Dating as an autistic woman

[Chifuyu]

i never said that there's anything wrong with that
ethnic girls just have a weird obsession with white/ east asian guys

Koreans are stealing all the girls. It’s over.

 

[Deleted Member 67860]

Koreans are stealing all the girls. It’s over.

never began for us ethnic ogrecels

 

[Stardust_]

i never said that there's anything wrong with that
ethnic girls just have a weird obsession with white/ east asian guys

I’ve dated many East Asian guys

 

[Chifuyu]

never began for us ethnic ogrecels

Moroccan prettyboy ramblings. Try being an actual sub3 truecel like me.

 

[Deleted Member 67860]

I’ve dated many East Asian guys

are you ethnic?

 

[Chifuyu]

are you ethnic?

No, she’s probably white. You can tell from the OP, the way she phrases it.

 

[Deleted Member 67860]

Moroccan prettyboy ramblings. Try being an actual sub3 truecel like me.

give me 5 years when the nafri genes start to hit and ill look like an ogre
and ive heard from users that you look decent so

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

NT guys don’t take me seriously and I don’t see the red flags in guys, they like me for a while and then leave, I imagine it’s 10x harder for other women who aren’t white

Aren’t you 26

 

[Chifuyu]

give me 5 years when the nafri genes start to hit and ill look like an ogre
and ive heard from users that you look decent so

While it’s true that prettyboys don’t last long, I doubt it would be bad enough to turn you into an ogre.

And those users are just joking/trolling you.

 

[Chifuyu]

Aren’t you 26

Really, lol. Good to know there aren’t only uncs around, but aunties too.

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

Really, lol. Good to know there aren’t only uncs around, but aunties too.

yeah lol pretty sure she had it in her bio that she’s 26 before
Crazy bro still haven’t figured her shit our sorry

 

[Stardust_]

Aren’t you 26

Yeah

 

[Stardust_]

No, she’s probably white. You can tell from the OP, the way she phrases it.

I’m white

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

Yeah

Girl lock in what are you doing

 

[Chifuyu]

yeah lol pretty sure she had it in her bio that she’s 26 before
Crazy bro still haven’t figured her shit our sorry

Haha. Maybe you can’t figure her out because she’s autistic (as per her own words) and you’re NT. You won’t be on similar wavelengths, basically.

 

[Stardust_]

Girl lock in what are you doing

I can’t lock in if I just get ghosted

 

[Chifuyu]

I’m white

Do you like kpop?

 

[Stardust_]

Haha. Maybe you can’t figure her out because she’s autistic (as per her own words) and you’re NT. You won’t be on similar wavelengths, basically.

Well I’ve been honest on here would you prefer I was like a 50 year old guy or something?

 

[Stardust_]

Do you like kpop?

Yeah but I’m not obsessed with it

 

[Chifuyu]

Well I’ve been honest on here would you prefer I was like a 50 year old guy or something?

I just said I was glad to know there’s aunties on here. I’m 29 myself, it’s usually younger people.

 

[Chifuyu]

Yeah but I’m not obsessed with it

Same. I’ve been to a show before. I was one of the very few guys there, lol.

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

I can’t lock in if I just get ghosted

Lock in as in get your shit together
I’m 18 also autistic but I just got my shit together and get my game up
Sorry but you cant say you miss red flags at 26 that’s just being gullible as fuck

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

Insane an 18 year old is giving advice to a 26 year old girl get off incel forums and go out pls

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

Haha. Maybe you can’t figure her out because she’s autistic (as per her own words) and you’re NT. You won’t be on similar wavelengths, basically.

No im saying its crazy she still hasn’t figured her stuff out
Im also diagnosed autistic. Just ntmaxxing

 

[geneticCage]

It's all about looks anyway

 

[Stardust_]

Insane a 18 year old is giving advice to a 26 year old girl get off incel forums and go out pls

I do go outside but honestly like do the same? You are 18 shouldn’t be listening to other guys on here

 

[Stardust_]

I just said I was glad to know there’s aunties on here. I’m 29 myself, it’s usually younger people.

Why are you on here at 29, just curious

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

I do go outside but honestly like do the same? You are 18 shouldn’t be listening to other guys on here

??? What

 

[Chifuyu]

No im saying its crazy she still hasn’t figured her stuff out
Im also diagnosed autistic. Just ntmaxxing

Wow, you’re also autistic? I wouldn’t have guessed (this isn’t sarcasm).

