Do you guys actually believe in hypergamy

[Venus]

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[alacrity]

It's obv, people want to get the best they can, even if they can't

 

[DEAN 2.0]

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I experienced it in my life how could I not

 

[Venus]

It's obv, people want to get the best they can, even if they can't

Obviously but most women don’t actually date up

 

[trenghost]

how the fuck could you vote no

it happens every day around us

ive experienced it countless times and so has about every man on this forum

 

[True Spaniard]

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Female dismissing hypergamy as usual

 

[Venus]

how the fuck could you vote no

it happens every day around us

ive experienced it countless times and so has about every man on this forum

Most women you know date guys better looking than them?

 

[trenghost]

Female dismissing hypergamy as usual

her dismissing hypergamy and saying it doesnt exist, typical

 

[trenghost]

Most women you know date guys better looking than them?

yes

 

[trenghost]

notice how the only ones who are voting no are females (@saccharinesaint @Dzitsu ) further proving

 

[Venus]

yes

I find that hard to believe icl

 

[Dearpleasehelpme]

Obviously but most women don’t actually date up

I’ve seen a sub 3 w a mtn. Girls at my old school did nothing but date up.

 

[True Spaniard]

Most women you know date guys better looking than them?

Thats just anecdotal fallacies, you just gotta look at the studies on this topic

 

[Venus]

I’ve seen a sub 3 w a mtn. Girls at my old school did nothing but date up.

Idk bro every hot girl i know is dating an ltn

 

[Venus]

Thats just anecdotal fallacies, you just gotta look at the studies on this topic

Can you link me some

 

[trenghost]

I find that hard to believe icl

women do nothing but date up
and higher standards especially now
you never see women reading guides and lectures on how exactly to get guys meanwhile guys be doing all that and more just to get girls

 

[trenghost]

Idk bro every hot girl i know is dating an ltn

you females overrate each other, makeup exists
without it most women are nothing in terms of looks

 

[Venus]

women do nothing but date up
and higher standards especially now
you never see women reading guides and lectures on how exactly to get guys meanwhile guys be doing all that and more just to get girls

That has to do with personality not looks though

 

[Dearpleasehelpme]

Idk bro every hot girl i know is dating an ltn

That’s tech hypergamy but it’s hyperandry, still proof that ppl do nothing but be hypergamous and not going for their looks match.

 

[Br4va]

I don’t

 

[alacrity]

Obviously but most women don’t actually date up

In my experience, they do, more than half of the relationships I knowz the guy is really above average

 

[trenghost]

also anecdotal stuff aint shit look at the statistics
hypergamy literally has existed since the beginning of time
research it

 

[Venus]

That’s tech hypergamy but it’s hyperandry, still proof that ppl do nothing but be hypergamous and not going for their looks match.

I mean obviously people will try to date the hottest person they can
But guys on this forum believe most women do nothing but date up even though its not true

 

[trenghost]

That has to do with personality not looks though

how so
elaboraate

 

[trenghost]

I mean obviously people will try to date the hottest person they can
But guys on this forum believe most women do nothing but date up even though its not true

we believe its true because us non htns experience it daily in real life

 

[trenghost]

we believe its true because us non htns experience it daily in real life

you women have nothing to worry about, you could be a ltb and still pull any guy you want

 

[saccharinesaint]

notice how the only ones who are voting no are females (@saccharinesaint @Dzitsu ) further proving

I dont believe in the current mainstream idea of what hypergamy is in modern dating but i acknowledge that its still a biological fact

 

[trenghost]

I dont believe in the current mainstream idea of what hypergamy is in modern dating but i acknowledge that its still a biological fact

explain the current mainstream idea

 

[Venus]

how so
elaboraate

you never see women reading guides and lectures on how exactly to get guys meanwhile guys be doing all that

Cause you specifically mentioned guys read guys and lectures on how to get girls, not how to improve looks etc. i assume guides on how to get girls would be more on personality and charisma?

 

[Dearpleasehelpme]

I mean obviously people will try to date the hottest person they can
But guys on this forum believe most women do nothing but date up even though its not true

A fair chunk of woman do, but all rlly up to if you find the right girl in this gen

 

[Venus]

A fair chunk of woman do, but all rlly up to if you find the right girl in this gen

I know everyone here seems against anecdotal evidence lol but look at most female celebs and models
They’re all good looking women that are usually with average looking men
And people excuse it by saying “oh it’s because the men are rich” but the female celebs are rich too?

