Chad is a mindset.

[tonisworld]

Im kinda joking but also think about it, I seen so many mid dudes with the hottest chicks, theyre confident n have their shit together. Ive seen maried couples with guys heavily punching and the girls are none the wiser or they rhink they are the most handsome on earth

 

[Deleted Member 102155]

lol

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

new cope unlocked or old cope remembered?

 

[tonisworld]

new cope unlocked or old cope remembered?

Its not cope tho bro, its true. Sure if ur 0.1% of handsome your life is easy mode but thats 0.1% alot of mid guys walking around w smoking wives who love them. Dudes w pot bellies n shit n the women are swoon over them. I dont get it either but its a real thing.

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

Its not cope tho bro, its true. Sure if ur 0.1% of handsome your life is easy mode but thats 0.1% alot of mid guys walking around w smoking wives who love them. Dudes w pot bellies n shit n the women are swoon over them. I dont get it either but its a real thing.

having a pretty≠being a chad
u know absolutely nothing about the dynamics and specifics of the relationship
useless optimistic unjustified inferrences make u think that ur idea is valid

 

[tonisworld]

having a pretty≠being a chad
u know absolutely nothing about the dynamics and specifics of the relationship
useless optimistic unjustified inferrences make u think that ur idea is valid

I didnt understand what you saying bro sorry say that again.

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

I didnt understand what you saying bro sorry say that again.

basically bro
u don't really know the whole picture
what u said about chadness is in the mind is just invalid because it doesn't have any sort of valid facts backing
you simply assumed stuff without full knowledge of everything you observed

 

[tonisworld]

basically bro
u don't really know the whole picture
what u said about chadness is in the mind is just invalid because it doesn't have any sort of valid facts backing
you simply assumed stuff without full knowledge of everything you observed

What im saying, from experience and general life observations I have seen plenty of chopped/mid whatever below chad guys with really hot smoking girls who love them and are swoon over them and think theyre the most amazing person. Married hotties to bloated messes. Sure there are dynamics which consist of men being cucked cause theyre not good looking but many instances its not that way. Ive also seen ugly af dudes get with insanely hot girls even just for the night etc etc. By mindset I mean, you can be confident and charming and get by. IK chads have it easier but its not all doom n gloom im js

 

[PslAngel]

charisma makes you chad if you are already tall and at least htn..

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

What im saying, from experience and general life observations I have seen plenty of chopped/mid whatever below chad guys with really hot smoking girls who love them and are swoon over them and think theyre the most amazing person. Married hotties to bloated messes. Sure there are dynamics which consist of men being cucked cause theyre not good looking but many instances its not that way. Ive also seen ugly af dudes get with insanely hot girls even just for the night etc etc. By mindset I mean, you can be confident and charming and get by. IK chads have it easier but its not all doom n gloom im js

simply too little information to make any assertions bro

 

[Kingdom of Lotharingia]

Im kinda joking but also think about it, I seen so many mid dudes with the hottest chicks, theyre confident n have their shit together. Ive seen maried couples with guys heavily punching and the girls are none the wiser or they rhink they are the most handsome on earth

First, this is anecdotal evidence. Second, those are probably looksmatched couples.

 

[tonisworld]

First, this is anecdotal evidence. Second, those are probably looksmatched couples.

nah I seen legit ogres dating princesses bro, its even a famous meme especially for slavic countries.

 

[Deleted Member 104851]

Im kinda joking but also think about it, I seen so many mid dudes with the hottest chicks, theyre confident n have their shit together. Ive seen maried couples with guys heavily punching and the girls are none the wiser or they rhink they are the most handsome on earth

True

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

First, this is anecdotal evidence. Second, those are probably looksmatched couples.

anecdotes aren't inherently bad
but this is just unjustified extrapolations on some arbitrary observation

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

nah I seen legit ogres dating princesses bro, its even a famous meme especially for slavic countries.

slavic places have men crisises
also not really evidence of anything
most stable couples are looksmatched

 

[tonisworld]

charisma makes you chad if you are already tall and at least htn..

i dont wanna say CHAD, im just being hyperbolic, what I really mean is you can get hot girls without having to be chad, just having charisma is enough. Ive seen fat fun dudes who get girls, you can say im coping but ive seen it w my own eyes they would go for them regardless of their appearance cause they prefer being around them, in uni campuses i seen so many conventionally attractive guys get turnd away cause they act like deuce bags and the girl ends up going or dating the fat guy whos normal looking, similarly your style can also change how ur percieved. i know it all sounds like cope but this is my experiece. ALSO different cultures find different things attractive. In china men for example, they literally shave off their cheekbones and jawlines to look softer as thats more desirable for girls. anyways long story short is its not over for mids. Not me though im htn <.<

 

[Kingdom of Lotharingia]

nah I seen legit ogres dating princesses bro, its even a famous meme especially for slavic countries.

Highly doubt this in 2026, 9/10 times it is the other way around.

 

[tonisworld]

slavic places have men crisises
also not really evidence of anything
most stable couples are looksmatched

I agree on all of these, especially most stable couples are for sure looks maxxed or rather they both find each other just as attractive not necessarily the world finds them equal

 

[tonisworld]

Highly doubt this in 2026, 9/10 times it is the other way around.

Highly doubt this in 2026, 9/10 times it is the other way around.

Dont you think it depends on where you are & culture etc etc.