Discussion developing social skills

[Deleted member 42538]

After being very ugly for a long time i dont know hiw to talk to people. But now i feel like i finally have the confidence to speak to and meet new people. A few people have spoken to me but i usually mess up the replies. I dont know what to do to learn how to talk to people. My city doesnt really have any “events” or gatherings where people would speak to strangers. I would like to be approached/approach someone on the street. Or is online the best way to meet ppl in ur area, but then im scared theyll meet me and be disappointed.

There have been a few people i wanted to approach but i just dont know what to say and get scared. Also im just looking for friends nothing more.

 

[Deleted Member 59374]

mess up

@Mess cameo

 

[Mess]

start small, go on calls regularly with people you can talk with well
Then keep pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone

 

[Blackpill]

After being very ugly for a long time i dont know hiw to talk to people. But now i feel like i finally have the confidence to speak to and meet new people. A few people have spoken to me but i usually mess up the replies. I dont know what to do to learn how to talk to people. My city doesnt really have any “events” or gatherings where people would speak to strangers. I would like to be approached/approach someone on the street. Or is online the best way to meet ppl in ur area, but then im scared theyll meet me and be disappointed.

There have been a few people i wanted to approach but i just dont know what to say and get scared. Also im just looking for friends nothing more.

Made a guide on this already I can post it if you want.

 

[Deleted member 42538]

people you can talk with well

 

[Deleted member 42538]

Made a guide on this already I can post it if you want.

yes please

 

[DarkAscender]

After being very ugly for a long time i dont know hiw to talk to people. But now i feel like i finally have the confidence to speak to and meet new people. A few people have spoken to me but i usually mess up the replies. I dont know what to do to learn how to talk to people. My city doesnt really have any “events” or gatherings where people would speak to strangers. I would like to be approached/approach someone on the street. Or is online the best way to meet ppl in ur area, but then im scared theyll meet me and be disappointed.

There have been a few people i wanted to approach but i just dont know what to say and get scared. Also im just looking for friends nothing more.

Its just something u gotta practice on. Literally walk up to a girl in a library or sum or public space and then try and strike up a convo and if the convo flows well go from there.

 

[Deleted member 42538]

Its just something u gotta practice on. Literally walk up to a girl in a library or sum or public space and then try and strike up a convo and if the convo flows well go from there.

btw i literally have not had a real conversation with anyone for 5+ years

 

[DarkAscender]

btw i literally have not had a real conversation with anyone for 5+ years

do u like not go to school? work? family? how are u that cooked

 

[Deleted member 42538]

do u like not go to school? work? family? how are u that cooked

i dont have any family and ive been doing home school until now never had a job