Did I make a mistake looksmaxxing?

[rand anon]

By looksmaxxing, I mean softmaxxing as well as joining and engaging in the online community. Imo, as a guy, looksmaxxing is only worth it if it results in you significantly improving ur looks to the point where you can have a dating and social life. The only issue with that is you won’t know whether that’s possible until you’ve softmaxxed, and by then ur too far down the rabbit hole.

Sure I received some benefits like overall better treatment, but that’s about it. It wasn’t rly enough to ascend. Like I could prob get into a relationship now but it’d be with landwhales, no thx jfl Looksmaxxing just made me go from super ugly to ugly.

Feel like my life would hve been better off if I just put my head down and stayed bluepilled. I would’ve been able to focus on college, maintain the few connections I made my first year, prob would hve gotten internships, graduate on time, and I would’ve been well into my career by now. Sure I wouldn’t hve ever improved my looks if i took that path but I’d atleast hve financial security, and maybe a social circle. Prob could’ve even gotten a relationship, although def not with my looksmatch jfl

TLDR: bluepill>looksmaxxing for people with bad bases

I want my frens thoughts @Dandelions @Duchesse @HairyCat @TonyDr @Randomized @giga.mia @arya @Starlet @ecoli @Penalizer69 @moonlight1 @splanky @chudlite67 @junebug I’m prob forgetting more peeps

Y’all pls be brootally honest

 

[arisu]

loo

By looksmaxxing, I mean softmaxxing as well as joining and engaging in the online community. Imo, as a guy, looksmaxxing is only worth it if it results in you significantly improving ur looks to the point where you can have a dating and social life. The only issue with that is you won’t know whether that’s possible until you’ve softmaxxed, and by then ur too far down the rabbit hole.

Sure I received some benefits like overall better treatment, but that’s about it. It wasn’t rly enough to ascend. Like I could prob get into a relationship now but it’d be with landwhales, no thx jfl Looksmaxxing just made me go from super ugly to ugly.

Feel like my life would hve been better off if I just put my head down and stayed bluepilled. I would’ve been able to focus on college, maintain the few connections I made my first year, prob would hve gotten internships, graduate on time, and I would’ve been well into my career by now. Sure I wouldn’t hve ever improved my looks if i took that path but I’d atleast hve financial security, and maybe a social circle. Prob could’ve even gotten a relationship, although def not with my looksmatch jfl

TLDR: bluepill>looksmaxxing for people with bad bases

I want my frens thoughts @Dandelions @Duchesse @HairyCat @TonyDr @Randomized @giga.mia @arya @Starlet @ecoli @Penalizer69 @moonlight1 @splanky @chudlite67 @junebug I’m prob forgetting more peeps

Y’all pls be brootally honest

making something good for urself was not a mistake
u still have time to pursue a career

 

[Penalizer69]

You're above average looking, it's only your height that holds you back I imagine

 

[Aryy]

By looksmaxxing, I mean softmaxxing as well as joining and engaging in the online community. Imo, as a guy, looksmaxxing is only worth it if it results in you significantly improving ur looks to the point where you can have a dating and social life. The only issue with that is you won’t know whether that’s possible until you’ve softmaxxed, and by then ur too far down the rabbit hole.

Sure I received some benefits like overall better treatment, but that’s about it. It wasn’t rly enough to ascend. Like I could prob get into a relationship now but it’d be with landwhales, no thx jfl Looksmaxxing just made me go from super ugly to ugly.

Feel like my life would hve been better off if I just put my head down and stayed bluepilled. I would’ve been able to focus on college, maintain the few connections I made my first year, prob would hve gotten internships, graduate on time, and I would’ve been well into my career by now. Sure I wouldn’t hve ever improved my looks if i took that path but I’d atleast hve financial security, and maybe a social circle. Prob could’ve even gotten a relationship, although def not with my looksmatch jfl

TLDR: bluepill>looksmaxxing for people with bad bases

I want my frens thoughts @Dandelions @Duchesse @HairyCat @TonyDr @Randomized @giga.mia @arya @Starlet @ecoli @Penalizer69 @moonlight1 @splanky @chudlite67 @junebug I’m prob forgetting more peeps

