Discussion Do you believe in men/women friendships?

[catlady]

I like to believe they’re possible. I have heard many times that they only work if the guy doesn’t find the girl attractive.
Lmk.

 

[isntnotrepellent]

never works bai unless guy is gay ig

 

[jest]

i agree that they only work if they don't find the girl attractive but also i actually don't know

 

[vamp]

impossible

 

[tami_26]

Hmmm they can work out but it is rare too

 

[Alexander Wolfgang]

I like to believe they’re possible. I have heard many times that they only work if the guy doesn’t find the girl attractive.
Lmk.

yeah

only if the girl has a boyfriend and the boyfriend was already a friend of yours before they started dating

 

[mjölk]

i think it works but theres always an expiry date
once the girl gets a bf or the guy a gf the friendship breaks up. Even if u allow ur partner friends of the opposite gender, once u get married and have kids its impossible for them not to become a background character.

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

I like to believe they’re possible. I have heard many times that they only work if the guy doesn’t find the girl attractive.
Lmk.

Only if one of them is signficantly better looking, or one of them is gay

 

[Byro]

I like to believe they’re possible. I have heard many times that they only work if the guy doesn’t find the girl attractive.
Lmk.

Yeah they work

 

[Byro]

i think it works but theres always an expiry date
once the girl gets a bf or the guy a gf the friendship breaks up. Even if u allow ur partner friends of the opposite gender, once u get married and have kids it’s impossible for them not to become a background character.

Yeah ur lowk right but I think they work in the moment and i suppose the connection then means something but I do agree that eventually it will expire due to uncontrollable circumstances

 

[houcine]

it can work, boundaries and clear intentions is a must tho

 

[aquamarine1488]

I had a male friend irl but his gf made him stop talking to me

 

[submissivechud]

I like to believe they’re possible. I have heard many times that they only work if the guy doesn’t find the girl attractive.
Lmk.

yes

 

[arisu]

I like to believe they’re possible. I have heard many times that they only work if the guy doesn’t find the girl attractive.
Lmk.

works for me
but tbf in my case it’s a special situation bc one of them is a f*g and the other wants to be a priest

 

[submissivechud]

works for me
but tbf in my case it’s a special situation bc one of them is a f*g and the other wants to be a priest

anime friendgroup

 

[arisu]

anime friendgroup

we are not a trio the gay one is from school the other is online

 

[JDD]

Nope

 

[Deleted Member 95940]

I like to believe they’re possible. I have heard many times that they only work if the guy doesn’t find the girl attractive.
Lmk.

Idk she is attractive but she is outta my league but I would fuck

 

[akwotaco]

to be honest while i have a lot of female friends they're all horrible to have as friends. they exist but they aren't functional lol

 

[NoIamHuman]

Yes

 

[Starlet]

I like to believe they’re possible. I have heard many times that they only work if the guy doesn’t find the girl attractive.
Lmk.

No, especially not close/best friends. It’s the same cycle, 80% of the time the guy or both will develop feelings and then they’ll drop you when you don’t give them what they want because it’s too inconvenient for them. They’re not really your friends

 

[Blackpillirony]

I like to believe they’re possible. I have heard many times that they only work if the guy doesn’t find the girl attractive.
Lmk.

Absolutely, this is why I have 10 home girls I keep in my roster

 

[Randomized]

I was always able to maintain female friendships as 100% platonic on my end (But I'm also admittedly low T in general) but it was always the girl who caused the friendship to breakup. Acting too weird or sensitive about stuff that I couldn't for the life of me understand, or just going out of her way to disrespect me as a person to make another man happy.

I think online friendships are easier because there's not that "physical" aspect of it, if the concern is attraction I mean, but most people are going to do the same thing, where they're going to prioritize their sexual and romantic relationships over your platonic one. I think same sex friendships are easier to maintain just because that person is going to be the most similar to you, and I think both genders are just so different in so many regards that's where the main conflict ends up happening- is what each gender usually ends up prioritizing.

It's the small stuff that builds up over time usually. While I'll always try to listen, a lot of the subjects are not going to be that interesting to me as a man as it might be for another girl. Certain games, talking about boys, makeup/nails, etc. As a man I don't really care that strongly for that stuff every time I talk to someone. In occasional doses it's not a big deal but y'know.

 

[Luxe]

I like to believe they’re possible. I have heard many times that they only work if the guy doesn’t find the girl attractive.
Lmk.

Never works for me

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

I like to believe they’re possible. I have heard many times that they only work if the guy doesn’t find the girl attractive.
Lmk.

If it’s not the guy who likes the girl it’s the girl who likes him