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do you guys want kids or just to adopt or no kids

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highkey dont want to ever be pregnant bc itll ruin my body in an aesthetic way but also just functionally itll never be as good as it was before
Kinda egoistic to adopt when you have the "tools" to procreate, in order to stay aesthetic. Adoption should be kept for infertile couple
 
highkey dont want to ever be pregnant bc itll ruin my body in an aesthetic way but also just functionally itll never be as good as it was before
I want three kids preferably not through adoption but I'm not against it
two girls and one boy
Matters my financial state though
 
highkey dont want to ever be pregnant bc itll ruin my body in an aesthetic way but also just functionally itll never be as good as it was before
adopt kids as a foster child I’d say you’ll help ur body by not getting stretch marks and you’ll help a kid who needs a fam
 
im gonna lose my fertility i got no choice
 
highkey dont want to ever be pregnant bc itll ruin my body in an aesthetic way but also just functionally itll never be as good as it was before
hard question to answer but as of right now i just dont know
 
That's a big problem for your future husband

Gym GIF
 
highkey dont want to ever be pregnant bc itll ruin my body in an aesthetic way but also just functionally itll never be as good as it was before
literally
i want the kid tolooj like me but i dont wanna push it out
also i dont want a boy
 
I would want to adopt and have my own kids only if I have a good partner to do so with and have the means,when I’m old and retired I would like to foster too
 
Kinda egoistic to adopt when you have the "tools" to procreate, in order to stay aesthetic. Adoption should be kept for infertile couple
yes probably true but there are so many kids who would benefit from adoption and not enough families adopting + i fear if i had kids i might end up feeling some animosity towards them for "ruining my body" also postpartum depression while im prone to depression sacrificing a large chunk of my career
 
I want three kids preferably not through adoption but I'm not against it
two girls and one boy
Matters my financial state though
two girls is a must tbh if i do have kids without adoption and have a girl she needs a sister but I also recommend having an even number of kids so many benefits to 2 or 4 kids
 
adopt kids as a foster child I’d say you’ll help ur body by not getting stretch marks and you’ll help a kid who needs a fam
yess I agree I want to be a foster family even if I have my own kids tbh the abuse that goes on in the system is so sad
 
That's a big problem for your future husband

Gym GIF
id do it if he wanted his own kids but only if im confident he'd love me if i was chopped
 
I would want to adopt and have my own kids only if I have a good partner to do so with and have the means,when I’m old and retired I would like to foster too
yea same abt the money thing
 
I would want to adopt and have my own kids only if I have a good partner to do so with and have the means,when I’m old and retired I would like to foster too
fostering when youre retired is a nice idea
 
literally
i want the kid tolooj like me but i dont wanna push it out
also i dont want a boy
would you have one or two girls then? i feel like two is better bc sister bonds are so special
 
id do it if he wanted his own kids but only if im confident he'd love me if i was chopped
He will, if he wouldn't love you chopped then he's not really your husband
 
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Im also scared of the body changes but i know itll be worth it in the end hopefully
 
youre so sweet and optimistic i just know youre nice to be around irl
This is so nice thank you,I’m sure your a joy to be around too 🥹
 
Saying you'll 'ONLY' have kids if they're girls is wild. You either want to raise a human being or you don't. It's incredibly unfair to condition your love on a genetic coin toss the kid has zero say in. Imagine being trapped in a strict expectation framework before you're even born, especially by people who know exactly how bad it feels to be judged for things they can't control.
 
Saying you'll 'ONLY' have kids if they're girls is wild. You either want to raise a human being or you don't. It's incredibly unfair to condition your love on a genetic coin toss the kid has zero say in. Imagine being trapped in a strict expectation framework before you're even born, especially by people who know exactly how bad it feels to be judged for things they can't control.
idgaf i want girls shut the fuck up 😭
girl or abortion
 
idgaf i want girls shut the fuck up 😭
girl or abortion
Hmm girls who think like that are weird imo, wouldn't you raise your boys like proper loving gentlemen ? Or girls lowkey admitting they will be abusive mothers and are affraid of the consequences, will clap back at them at some point ?
 
highkey dont want to ever be pregnant bc itll ruin my body in an aesthetic way but also just functionally itll never be as good as it was before
want my own 2 kids
 
Kinda egoistic to adopt when you have the "tools" to procreate, in order to stay aesthetic. Adoption should be kept for infertile couple
this would be true, but it's irrelevant due to the surplus of avaliable kids for adoption, there isn't a scenario where an infertile couple cannot adopt due to there being little children available.
 
Hmm girls who think like that are weird imo, wouldn't you raise your boys like proper loving gentlemen ? Or girls lowkey admitting they will be abusive mothers and are affraid of the consequences, will clap back at them at some point ?
i dont want a son
its nasty
i dont wanna raise s man
id never be an abusive mother
i just dont want a son i have no interest in raising a male
 
I want as many kids, as my future Wife is ready to have, i would like to have a big family but ofc only if i know i can always financially support everyone
 

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