Y’all pls be brootally honest

if it impacted college then yeah i guess

 

[Motivated Dandelions]

You’re 100% correct, there’s a cost and a reward to everything. I always thought this too. But, you still improved an aspect of your life which is all that matters. Now, you’re gonna be able to apply it to other aspects

 

[chudlite67]

By looksmaxxing, I mean softmaxxing as well as joining and engaging in the online community. Imo, as a guy, looksmaxxing is only worth it if it results in you significantly improving ur looks to the point where you can have a dating and social life. The only issue with that is you won’t know whether that’s possible until you’ve softmaxxed, and by then ur too far down the rabbit hole.

Sure I received some benefits like overall better treatment, but that’s about it. It wasn’t rly enough to ascend. Like I could prob get into a relationship now but it’d be with landwhales, no thx jfl Looksmaxxing just made me go from super ugly to ugly.

Feel like my life would hve been better off if I just put my head down and stayed bluepilled. I would’ve been able to focus on college, maintain the few connections I made my first year, prob would hve gotten internships, graduate on time, and I would’ve been well into my career by now. Sure I wouldn’t hve ever improved my looks if i took that path but I’d atleast hve financial security, and maybe a social circle. Prob could’ve even gotten a relationship, although def not with my looksmatch jfl

TLDR: bluepill>looksmaxxing for people with bad bases

I want my frens thoughts @Dandelions @Duchesse @HairyCat @TonyDr @Randomized @giga.mia @arya @Starlet @ecoli @Penalizer69 @moonlight1 @splanky @chudlite67 @junebug I’m prob forgetting more peeps

Y’all pls be brootally honest

aw thanks for tagging me
whether or not it was the right decision i think theres no point dwelling on it and feeling sorry for yourself because youre already here
all you can do is look to the future
and you are not old
its okay

 

[rand anon]

You're above average looking, it's only your height that holds you back I imagine

At the the end of the day it’s all about smv though. If I was just below avg like 5’6, 5’7, i don’t think it would’ve mattered as much. At 5’3 though, I’d def think the majority of women consider me ‘ugly’

This thread is pointless anyways cause I can’t go back to the past, but I just couldn’t help but think about how different things would be if I just didn’t looksmaxx. Although tbf, I never would met all the based people on here if I did that

 

[rand anon]

loo

making something good for urself was not a mistake
u still have time to pursue a career

Yeah ig, but I fucked up in college by isolating myself and focusing on looksmaxxing, only to gain nothing rly. If I had spent my time wiser I’d have a job rn. I’m still trying, but the CS job market is rough, and I hve absolutely zero experience jfl

 

[arisu]

Yeah ig, but I fucked up in college by isolating myself and focusing on looksmaxxing, only to gain nothing rly. If I had spent my time wiser I’d have a job rn. I’m still trying, but the CS job market is rough, and I hve absolutely zero experience jfl

u still have time to fix it brah

 

[rand anon]

aw thanks for tagging me
whether or not it was the right decision i think theres no point dwelling on it and feeling sorry for yourself because youre already here

Very true, dwelling on the past has become a bad habit of mines

all you can do is look to the future
and you are not old
its okay

I will try, thank u

 

[benny]

By looksmaxxing, I mean softmaxxing as well as joining and engaging in the online community. Imo, as a guy, looksmaxxing is only worth it if it results in you significantly improving ur looks to the point where you can have a dating and social life. The only issue with that is you won’t know whether that’s possible until you’ve softmaxxed, and by then ur too far down the rabbit hole.

Sure I received some benefits like overall better treatment, but that’s about it. It wasn’t rly enough to ascend. Like I could prob get into a relationship now but it’d be with landwhales, no thx jfl Looksmaxxing just made me go from super ugly to ugly.

