dating depresses me lately

[i<3eggs]

i have a really hard time going on dates or having faith in guys, even guys i like. i am always afraid they are using or manipulating me to hook up with, and a lot of times that is the intention. like only taking me out or being sweet in the hopes that we will hook up. my hope is always to find a “soulmate” ig. the idea of allowing someone to hook up with me and then they lose interest after makes me sick. i recently went on a “date” with a guy, he let me believe that he was planning a real date, but really he just wanted to come over, watch a movie and try to hook up. and this guy had pursued me for a long time too. i just told him that im sorry, we can’t have sex and afterwards i just felt so discouraged and stuff like that just makes me lose faith. i stopped talking to him. im a huge hopeless romantic and this stuff just kills my spirit

 

[RAD]

still more play than me

 

[milkjar]

-stacy

 

[dipenhydramine]

hmm ya maybe dont look on dating app and stuff den

 

[BigDihDiddy]

I mean idk what to tell u u are literally going for the 1% of guys who are like this

I walk around and 90% of men are cucks who’d wait 20 years for sex if u said so these guys ur dating have options and are cocky

 

[i<3eggs]

I mean idk what to tell u u are literally going for the 1% of guys who are like this

I walk around and 90% of men are cucks who’d wait 20 years for sex if u said so these guys ur dating have options and are cocky

the guys i’m around are young, college aged guys. i am a young, college aged girl. that’s just the crowd im around. who would you suggest i go for?

 

[i<3eggs]

hmm ya maybe dont look on dating app and stuff den

guys irl just want to hook up as well

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

i have a really hard time going on dates or having faith in guys, even guys i like. i am always afraid they are using or manipulating me to hook up with, and a lot of times that is the intention. like only taking me out or being sweet in the hopes that we will hook up. my hope is always to find a “soulmate” ig. the idea of allowing someone to hook up with me and then they lose interest after makes me sick. i recently went on a “date” with a guy, he let me believe that he was planning a real date, but really he just wanted to come over, watch a movie and try to hook up. and this guy had pursued me for a long time too. i just told him that im sorry, we can’t have sex and afterwards i just felt so discouraged and stuff like that just makes me lose faith. i stopped talking to him. im a huge hopeless romantic and this stuff just kills my spirit

You can thank the Israeli government for the state of dating in the big 2025 hard to filter these people out before meeting them I think

I mean idk what to tell u u are literally going for the 1% of guys who are like this

I walk around and 90% of men are cucks who’d wait 20 years for sex if u said so these guys ur dating have options and are cocky

Idk what people you have around you then, even the ltn guys I know date ugly girls to get slays but they tell them they would wife them up and whatever