Do you believe people can change

[Aryy]

Or do you think some traits always stay the same?

 

[submissivechud]

Or do you think some traits always stay the same?

everyone changes
change is natural

 

[dipenhydramine]

people can change

 

[ecoli]

people change but some traits stay the same

 

[Starlet]

Or do you think some traits always stay the same?

people can change but often staying to see the change isn’t worth it, or they’ll only change after you leave them and get some kind of wake up call

 

[Aryy]

everyone changes
change is natural

people can change

some things stay the same at the core maybe people have learnt to not do it

but you know ie a pedo or so

 

[True Spaniard]

Or do you think some traits always stay the same?

I think ppl change definitely change

 

[dipenhydramine]

some things stay the same at the core maybe people have learnt to not do it

but you know ie a pedo or so

people never really change they just hide it better

 

[nervous]

Or do you think some traits always stay the same?

eventually yes. but usually it takes plenty of years and hardship for them to understand what went wrong. the best lesson is experience so once you live through it, you’ll adapt. otherwise if someone keeps doing the same thing over and over you need to just cut em off

 

[Aryy]

eventually yes. but usually it takes plenty of years and hardship for them to understand what went wrong. the best lesson is experience so once you live through it, you’ll adapt. otherwise if someone keeps doing the same thing over and over you need to just cut em off

but its like you learn to not do it you know, but at the core youre still the same? like if u dint have consequences you would do it again

or is that not true

 

[draftLexy]

Or do you think some traits always stay the same?

People can change people always change but to change for the better takes time,loss and pain
Ive known people who were extremely horrible to me in the past, mistreated me,hurt me to the point others involved didnt want anything to do with those people
But i gave them a chance and they are the best people in my life right now
It did take them a death of a loved one to understand and change tho.

 

[nervous]

but its like you learn to not do it you know, but at the core youre still the same? like if u dint have consequences you would do it again

or is that not true

you formatted that perfectly. yes.

 

[Aryy]

People can change people always change but to change for the better takes time,loss and pain
Ive known people who were extremely horrible to me in the past, mistreated me,hurt me to the point others involved didnt want anything to do with those people
But i gave them a chance and they are the best people in my life right now
It did take them a death of a loved one to understand and change tho.

Thanks for this answer changes my perspective a bit, personally in my life ive not given second chances nor have i seen someone change

 

[LeoK]

I believe they can I’m a firm believer of giving someone a second chance

 

[Krusty]

opinions change but not their true personality, people become better at hiding their flaws but deep down they don't change

 

[Starlet]

Thanks for this answer changes my perspective a bit, personally in my life ive not given second chances nor have i seen someone change

yeah like I know people can change but I still don’t believe in second chances

 

[Aryy]

yeah like I know people can change but I still don’t believe in second chances

I feel like even if they change personally if a relationship got fucked up it leaves a scar or some trust issues regardless

 

[Starlet]

I feel like even if they change personally if a relationship got fucked up it leaves a scar or some trust issues regardless

"May your heart remain breakable, but never by the same hand twice.”

 

[victorique]

Or do you think some traits always stay the same?

I’m still the same since I was 5 years old

 

[submissivechud]

I’m still the same since I was 5 years old

I am a foot taller
and double the weight
and smarter

 

[Aryy]

I’m still the same since I was 5 years old

Yeah i was thinking of this before
some things havent changed for me, but ive learnt to not do some things

 

[victorique]

I am a foot taller
and double the weight
and smarter

I am very flat , still shorter
I was already smart at 5 yo

 

[submissivechud]

I am very flat , still shorter
I was already smart at 5 yo

can you do algebra as a 5 year old
I think not n****r
my chest is looking bigger
I bet 5 year old me couldn't bench 200
that f****t would die under that weight
sissy bitch

 

[victorique]

can you do algebra as a 5 year old
I think not n****r
my chest is looking bigger
I bet 5 year old me couldn't bench 200
that f****t would die under that weight
sissy bitch

I could do algebra at 5 years , I just didn’t have the chance to do that

 

[submissivechud]

I could do algebra at 5 years , I just didn’t have the chance to do that

could've would've should've n***a
I bet u were a r****d at five
lil bitch cant even do arithmetic

 

[victorique]

could've would've should've n***a
I bet u were a r****d at five
lil bitch cant even do arithmetic

Why are acting like everything you said were hard

 

[submissivechud]

Why are acting like everything you said were hard

hard for a 5 year old

 

[victorique]

hard for a 5 year old

I’m doing the Poincaré conjecture right now

 

[submissivechud]

I’m doing the Poincaré conjecture right now

English please

 

[Incel'sTears]

In general - no, you can’t change your iq, personality, height, face, race. People usually stay the same

But you can somewhat change yourself if you really want it and have power for it

 

[victorique]

English please

Time to study

 

[Aryy]

But you can somewhat change yourself if you really want it and have power for it

forced tho, i mean
you dont change by heart you know like personal choice to not do things like self control

 

[benny]

my ex loved me 4 years ago and how she doesn’t so yes ppl change

 

[Starlet]

forced tho, i mean
you dont change by heart you know like personal choice to not do things like self control

I say this from my personal experience because I know I have changed so much in the past few years but it is very difficult and rare tbh

 

[Aryy]

I say this from my personal experience because I know I have changed so much in the past few years but it is very difficult and rare tbh

ive learnt a few things to not do but in the end its hard i need to have self control and be conscious about it

 

[Rololongs]

Or do you think some traits always stay the same?

I kinda do believe people can change of course but I don't really fully believe that they didn't change more like they are just putting a act on

 

[Pinksunglasses]

Or do you think some traits always stay the same?

No one stays the same some traits may stay but maybe not to what it originally was

 

[The Centipede]

Depends. Some do, some don’t. Some develop and learn, and others do not. Self-reflection is required and a willingness, and a degree of emotional intelligence. It depends on the quality of their character and soul.

 

[The Centipede]

Depends. Some do, some don’t. Some develop and learn, and others do not. Self-reflection is required and a willingness, and a degree of emotional intelligence. It depends on the quality of their character and soul.

Some people’s background, upbringing and severe emotional damage limit this.

 

[Deleted Member 59573]

Or do you think some traits always stay the same?

yes

 

[The Centipede]

Some people’s background, upbringing and severe emotional damage limit this.

If someone is trapped in a certain environment, they could find it hard to independently make an inventory of themselves, some people never get that luxury. Sometimes it’s not entirely their fault and sometimes it is.