Feel like my life would hve been better off if I just put my head down and stayed bluepilled. I would’ve been able to focus on college, maintain the few connections I made my first year, prob would hve gotten internships, graduate on time, and I would’ve been well into my career by now. Sure I wouldn’t hve ever improved my looks if i took that path but I’d atleast hve financial security, and maybe a social circle. Prob could’ve even gotten a relationship, although def not with my looksmatch jfl

TLDR: bluepill>looksmaxxing for people with bad bases

I want my frens thoughts @Dandelions @Duchesse @HairyCat @TonyDr @Randomized @giga.mia @arya @Starlet @ecoli @Penalizer69 @moonlight1 @splanky @chudlite67 @junebug I’m prob forgetting more peeps

Y’all pls be brootally honest

i’ve thought abt this tbh, and it can be perceived as a mistake discovering looksism and the blackpill but self improvement in of it self is not a bad thing imo

 

[junebug]

By looksmaxxing, I mean softmaxxing as well as joining and engaging in the online community. Imo, as a guy, looksmaxxing is only worth it if it results in you significantly improving ur looks to the point where you can have a dating and social life. The only issue with that is you won’t know whether that’s possible until you’ve softmaxxed, and by then ur too far down the rabbit hole.

Sure I received some benefits like overall better treatment, but that’s about it. It wasn’t rly enough to ascend. Like I could prob get into a relationship now but it’d be with landwhales, no thx jfl Looksmaxxing just made me go from super ugly to ugly.

Feel like my life would hve been better off if I just put my head down and stayed bluepilled. I would’ve been able to focus on college, maintain the few connections I made my first year, prob would hve gotten internships, graduate on time, and I would’ve been well into my career by now. Sure I wouldn’t hve ever improved my looks if i took that path but I’d atleast hve financial security, and maybe a social circle. Prob could’ve even gotten a relationship, although def not with my looksmatch jfl

TLDR: bluepill>looksmaxxing for people with bad bases

I want my frens thoughts @Dandelions @Duchesse @HairyCat @TonyDr @Randomized @giga.mia @arya @Starlet @ecoli @Penalizer69 @moonlight1 @splanky @chudlite67 @junebug I’m prob forgetting more peeps

Y’all pls be brootally honest

no use dwelling on the past, be proud of what you have accomplished

 

[chudlite67]

Very true, dwelling on the past has become a bad habit of mines

I will try, thank u

no worries rand

 

[rand anon]

no use dwelling on the past, be proud of what you have accomplished

I honestly can’t think of anything to be proud of. I graduated with a dogshit gpa cause I pretty much lost all motivation and did the bare minimum after my 2nd year. Maybe the only thing I could be proud of is that I graduated from a pretty good school, but even then who knows how much of that was luck.

Well ig I could say I’m proud of being able to persevere despite my huge failos. Most people with my failos would hve either roped or wouldve gone mentally insane. Then again, idk how much of perseverance is due to genetics. Although that leads to another discussion of free will as a whole

 

[dior]

By looksmaxxing, I mean softmaxxing as well as joining and engaging in the online community. Imo, as a guy, looksmaxxing is only worth it if it results in you significantly improving ur looks to the point where you can have a dating and social life. The only issue with that is you won’t know whether that’s possible until you’ve softmaxxed, and by then ur too far down the rabbit hole.

Sure I received some benefits like overall better treatment, but that’s about it. It wasn’t rly enough to ascend. Like I could prob get into a relationship now but it’d be with landwhales, no thx jfl Looksmaxxing just made me go from super ugly to ugly.

Feel like my life would hve been better off if I just put my head down and stayed bluepilled. I would’ve been able to focus on college, maintain the few connections I made my first year, prob would hve gotten internships, graduate on time, and I would’ve been well into my career by now. Sure I wouldn’t hve ever improved my looks if i took that path but I’d atleast hve financial security, and maybe a social circle. Prob could’ve even gotten a relationship, although def not with my looksmatch jfl

TLDR: bluepill>looksmaxxing for people with bad bases

I want my frens thoughts @Dandelions @Duchesse @HairyCat @TonyDr @Randomized @giga.mia @arya @Starlet @ecoli @Penalizer69 @moonlight1 @splanky @chudlite67 @junebug I’m prob forgetting more peeps

Y’all pls be brootally honest

honestly, its just the way you view it lmao. I've been blackpilled for quite some time now and Ive learned to live with it, I made a huge switch socially though in sophomore year of highschool.

