disconnected from stuff/losing interest

[lovingangel]

is it js me or does anyone feel like theyve lost interest in relationships, like all kinds of rs, romantic or platonic. ive noticed this ever since ive started my "looksmaxxing" journey, like ever since i started realize that ppl r interested me that just made so very uninterested in them. this has been happing for a year and a half now n its gotten rlly bad im losing friendships left n right but i cant find it in me to even care. even if guys approach me my first instinct is to say no like i dont even want to hear what they hv to say

 

[Ultramaxxfiresigma]

is it js me or does anyone feel like theyve lost interest in relationships, like all kinds of rs, romantic or platonic. ive noticed this ever since ive started my "looksmaxxing" journey, like ever since i started realize that ppl r interested me that just made so very uninterested in them. this has been happing for a year and a half now n its gotten rlly bad im losing friendships left n right but i cant find it in me to even care. even if guys approach me my first instinct is to say no like i dont even want to hear what they hv to say

no tbh it's a sign that ur mind is dealing with the blackpill or wtv in a negative way that's impacting ur relationships, it's unhealthy

 

[lovingangel]

no tbh it's a sign that ur mind is dealing with the blackpill or wtv in a negative way that's impacting ur relationships, it's unhealthy

i shouldve explained better, its also freeing in a way, i find time to do things i want n go at my own pace instead of alway conforming to ppls expectations and wants, but ive overdone it to the point where idc to make time for ppl around me (most of the time not always) im still nice but id rather be alone

 

[Ultramaxxfiresigma]

i shouldve explained better, its also freeing in a way, i find time to do things i want n go at my own pace instead of alway conforming to ppls expectations and wants, but ive overdone it to the point where idc to make time for ppl around me (most of the time not always) im still nice but id rather be alone

honestly if ur happy with the way u feel its fine and nothing else matters

 

[holalola]

yeah, im with u on this one. i always start talking to a guy thinking im ready for something but my mind instantly says no. In my head, i always tell myself they can find better i should leave even after they reassure but i dont have it in me to believe it tbh

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

Pretty much the contrary for me, i'm just aware of the female hypergamy and their search in looks. I've found a lovely girlfriend, i'm just continue my hobbies and my projects, with or without her

 

[Ultramaxxfiresigma]

same for me ngl. it's actually made me better with females cuz i understand them more

Pretty much the contrary for me, i'm just aware of the female hypergamy and their search in looks. I've found a lovely girlfriend, i'm just continue my hobbies and my projects, with or without her

 

[lovingangel]

yeah, im with u on this one. i always start talking to a guy thinking im ready for something but my mind instantly says no. In my head, i always tell myself they can find better i should leave even after they reassure but i dont have it in me to believe it tbh

yes even the idea of talking to a guy is so tiring to me nothing in it interests me, i still am attracted to them but i dont wanna get to know anyone

 

[lovingangel]

Pretty much the contrary for me, i'm just aware of the female hypergamy and their search in looks. I've found a lovely girlfriend, i'm just continue my hobbies and my projects, with or without her

thats rlly nice, im also aware of what men want but nth in me feels like going for it

 

[holalola]

yes even the idea of talking to a guy is so tiring to me nothing in it interests me, i still am attracted to them but i dont wanna get to know anyone

yeah also if i do actually end up liking a guy i get psychosis never in between

 

[lovingangel]

yeah also if i do actually end up liking a guy i get psychosis never in between

in the exact same boat

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

thats rlly nice, im also aware of what men want but nth in me feels like going for it

Because you doesn't have accepted the truth yet. Once you have accepted to enjoy the moment, life and dating is easier

 

[lovingangel]

Because you doesn't have accepted the truth yet. Once you have accepted to enjoy the moment, life and dating is easier

wait whats the truth lol u lost me

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

wait whats the truth lol u lost me

That men & women will look after looks primarly when they date their opposite gender
You lost interest in men because you're affraid men go after you for looks

 

[lovingangel]

That men & women will look after looks primarly when they date their opposite gender
You lost interest in men because you're affraid men go after you for looks

no no not at all, obvi ik ppl go for looks im not retarded and i go for looks asw and im not afraid of that or of someone wanting me for my looks, ive lost interest bcs i think ive realized that ppl are acc interested in me you know like i can pull ppl the old me couldnt so that js made the whole thing boring to me