Do you struggle with interacting with the opposite gender?

[dimorph.ic]

I just want to love and be loved

I encourage you to just take those risks dont think about it just do it man one move can change your life

 

[hghosttttt]

I met a lovely girl though for a bit which I had to stop seeing for personal reasons, ended on good terms though without any hassle and I wish her all the best. She was the only girl where I felt like I could be my true self to be honest, gutted I had to pull away but again she was wonderful and she helped me out a lot.

exactly the girl i used to know

 

[chels_slayer]

I encourage you to just take those risks dont think about it just do it man one move can change your life

Thank you bro. I hope you find the girl of your dreams too

 

[dimorph.ic]

exactly the girl i used to know

We all learned deep lessons here huh

 

[dimorph.ic]

Thank you bro. I hope you find the girl of your dreams too

We both will man aslong as we try

 

[hghosttttt]

We all learned deep lessons here huh

deepest thread oat

 

[chels_slayer]

deepest thread oat

Fr

 

[dimorph.ic]

deepest thread oat

i try and make them interesting but trolls usually make them go to waste

 

[Kaari]

Yeah i js have this natural manipulation to me i think its just how i attract woman even though its wrong its somewhat fair yk

It’s easy to associate them as cheap dopamine when you learn to not connect with them. I lost the ability to connect with everyone period for a good bit and treated everyone like objects which I regret horribly. I learnt to I felt because of my environment but that’s not an excuse.

I just want to love and be loved

Me too.

Yep this right be yourself being someone else attracts the person to something thats not truly there. This is why i have success with woman im myself and im not ashamed of who i am

Warms my heart to read that, truly never be ashamed and pretend to be what you’re not. Being free with the last one I tell you was a weight lifted off my shoulders.

 

[dimorph.ic]

It’s easy to associate them as cheap dopamine when you learn to not connect with them. I lost the ability to connect with everyone period for a good bit and treated everyone like objects which I regret horribly. I learnt to I felt because of my environment but that’s not an excuse.

Me too.

Warms my heart to read that, truly never be ashamed and pretend to be what you’re not. Being free with the last one I tell you was a weight lifted off my shoulders.

I feel the same way after her i genuinely lost attraction to woman (not saying i went gay or anything) but i felt true love there all the dopamine i got from here suddenly vanished and i lost the ability to like anybody really

 

[dimorph.ic]

It’s easy to associate them as cheap dopamine when you learn to not connect with them. I lost the ability to connect with everyone period for a good bit and treated everyone like objects which I regret horribly. I learnt to I felt because of my environment but that’s not an excuse.

Me too.

Warms my heart to read that, truly never be ashamed and pretend to be what you’re not. Being free with the last one I tell you was a weight lifted off my shoulders.

Yes being yourself always wins in my eyes

 

[Kaari]

exactly the girl i used to know

I’m sorry, love can be beautiful as well as a curse. Sometimes I wish I never felt anything towards them at all but as I much I tried to treat them harshly my feelings of course will never go away.

 

[chels_slayer]

I feel the same way after her i genuinely lost attraction to woman (not saying i went gay or anything) but i felt true love there all the dopamine i got from here suddenly vanished and i lost the ability to like anybody really

That’s so sad bro. I hope everyone in this thread finds true love again

 

[Kaari]

I feel the same way after her i genuinely lost attraction to woman (not saying i went gay or anything) but i felt true love there all the dopamine i got from here suddenly vanished and i lost the ability to like anybody really

Women are human beings at the end of the day, flawed but capable of love, like us. I wish I learnt earlier to realise that cognitively.

 

[dimorph.ic]

Women are human beings at the end of the day, flawed but capable of love, like us. I wish I learnt earlier to realise that cognitively.

Yeah sad that both genders see eachother as monsters rn

 

[submissivechud]

I would like a gold react aswell

 

[Kaari]

Yeah sad that both genders see eachother as monsters rn

We are monsters to one another to be honest, not surprising. I’m not ashamed to say this is the product of thinking we were smarter than God what designed us to be, to seek his kingdom and after all things would be added onto us.

He knows the plan he has for us, to prosper us and have a hope and a future, and we perverted that for our selfish desires.

We only have ourselves to blame for this world.

 

[GermanAngel]

No I don’t struggle with interacting with the opposite gender. At the end of the day they’re just people, so I don’t see a reason to overthink it

 

[knightmaxxer]

If so, why? We can all come together and see what works

yes, which is very very odd considering until around age 13ish i had the very unique problem of not having any prominent men in my life.
all my family members were female (two mums, sisters, only aunts & grandmothers in-town, etc) all my friends were also female, all family friends were… ya guessed it. most prominent male figure in my life for that era was my grandfather…
who lives on a farm 6 hours outside the city in the fuckin outback.

so originally i had the opposite problem, i actually had trouble interacting with men and boys, due to aforementioned lack of masculine socialisation
but then, as i grew into an older teen i started getting the opposite problem because i shunned my previous foidal connections in favour of my male friends, even though they still consider me to be a bit girly which i hate

 

[chudlite67]

If so, why? We can all come together and see what works

I think I’m okay at talking it’s just that I’m ugly so no one wants to give me a chance type shit

 

[rand anon]

i do it dw man just say i just thought you were the most beautiful woman i’ve ever seen and i’d like to take you out some time if she doesn’t smile instantly run

mirin low inhib maynn, idk if this unc can do that

 

[rand anon]

I think I’m okay at talking it’s just that I’m ugly so no one wants to give me a chance type shit

I think ur just being hard on urself youngling

but if not, same frfr

 

[chudlite67]

I think ur just being hard on urself youngling

but if not, same frfr

Maybe
I don’t know
It’s only a reflection of my irl treatment
Poor oppa..

 

[klyro]

If so, why? We can all come together and see what works

yes im scared of woman the always ruin my life

 

[rand anon]

Maybe
I don’t know
It’s only a reflection of my irl treatment
Poor oppa..

awhwhhw pat pat pat pat pat
Have hope though! We will persist and get through it

 

[eliteshashou1]

definitely loll, i don’t talk to (non gay) guys unless they approach me first

 

[chudlite67]

awhwhhw pat pat pat pat pat
Have hope though! We will persist and get through it

Yes we will

 

[Kaligula567]

Wet water thread

 

[hghosttttt]

Women are human beings at the end of the day, flawed but capable of love, like us. I wish I learnt earlier to realise that cognitively.

i wish i knew how to react to things as to not hurt her
i mean could i blame her for wanting somebody else?
at the end of the day what did i have to offer
like why would she ever choose me over someone else?

"i can only blame myself"

 

[chero]

If so, why? We can all come together and see what works

yes i do but it wasnt always like this i used to be pre confident and had sum success but the older i got the lower my self esteem got and now im too shy to approach or hold a convo