 

[Stardust_]

??? What

I don’t get it why you are on here telling me to get off here when some guys on here are like way older than 18 and giving advice to 17-18 year olds :/

 

[Stardust_]

Wow, you’re also autistic? I wouldn’t have guessed (this isn’t sarcasm).

Most people are autistic on here

 

[Chifuyu]

Why are you on here at 29, just curious

Mainly just to socialize a bit, and to moderate — I’m also a staff member over at .org.

I probably wouldn’t have been as active as I am (and truthfully, I am barely even that active) if I were a regular user.

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

I don’t get it why you are on here telling me to get off here when some guys on here are like way older than 18 and giving advice to 17-18 year olds :/

Im only on here out of boredom
I go outside everyday

 

[Chifuyu]

Most people are autistic on here

Not me. I have OCD though.

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

Wow, you’re also autistic? I wouldn’t have guessed (this isn’t sarcasm).

Hmm yeah I just learned how to act

 

[Chifuyu]

Im only on here out of boredom
I go outside everyday View attachment 159545

Is that you? If so — Are you mixed?

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

Not me. I have OCD though.

What type of ocd?

 

[Chifuyu]

Hmm yeah I just learned how to act

Fake it till you make it type shit.

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

Is that you? If so — Are you mixed?

No im not
Why do you think im mixed, I get that a lot

 

[Stardust_]

Mainly just to socialize a bit, and to moderate — I’m also a staff member over at .org.

I probably wouldn’t have been as active as I am (and truthfully, I am barely even that active) if I were a regular user.

I’m not allowed on org, it’s for guys. That’s interesting, I only made an account to see what was going on here and also due to a personal experience. I might delete or be less active soon as sometimes it’s toxic

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

Fake it till you make it type shit.

Exactly

 

[Stardust_]

Im only on here out of boredom
I go outside everyday View attachment 159545

Me too

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

I’m not allowed on org, it’s for guys. That’s interesting, I only made an account to see what was going on here and also due to a personal experience. I might delete or be less active soon as sometimes it’s toxic

Just act like a man like me I have like 3 accs on there

 

[Chifuyu]

What type of ocd?

Contamination mainly. But I’ve also got more types. Intrusive thoughts, intrusive images. I also have to check the door whether I closed it or not a few times. Sometimes I walk and then I walk back just to check if I actually closed it. And then sometimes I’ll still doubt myself when I’m riding public transport.

 

[Stardust_]

Just act like a man like me I have like 3 accs on there

Uh from what I’ve heard of it it’s worse than this place tbh

 

[Chifuyu]

I’m not allowed on org, it’s for guys. That’s interesting, I only made an account to see what was going on here and also due to a personal experience. I might delete or be less active soon as sometimes it’s toxic

I don’t think you should delete, maybe just engage in threads that aren’t toxic or engage with non-toxic users. I admit it’s definitely more toxic on here than I’d like it to be, but I’d say I prefer .com over .org because it’s less toxic.

 

[Chifuyu]

Just act like a man like me I have like 3 accs on there

She wouldn’t want to have an account on there, .org is a lot more toxic than .com.

 

[Stardust_]

She wouldn’t want to have an account on there, .org is a lot more toxic than .com.

I’ve browsed it already. I’d say it’s almost the same as incels.is

 

[Chifuyu]

I’ve browsed it already. I’d say it’s almost the same as incels.is

I’d say .is is even worse in terms of toxicity. I actually have had an account over at .is since 2017 but I don’t really like using that forum, mainly because of how toxic the users are. I’m active mostly on .org and on here. For example, at .is I recall there was a user who was extremely depressed because he lost his little sister (who was an actual prepubescent child) and people were saying such nasty stuff about how she deserved it because she’s female, and others even sexualizing her. It was too much even for that guy, because he quit using that forum afterward. He was also very suicidal so who knows. I hope he’s still alive though. Fuck .is.

 

[Deleted Member 489426]

Contamination mainly. But I’ve also got more types. Intrusive thoughts, intrusive images. I also have to check the door whether I closed it or not a few times. Sometimes I walk and then I walk back just to check if I actually closed it. And then sometimes I’ll still doubt myself when I’m riding public transport.

I think I might have ocd but I don’t know if what I do is because of autism or if I have ocd