 

[saccharinesaint]

explain the current mainstream idea

“foids ONLY want the hottest richest top 10% and nothing below that” or something along those lines

 

[True Spaniard]

Can you link me some

https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/personality/2017-fugere.pdf

http://web.simmons.edu/~turnerg/MCC/Matechoice2PDF.pdf

 

[Dearpleasehelpme]

I know everyone here seems against anecdotal evidence lol but look at most female celebs and models
They’re all good looking women that are usually with average looking men
And people excuse it by saying “oh it’s because the men are rich” but the female celebs are rich too?

Hyperandry, hate when both man and woman have you marry up like dude js go for ur looks match.

 

[trenghost]

Cause you specifically mentioned guys read guys and lectures on how to get girls, not how to improve looks etc. i assume guides on how to get girls would be more on personality and charisma?

that includes leveling up looks since women care about looks the most
not saying personality and natural charisma doesnt matter bc it does
but looks come first

 

[Venus]

https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/personality/2017-fugere.pdf

http://web.simmons.edu/~turnerg/MCC/Matechoice2PDF.pdf

 

[Venus]

Hyperandry, hate when both man and woman have you marry up like dude js go for ur looks match.

Well atleast you acknowledge the existence of hyperandry but tbh i don’t think it’s a problem specifically like just date anyone you like lol
The issue i have is men saying women mostly date up and men dont which isnt true

 

[True Spaniard]

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Yh but what they report its not what they chose, read the whole thing and both

 

[Dearpleasehelpme]

Well atleast you acknowledge the existence of hyperandry but tbh i don’t think it’s a problem specifically like just date anyone you like lol
The issue i have is men saying women mostly date up and men dont which isnt true

Thing at the end of the day ppl want chad n Stacy. It’s so weird tho because like I said, js aim for ur looks match, rlly ain’t that hard. Stop trying to go to something or someone who is WAY out of your league.

 

[Dearpleasehelpme]

Thing at the end of the day ppl want chad n Stacy. It’s so weird tho because like I said, js aim for ur looks match, rlly ain’t that hard. Stop trying to go to something or someone who is WAY out of your league.

Not saying this to u specifically I’m tryna say in general

 

[Venus]

Yh but what they report its not what they chose, read the whole thing and both

Also speed dating shows arent at all a good measurement for this, obviously you’re gonna go for whoever looks best when you barely know anyone there. Men would do the same
But in real life it’s a lot more nuanced

 

[True Spaniard]

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Also speed dating shows arent at all a good measurement for this, obviously you’re gonna go for whoever looks best when you barely know anyone there. Men would do the same
But in real life it’s a lot more nuanced

Theres also studies on dating apps, 80% of women go for the top 20% its not really that diff to realize

 

[Zygos]

maybe not to the degree of it’s over if you’re not 6’5 htn millionaire but it’s definitely real

 

[volume]

extremely overexaggerated term used by tiktok people

instead of nicer looking people wanting nicer looking partners, its "muh im so short, fat and ugly that this really pretty girl doesn't want me, IT MUST BE HYPERGAMY!! THIS IS HYPERGAMY!! "

same shit goes for guys, no average looking guy would "settle" for a fat or ugly girl, and are most of the time extremely selective.

obviously hypergamy exists but the shit you see on tiktok is extremely overexaggerated

 

[genio]

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It doesnt exist to a large enough manner for n*****s to actually gaf

 

[Venus]

maybe not to the degree of it’s over if you’re not 6’5 htn millionaire but it’s definitely real

It’s only real in the sense it’s real for everyone else, guys also mostly date up when they can

 

[Venus]

extremely overexaggerated term used by tiktok people

instead of nicer looking people wanting nicer looking partners, its "muh im so short, fat and ugly that this really pretty girl doesn't want me, IT MUST BE HYPERGAMY!! THIS IS HYPERGAMY!! "

same shit goes for guys, no average looking guy would "settle" for a fat or ugly girl, and are most of the time extremely selective.

obviously hypergamy exists but the shit you see on tiktok is extremely overexaggerated

Yeah thats exactly my point

 

[volume]

Yeah thats exactly my point

oxymoronic retards non stop dragging out the use of that word "hypergamy" and making no effort whatsoever to talk to any girls is the reason they will die alone

 

[Hector of Troy]

not as extreme as incels put it
but somewhat

 

[Zygos]

It’s only real in the sense it’s real for everyone else, guys also mostly date up when they can

ye obviously it’s real for everyone but women are more hypergamous imo, guys are just a more desperate and women control the dating market