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AryanChad352 said:
Is family (kids, wife) gonna stress your body so it can age you?
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Depends on you. Are you the type of man that's gonna become a domesticated little bitch after getting married, always walking on eggshells worried about whether your wife approves of your behavior? Allowing her to destroy your peace if she doesn't get her way? Or are you the type of man who's got no problem telling your wife to sit the fuck down and shut the fuck up when when she gets to bitching?
 
lowkeydeadinside said:
depends if they are nagging which raises stress/cortisol, also if ur wife is ugly u will be depressed probably causing more stress
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All women will try to nag at some point in a relationship. Whether they keep doing it depends on if you allow it.
 
lowkeydeadinside said:
how do u stop it? js tell them to stfu then they will nag more lmao
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Then beat them. I'm 100% serious.

It's a last resort but there are plenty of other things you can do before it gets to that point. For example, smashing some dishes on the kitchen floor. I remember my wife was bitching about something a couple years into our marriage. I told her the conversation was over and to stop but she just wouldn't let it go. I finally stood up, looked her right in the eye, pulled out my dick and pissed all over over the floor right there where I stood. Bet you can't guess who cleaned it up.

You must decide whether or not you're going to get peace and respect by any means. And by "any means" I do mean by any means.
 
holalola said:
@James Othy did u face any issues marrying ur wife since u guys r not of the same culture?
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Well not really. I'd already been living in her country for about 5 years before we met. She was raised a little different from most Chinese too. Her father never subscribed to Chinese traditional medicine or bullshit superstions. Also she's always been happy to follow my lead on everything.
 
James Othy said:
Then beat them. I'm 100% serious.

It's a last resort but there are plenty of other things you can do before it gets to that point. For example, smashing some dishes on the kitchen floor. I remember my wife was bitching about something a couple years into our marriage. I told her the conversation was over and to stop but she just wouldn't let it go. I finally stood up, looked her right in the eye, pulled out my dick and pissed all over over the floor right there where I stood. Bet you can't guess who cleaned it up.

You must decide whether or not you're going to get peace and respect by any means. And by "any means" I do mean by any means.
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A real man doesn't need to use violence or aggression in order to gain respect or solve a conflict. If you truly love your partner, you'll listen to them and try to find the root cause of the problem instead of hurting them
 
n4evis said:
A real man doesn't need to use violence or aggression in order to gain respect or solve a conflict. If you truly love your partner, you'll listen to them and try to find the root cause of the problem instead of hurting them
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yeah its better to honestly just break up than to resort to that
 
n4evis said:
A real man doesn't need to use violence or aggression in order to gain respect or solve a conflict. If you truly love your partner, you'll listen to them and try to find the root cause of the problem instead of hurting them
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I don't think you understand how life really works. Sometimes a woman doesn't want to solve the conflict. She just wants to rob you of your peace because she doesn't like a decision you've made. You're a little naive.
 
lowkeydeadinside said:
yeah its better to honestly just break up than to resort to that
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You'll either end up breaking up with every woman you begin a relationship with or you'll start walking on eggshells for fear of making her unhappy.
 
James Othy said:
I don't think you understand how life really works. Sometimes a woman doesn't want to solve the conflict.
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That's still not an excuse for using violence?? I understand that male and female natures arw different, but instead of hurting your partner, you can just communicate calmly and set boundaries
James Othy said:
She just wants to rob you of your peace because she doesn't like a decision you've made. You're a little naive.
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These kinds of relationships are not healthy at all btw, and it breaks my heart to see women like your wife tolerating this shitty behaviour
 
n4evis said:
A real man doesn't need to use violence or aggression in order to gain respect or solve a conflict.
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And that's a huge crock of shit. Where did you first see that to regurgitate? Did someone post that on their Facebook message wall?

Violence is absolutely necessary to solve conflicts as a man. Not all environments are the same sweetheart.
 
James Othy said:
And that's a huge crock of shit. Where did you first see that to regurgitate? Did someone post that on their Facebook message wall?

