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Charisma maxxing tips?

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I struggle to sustain conversations. I’m curious and I ask questions, yet I somehow find ways to make the momentum die (I know conversations require two people but I just know I'm the problem). In friendships I can kinda mask this by doing an activity with my friends but outside of doing some sort of activity with someone I can not hold conversation for very long. I suffer the most from being a bad conversationalist in the dating scene. I do not struggle to get dates with the women I'm interested so I gotta be doing something right but I might just be the most boring person ever to be on a date with. Any tips on being more charismatic? like where to start?
 
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I struggle to sustain conversations. I’m curious and I ask questions, yet I somehow find ways to make the momentum die (I know conversations require two people but I just know I'm the problem). In friendships I can kinda mask this by doing an activity with my friends but outside of doing some sort of activity with someone I can not hold conversation for very long. I suffer the most from being a bad conversationalist in the dating scene. I do not struggle to get dates with the women I'm interested so I gotta be doing something right but I might just be the most boring person ever to be on a date with. Any tips on being more charismatic? like where to start?
Dnr but shiii prolly pregab
 
I struggle to sustain conversations. I’m curious and I ask questions, yet I somehow find ways to make the momentum die (I know conversations require two people but I just know I'm the problem). In friendships I can kinda mask this by doing an activity with my friends but outside of doing some sort of activity with someone I can not hold conversation for very long. I suffer the most from being a bad conversationalist in the dating scene. I do not struggle to get dates with the women I'm interested so I gotta be doing something right but I might just be the most boring person ever to be on a date with. Any tips on being more charismatic? like where to start?
not a single molecule just milk my willy dry for lower inhib
 
I struggle to sustain conversations. I’m curious and I ask questions, yet I somehow find ways to make the momentum die (I know conversations require two people but I just know I'm the problem). In friendships I can kinda mask this by doing an activity with my friends but outside of doing some sort of activity with someone I can not hold conversation for very long. I suffer the most from being a bad conversationalist in the dating scene. I do not struggle to get dates with the women I'm interested so I gotta be doing something right but I might just be the most boring person ever to be on a date with. Any tips on being more charismatic? like where to start?
yo someone answer this nigguh 😭
 
I struggle to sustain conversations. I’m curious and I ask questions, yet I somehow find ways to make the momentum die (I know conversations require two people but I just know I'm the problem). In friendships I can kinda mask this by doing an activity with my friends but outside of doing some sort of activity with someone I can not hold conversation for very long. I suffer the most from being a bad conversationalist in the dating scene. I do not struggle to get dates with the women I'm interested so I gotta be doing something right but I might just be the most boring person ever to be on a date with. Any tips on being more charismatic? like where to start?

Be genuinely curious and listen actively everyone likes talking about themselves. Instead of just firing questions, mix them with short stories or reflections about yourself that relate to what they say. Give validation and ask follow-up questions that genuinely engage them, not just gather information. Also subtly mirror their tone. Do this consistently, and people will feel like you “get them,” which is the core of charisma (and looks of course!). Also, energy is contagious: your enthusiasm and presence set the tone for the conversation, but keep it natural and don’t overdo it. When you’re comfortable, people will pick up on that and respond more openly.
 
I struggle to sustain conversations. I’m curious and I ask questions, yet I somehow find ways to make the momentum die (I know conversations require two people but I just know I'm the problem). In friendships I can kinda mask this by doing an activity with my friends but outside of doing some sort of activity with someone I can not hold conversation for very long. I suffer the most from being a bad conversationalist in the dating scene. I do not struggle to get dates with the women I'm interested so I gotta be doing something right but I might just be the most boring person ever to be on a date with. Any tips on being more charismatic? like where to start?
honestly just watch a bunch of videos about this on yt theres so much good info you'll figure it out, the redpill is real, but not just the alpha stuff like the smart people, but some actual advice is yeah make it totally about them be interested in them fr.
 
I struggle to sustain conversations. I’m curious and I ask questions, yet I somehow find ways to make the momentum die (I know conversations require two people but I just know I'm the problem). In friendships I can kinda mask this by doing an activity with my friends but outside of doing some sort of activity with someone I can not hold conversation for very long. I suffer the most from being a bad conversationalist in the dating scene. I do not struggle to get dates with the women I'm interested so I gotta be doing something right but I might just be the most boring person ever to be on a date with. Any tips on being more charismatic? like where to start?
and read books on social skills
 
Put yourself in situations where you feel uncomfortable, so you get more comfortable with the uncomfortable.

The more you put yourself out there and learn who you are, you can talk about whatever you.. want
 

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