 

[junebug]

I honestly can’t think of anything to be proud of. I graduated with a dogshit gpa cause I pretty much lost all motivation and did the bare minimum after my 2nd year. Maybe the only thing I could be proud of is that I graduated from a pretty good school, but even then who knows how much of that was luck.

Well ig I could say I’m proud of being able to persevere despite my huge failos. Most people with my failos would hve either roped or wouldve gone mentally insane. Then again, idk how much of perseverance is due to genetics. Although that leads to another discussion of free will as a whole

so all I'm hearing is
>you graduated
>you persevered through your education despite burnout
>you actively spent time improving yourself
>you are mentally sound
also you look good man you're not even ugly

 

[junebug]

honestly, its just the way you view it lmao. I've been blackpilled for quite some time now and Ive learned to live with it, I made a huge switch socially though in sophomore year of highschool.

 

[rand anon]

so all I'm hearing is
>you graduated
>you persevered through your education despite burnout
>you actively spent time improving yourself

Well I mean improving just my looks, at the cost of lacking behind in other areas of life

>you are mentally sound

as mentally sound as one could be considering my failos I suppose. Def wish I had a better mental state though

also you look good man you're not even ugly

Very hard to believe but thanks

 

[junebug]

Well I mean improving just my looks, at the cost of lacking behind in other areas of life

as mentally sound as one could be considering my failos I suppose. Def wish I had a better mental state though

Very hard to believe but thanks

you'll make it far in life. lock in!

 

[rand anon]

you'll make it far in life. lock in!

I will try, thank u

 

[icnone]

Sure I received some benefits like overall better treatment, but that’s about it. It wasn’t rly enough to ascend. Like I could prob get into a relationship now but it’d be with landwhales, no thx jfl Looksmaxxing just made me go from super ugly to ugly.

Feel like my life would hve been better off if I just put my head down and stayed bluepilled. I would’ve been able to focus on college, maintain the few connections I made my first year, prob would hve gotten internships, graduate on time, and I would’ve been well into my career by now. Sure I wouldn’t hve ever improved my looks if i took that path but I’d atleast hve financial security, and maybe a social circle. Prob could’ve even gotten a relationship, although def not with my looksmatch jfl

sounds rough man
out of curiosity, how did looksmaxxing take time away from college?

 

[rand anon]

sounds rough man
out of curiosity, how did looksmaxxing take time away from college?

I mean looksmaxxing by itself didn’t, but becoming obsessed with analyzing my looks and analyzing other people’s, researching about how to improve looks, rotting on org interacting with other users, watching blackpill content. Ig u wouldn’t consider all of that looksmaxxing, but my point is that trying to looksmaxx in the first place ended up making me waste my time with those other things

 

[icnone]

I mean looksmaxxing by itself didn’t, but becoming obsessed with analyzing my looks and analyzing other people’s, researching about how to improve looks, rotting on org interacting with other users, watching blackpill content. Ig u wouldn’t consider all of that looksmaxxing, but my point is that trying to looksmaxx in the first place ended up making me waste my time with those other things

I too wasted my life in many niche corners of the internet. It's always a weird feeling to look back and see how everything was one big domino effect.

 

[TonyDr]

Feel like my life would hve been better off if I just put my head down and stayed bluepilled. I would’ve been able to focus on college, maintain the few connections I made my first year, prob would hve gotten internships, graduate on time, and I would’ve been well into my career by now. Sure I wouldn’t hve ever improved my looks if i took that path but I’d atleast hve financial security, and maybe a social circle. Prob could’ve even gotten a relationship, although def not with my looksmatch jfl

No being bluepilled wouldn't have guaranteed any more success tbh. Bluepilled means you could have been just more isolated with no intentions to ask yourself why.
There is prob an other pill name for the people who are confident and "retarted" enough to take more upfront decisions in life, maybe an hybrid of redpill or purple pill.

