc anymore about looks, people overrate their value on rl

 

[GodOfHisOwn]

i am obsessing over school and human connections, idc anymore about looks

That's the way to go. No need to mention what deemed as "popular" is of no value, usually.

Compare bestseller books with some underrated books that isn't popular but provides more value than that shitty book with flashy cover can (if it does/can, at all). The bestseller one can have more reader base but it doesn't mean anything if all the readers are just teens.

 

[IBLAMEfwhr]

I need all the help I can get I’m struggling atm

Over

That's the way to go. No need to mention what deemed as "popular" is of no value, usually.

Compare bestseller books with some underrated books that isn't popular but provides more value than that shitty book with flashy cover can (if it does/can, at all). The bestseller one can have more reader base but it doesn't mean anything if all the readers are just teens.

cope

 

[GodOfHisOwn]

cope

Good luck with your loser life. Don't forget getting some oxygen in your mom's basement.

 

[IBLAMEfwhr]

Good luck with your loser life. Don't forget getting some oxygen in your mom's basement.

Keep coping f*g it’s all genetics and u can’t do anything

 

[GodOfHisOwn]

Keep coping f*g it’s all genetics and u can’t do anything

It is not me who hates himself, it is YOU. If you get sad because of something you cannot change, then more power to you.