Serious Confidence advice

[aspiringpslgodess]

Even after improving my looks significantly i’m still not happy with myself. I don’t know what i need to do to be secure in myself and that’s partly because i have no idea who i am or what im doing with my life anymore. Everyone around me tells me all time that I look good and i’m getting more and more attention from guys but it doesn’t begin to make a dent in my self hatred. I was never really confident to begin with but I want to be. I know it’s what’s really holding me back but i’m unsure how to begin to like myself.

 

[Luffy]

I’ve gone through the same thing before I always hate when someone even mentions looks to me. In my experience just do you and I’m sure the confidence will come with it. I myself have not overcome this hill yet

 

[cronomorph]

Even after improving my looks significantly i’m still not happy with myself. I don’t know what i need to do to be secure in myself and that’s partly because i have no idea who i am or what im doing with my life anymore. Everyone around me tells me all time that I look good and i’m getting more and more attention from guys but it doesn’t begin to make a dent in my self hatred. I was never really confident to begin with but I want to be. I know it’s what’s really holding me back but i’m unsure how to begin to like myself.

PM me your face. I'll let you know if you deserve confidence
Edit: I'm so sorry this is so corny

 

[Gesandt]

Even after improving my looks significantly i’m still not happy with myself. I don’t know what i need to do to be secure in myself and that’s partly because i have no idea who i am or what im doing with my life anymore. Everyone around me tells me all time that I look good and i’m getting more and more attention from guys but it doesn’t begin to make a dent in my self hatred. I was never really confident to begin with but I want to be. I know it’s what’s really holding me back but i’m unsure how to begin to like myself.

walking past a somali

 

[HerculesJr.]

Even after improving my looks significantly i’m still not happy with myself. I don’t know what i need to do to be secure in myself and that’s partly because i have no idea who i am or what im doing with my life anymore. Everyone around me tells me all time that I look good and i’m getting more and more attention from guys but it doesn’t begin to make a dent in my self hatred. I was never really confident to begin with but I want to be. I know it’s what’s really holding me back but i’m unsure how to begin to like myself.

Idk how to get more confident it just happened.

What I do is just remind myself that I shouldn't waste my time in life caring about people's perspectives of my life or what I do. Because it isn't fuckin' about them to begin with.

 

[h4untara]

let me know when u fucking find out

 

[estrogencel]

Even after improving my looks significantly i’m still not happy with myself. I don’t know what i need to do to be secure in myself and that’s partly because i have no idea who i am or what im doing with my life anymore. Everyone around me tells me all time that I look good and i’m getting more and more attention from guys but it doesn’t begin to make a dent in my self hatred. I was never really confident to begin with but I want to be. I know it’s what’s really holding me back but i’m unsure how to begin to like myself.

Idk if this sounds corny (sorry if it does) but what worked for me was limiting my negative self talk and trying to be more positive, start taking small risks/steps to get to where you want to be in the future without just thinking about it, start focusing on what you enjoy and applaud yourself whenever you do smthg to be proud of. Like imagine yourself but you're exactly who you want to be, list those traits and see what you can do to start taking action, for example if I wanted to be able to talk to people easier I could start by trying to ask more questions in convos and initiating them. Don't rush things and take time to figure out the root causes for why you dislike things about yourself. Goodluck external validation won't do anything to you if you view yourself negative internally

 

[Alexanderthegreat1]

Pm me when you find the answer

 

[Vincent Kennedy McMahon]

Even after improving my looks significantly i’m still not happy with myself. I don’t know what i need to do to be secure in myself and that’s partly because i have no idea who i am or what im doing with my life anymore. Everyone around me tells me all time that I look good and i’m getting more and more attention from guys but it doesn’t begin to make a dent in my self hatred. I was never really confident to begin with but I want to be. I know it’s what’s really holding me back but i’m unsure how to begin to like myself.

Sounds like you expected ascending to magically fix years of self-hate. If your default mindset is "I'm still not enough," you'll just keep goalposting forever. Today it's your face, tomorrow it'll be something else.

Biggest thing is stop being your own biggest hater. Every W you get, you instantly brush it off and start obsessing over the next flaw. You're basically training your brain to never be satisfied.

Learn to bank your Ws. Give yourself credit when you actually improve instead of acting like it doesn't count. Halo gets you validation, not self-worth. That's a completely different grind, and no amount of PSL is gonna fix a brain that's constantly hating on itself.

 

[submissivechud]

Even after improving my looks significantly i’m still not happy with myself. I don’t know what i need to do to be secure in myself and that’s partly because i have no idea who i am or what im doing with my life anymore. Everyone around me tells me all time that I look good and i’m getting more and more attention from guys but it doesn’t begin to make a dent in my self hatred. I was never really confident to begin with but I want to be. I know it’s what’s really holding me back but i’m unsure how to begin to like myself.

Cute avi
Try talking to a therapist

 

[aspiringpslgodess]

Pm me when you find the answer

i will

 

[aspiringpslgodess]

Cute avi
Try talking to a therapist

yeah i had one but she didn’t do shit for me and never remembered anything i told her so im getting a new one soon

 

[Zygos]

just pretend, this is what i did and kinda still do, i didn’t know how to socialise or be human so i just started looking at home other people do it and mimicking it perfectly without ever being sincere. i basically built myself a mask to wear in public

 

[kissthewallG]

Even after improving my looks significantly i’m still not happy with myself. I don’t know what i need to do to be secure in myself and that’s partly because i have no idea who i am or what im doing with my life anymore. Everyone around me tells me all time that I look good and i’m getting more and more attention from guys but it doesn’t begin to make a dent in my self hatred. I was never really confident to begin with but I want to be. I know it’s what’s really holding me back but i’m unsure how to begin to like myself.

psychiatrist

 

[aspiringpslgodess]

psychiatrist

yeah unfortunately i’m unmedicated for all my issues but i’m considering getting adhd meds soon

 

[kissthewallG]

yeah unfortunately i’m unmedicated for all my issues but i’m considering getting adhd meds soon

u will get jew'd by this meds, in the end u will still need to adapt ur mind naturally.

 

[aspiringpslgodess]

u will get jew'd by this meds, in the end u will still need to adapt ur mind naturally.

yeah i’m also paradoxically scared of losing my personality and seeming too normal

 

[kissthewallG]

yeah i’m also paradoxically scared of losing my personality and seeming too normal

u are 15? i think it will go naturally when u grow, i got better when i aged and i don't think about any of this things, u are just in difficult period, no need goy meds and therapy.

 

[Adamlul]

Even after improving my looks significantly i’m still not happy with myself. I don’t know what i need to do to be secure in myself and that’s partly because i have no idea who i am or what im doing with my life anymore. Everyone around me tells me all time that I look good and i’m getting more and more attention from guys but it doesn’t begin to make a dent in my self hatred. I was never really confident to begin with but I want to be. I know it’s what’s really holding me back but i’m unsure how to begin to like myself.

Fucking hell, I have the same problem now

 

[aesthetixx]

buy some designer jewellery

 

[Iblamegonions]

Even after improving my looks significantly i’m still not happy with myself. I don’t know what i need to do to be secure in myself and that’s partly because i have no idea who i am or what im doing with my life anymore. Everyone around me tells me all time that I look good and i’m getting more and more attention from guys but it doesn’t begin to make a dent in my self hatred. I was never really confident to begin with but I want to be. I know it’s what’s really holding me back but i’m unsure how to begin to like myself.

Looks dont create confidence your mind does when i started to look little good my life doesn’t change at all i was happier then when i was ugly