Career in 2026 means nothing as us young people and the next generations wouldn't have enough money to live a peaceful life unlike our boomer parents/grand-parents. A career doesn't means anything, esp if the big capitalism treat us like garbage yk. Being replaced like vulgar outdated objects. Sad.

 

[Motivated Dandelions]

No being bluepilled wouldn't have guaranteed any more success tbh. Bluepilled means you could have been just more isolated with no intentions to ask yourself why.
There is prob an other pill name for the people who are confident and "retarted" enough to take more upfront decisions in life, maybe an hybrid of redpill or purple pill.

Career in 2026 means nothing as us young people and the next generations wouldn't have enough money to live a peaceful life unlike our boomer parents/grand-parents. A career doesn't means anything, esp if the big capitalism treat us like garbage yk. Being replaced like vulgar outdated objects. Sad.

Another trvth nvke from Tony

 

[splanky]

By looksmaxxing, I mean softmaxxing as well as joining and engaging in the online community. Imo, as a guy, looksmaxxing is only worth it if it results in you significantly improving ur looks to the point where you can have a dating and social life. The only issue with that is you won’t know whether that’s possible until you’ve softmaxxed, and by then ur too far down the rabbit hole.

Sure I received some benefits like overall better treatment, but that’s about it. It wasn’t rly enough to ascend. Like I could prob get into a relationship now but it’d be with landwhales, no thx jfl Looksmaxxing just made me go from super ugly to ugly.

Feel like my life would hve been better off if I just put my head down and stayed bluepilled. I would’ve been able to focus on college, maintain the few connections I made my first year, prob would hve gotten internships, graduate on time, and I would’ve been well into my career by now. Sure I wouldn’t hve ever improved my looks if i took that path but I’d atleast hve financial security, and maybe a social circle. Prob could’ve even gotten a relationship, although def not with my looksmatch jfl

TLDR: bluepill>looksmaxxing for people with bad bases

I want my frens thoughts @Dandelions @Duchesse @HairyCat @TonyDr @Randomized @giga.mia @arya @Starlet @ecoli @Penalizer69 @moonlight1 @splanky @chudlite67 @junebug I’m prob forgetting more peeps

Y’all pls be brootally honest

well ur not at all ugly so maybe it’s js the overthinking that u get from acc looksmaxxing that holds u back?

 

[rand anon]

No being bluepilled wouldn't have guaranteed any more success tbh. Bluepilled means you could have been just more isolated with no intentions to ask yourself why.
There is prob an other pill name for the people who are confident and "retarted" enough to take more upfront decisions in life, maybe an hybrid of redpill or purple pill.

Career in 2026 means nothing as us young people and the next generations wouldn't have enough money to live a peaceful life unlike our boomer parents/grand-parents. A career doesn't means anything, esp if the big capitalism treat us like garbage yk. Being replaced like vulgar outdated objects. Sad.

Brutal truthpill Tony bhai

however I still need some way to earn shekels, I could’ve atleast made a living if I graduated on time and got a job when the market was good

 

[rand anon]

well ur not at all ugly

Manletism makes me ugly

so maybe it’s js the overthinking that u get from acc looksmaxxing that holds u back?

Def overthinking and just rotting online in general. But I don’t think I was ever capable of separating actual looksmaxxing from like rotting in the online communities/blackpill content etc. If I never started looksmaxxing it wouldn’t hve been this bad. Yeah I would be hella ugly looking but I’d almost certainly hve started working by now and hve some financial security

 

[splanky]

Manletism makes me ugly

Def overthinking and just rotting online in general. But I don’t think I was ever capable of separating actual looksmaxxing from like rotting in the online communities/blackpill content etc. If I never started looksmaxxing it wouldn’t hve been this bad. Yeah I would be hella ugly looking but I’d almost certainly hve started working by now and hve some financial security

well i mean u can recognize all the flaws and stuff which is alr better than most ppl on here lmao
im not rlly the best person for advice lowkey but dw u got this rand anon

 

[rand anon]

well i mean u can recognize all the flaws and stuff which is alr better than most ppl on here lmao
im not rlly the best person for advice lowkey but dw u got this rand anon

Oki splanky thank u