Serious Do you girls ever make the first move?

[BlendedBulge]

P.S. I don’t count your IOIs as a move

A move is literally approaching a guy or texting him first, direct flirting etc

I never had a girl making the first move on me IRL

Only IOIs (and I might misinterpreted them as such)

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

A women has never looked at me with trust

 

[Deleted Member 70402]

Over my dead body would I do this

 

[BlendedBulge]

Over my dead body would I do this

so what to do if both of you are scared?

F gives a M an IOI to make him more confident and he does the rest?

 

[Mota]

P.S. I don’t count your IOIs as a move

A move is literally approaching a guy or texting him first, direct flirting etc

I never had a girl making the first move on me IRL

Only IOIs (and I might misinterpreted them as such)

they do btw.

 

[Deleted Member 45967]

A women has never looked at me with trust

i lowkey dont give a shit, an isis member has never looked at me with anything other than bloodthirst

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I don’t

 

[Deleted Member 52522]

yeah

 

[TaiWay]

Depends on there test levels. Usually white chicks will as there test mogs the average Asian dude

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Joking aside, they do it often (explicit flirting for example)

 

[Deleted Member 70402]

so what to do if both of you are scared?

F gives a M an IOI to make him more confident and he does the rest?

Idk honestly I suck when it comes to this sort of stuff, I just genuinely believe that I will never get into a relationship so I don't bother with this stuff.
But probably it would happen like you said.

 

[BlendedBulge]

Idk honestly I suck when it comes to this sort of stuff, I just genuinely believe that I will never get into a relationship so I don't bother with this stuff.
But probably it would happen like you said.

Relatable

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

so what to do if both of you are scared?

F gives a M an IOI to make him more confident and he does the rest?

You should

 

[pompompurino]

yea i used to be lower inhib + somewhat confident and ask guys for their instas

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

A women has never looked at me with trust

They look at me but with disgust

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

yea i used to be lower inhib + somewhat confident and ask guys for their instas

Is asking for a insta really a ioi?

Never lead to anything with me tbh.

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Is asking for a insta really a ioi?

Never lead to anything with me tbh.

“I’m not a fakecel”

 

[pompompurino]

Is asking for a insta really a ioi?

Never lead to anything with me tbh.

imo, yes, may depend with a diff girl tho.
if it doesn’t lead anywhere maybe they didn’t like ur personality or they felt as if you showed no interest in them. one of the guys i asked his insta for was really boring and i stopped texting him for that reason.

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

“I’m not a fakecel”

imo, yes, may depend with a diff girl tho.
if it doesn’t lead anywhere maybe they didn’t like ur personality or they felt as if you showed no interest in them. one of the guys i asked his insta for was really boring and i stopped texting him for that reason.

i'm just insufferable ig

 

[BlendedBulge]

They look at me but with disgust

I guess I’m somewhere in the middle

only sometimes had them looking at me with interest (and other slight IOIS) but never got approached

But I also look low trust

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Is asking for a insta really a ioi?

Never lead to anything with me tbh

You should easily understand it from the context
When does it happen?

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

You should easily understand it from the context
When does it happen?

it's in the past, it doesn't matter anymore.

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

it's in the past, it doesn't matter anymore.

I’ll be honest, you are observant enough to know when the girl is interested or not

Also: If a girl is really interested… it’s easy to tell

 

[Huntergirl]

Yeah

 

[swanneo]

i have a friend who is htb and she makes the first move on guys shes into

 

[BlendedBulge]

I guess I’m fucking chopped

 

[Deleted Member 61421]

Yes I don’t try to rizz up women irl and usually im just very non chalant, it doesnt matter how ugly or attractive they are they will always slowly ramp up their signs that they want your dick the longer you ignore them

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I guess I’m fucking chopped

“low trust” or socially awkward, or other things

looks is important, of course, but it depends

 

[BlendedBulge]

“low trust” or socially awkward, or other things

looks is important, of course, but it depends

Everything tbh in my case

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Everything tbh in my case

Males are a good reference point
Do you receive compliments from males?

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

I’ll be honest, you are observant enough to know when the girl is interested or not

Also: If a girl is really interested… it’s easy to tell

Honesty, when i have feelings for someone my observance of the situation becomes lackluster.

Then i act retarded because i lost control over something i'm so comfortable with, i become somewhat vulnerable and i'm disgusted with that feeling.

 

[BlendedBulge]

Males are a good reference point
Do you receive compliments from males?

I don’t interact with faggots
Or what kind of compliments ?

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Honesty, when i have feelings for someone my observance of the situation becomes lackluster.

Then i act retarded because i lost control over something i'm so comfortable with, i become somewhat vulnerable and i'm disgusted with that feeling.

I understand, I’m often uncomfortable

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I don’t interact with faggots
Or what kind of compliments ?

when you are good-looking (well above average), males usually compliment you

 

[BlendedBulge]

when you are good-looking (well above average), males usually compliment you

Only online, irl never got a compliment

I mean 2 of my friends said I’m good looking

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I mean 2 of my friends said I’m good looking

That’s a good thing

 

[BlendedBulge]

Oh nvm I actually recall it now sometimes I got it

 

[mxri]

All the time

 

[Chifuyu]

Only for chad.

 

[Deleted Member 52522]

Is asking for a insta really a ioi?

Never lead to anything with me tbh.

I feel like it’s a really big indicator!! Like if I did that I’d expect the guy to make the next move since I basically already made it obvious im interested

 

[Chifuyu]

Is asking for a insta really a ioi?

Never lead to anything with me tbh.

I feel like it’s a really big indicator!! Like if I did that I’d expect the guy to make the next move since I basically already made it obvious im interested

I went to junior college two years ago and this classmate of mine got approached by a random girl at the supermarket, she asked for his insta. He was around 18 and she was 15 or 16 so he felt uncomfortable but it's definitely an IOI in such a case.

 

[sjnny404]

I have, was great

 

[Deleted Member 73026]

In real life it depends on the venue, maybe in clubs or parties, almost never during daytime for me, texting first is more common

 

[Deleted Member 68232]

Depends on there test levels. Usually white chicks will as there test mogs the average Asian dude

Their* there

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

yea i used to be lower inhib + somewhat confident and ask guys for their instas

damn, what happened?

 

[pompompurino]

damn, what happened?

honestly idk, once i got into going to the gym i got lots of body dysmorphia then i discovered the bp and it just got worse from there. i don’t even look at guys these days anymore.

 

[Deleted Member 66953]

P.S. I don’t count your IOIs as a move

A move is literally approaching a guy or texting him first, direct flirting etc

I never had a girl making the first move on me IRL

Only IOIs (and I might misinterpreted them as such)

The only time I’ve gotten somewhere is when I make the first move. And I’m talking about IRL, but now that I think about it I bet it was successful mostly out of the other person feeling pity for me

 

[BlendedBulge]

honestly idk, once i got into going to the gym i got lots of body dysmorphia then i discovered the bp and it just got worse from there. i don’t even look at guys these days anymore.

omg are you me?

 

[pompompurino]

omg are you me?

perhaps

 

[lifelover]

if i had the looks i would tbh, the chance of success is very high