Violence is absolutely necessary to solve conflicts as a man. Not all environments are the same sweetheart.
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in a domestic conflict its not necessary, if a woman really annoys u that much u should just distance urself instead of being an emotional man child
 
James Othy said:
And that's a huge crock of shit. Where did you first see that to regurgitate? Did someone post that on their Facebook message wall?

Violence is absolutely necessary to solve conflicts as a man. Not all environments are the same sweetheart.
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Your statement just proves that you clearly lack emotional intelligence and respect for others💀 God bless your wife, i hope she gets away from you soon
 
n4evis said:
That's still not an excuse for using violence?? I understand that male and female natures arw different, but instead of hurting your partner, you can just communicate calmly and set boundaries

These kinds of relationships are not healthy at all btw, and it breaks my heart to see women like your wife tolerating this shitty behaviour
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Like I said, naive. Communicating and setting boundaries is simple but doesn't always work. Did you not read what I said? I calmly told her that the conversation was over, meaning that I was not going to argue about it or change my decision, and to stop it but she kept bitching? How could I have communicated it any better?

Or could "communicating" just mean capitulating?
 
James Othy said:
Like I said, naive. Communicating and setting boundaries is simple but doesn't always work. Did you not read what I said? I told her that the conversation was over, meaning that I was not going to argue about it or change my decision, and to stop it but she kept bitching? How could I have communicated it any better?

Or could "communicating" just mean capitulating?
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just bc u think an issue is resolved on ur end doesnt mean that she is also satisfied to end the issue there. like u cant just say in an arguement "ok its over now" and expect her to just stop if she has a legitimate concern, u seem to get angry when u dont get ur way, grow up
 
lowkeydeadinside said:
in a domestic conflict its not necessary, if a woman really annoys u that much u should just distance urself instead of being an emotional man child
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Oh, trust me. I was calm as a cucumber when I pissed all over the floor. It's a matter of principle, not passion.

And "distance" myself? I should flee my own household because someone in it isn't letting me have peace? Get the fuck outta here man.
 
Definitely.
 
James Othy said:
Oh, trust me. I was calm as a cucumber when I pissed all over the floor. It's a matter of principle, not passion.

And "distance" myself? I should flee my own household because someone in it isn't letting me have peace? Get the fuck outta here man.
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That's so fucking disgusting and disrespectful. The fact that you feel the need to humiliate your wife in order to "solve" an issue just proves what type of person u are
 
n4evis said:
Your statement just proves that you clearly lack emotional intelligence and respect for others💀 God bless your wife, i hope she gets away from you soon
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Emotional intelligence? Do you mean anything by that or is it just more regurgitation? There's only intelligence, and that fully encompasses understanding how other people feel along with how to deal with it.

What you don't seem to understand is that not everyone can be reasoned with. And certainly not in every situation. Furthermore, force shits on reason. As a boy or man you better believe you're going to come across another boy or man at some point in your life that doesn't give a damn about any of your reasoning and doesn't value the things that you think he should. He will torment you, push will definitely come to shove, and at that point violence will become absolutely necessary.
 
lowkeydeadinside said:
just bc u think an issue is resolved on ur end doesnt mean that she is also satisfied to end the issue there. like u cant just say in an arguement "ok its over now" and expect her to just stop if she has a legitimate concern, u seem to get angry when u dont get ur way, grow up
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She wanted me to start doing something a certain way. I said no. There's nothing more to talk about. The only thing I could do is change my decision, which wasn't going to happen. At that point I absolutely can say it's over and that I'm not going to discuss it any further.
 
James Othy said:
Emotional intelligence? Do you mean anything by that or is it just more regurgitation? There's only intelligence, and that fully encompasses understanding how other people feel along with how to deal with it.
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What i meant by "emotional intelligence" is being able to understand and manage your own emotions, while also respecting others' emotions too
James Othy said:
What you don't seem to understand is that not everyone can be reasoned with. And certainly not in every situation. Furthermore, force shits on reason. As a boy or man you better believe you're going to come across another boy or man at some point in your life that doesn't give a damn about any of your reasoning and doesn't value the things that you think he should. He will torment you, push will definitely come to shove, and at that point violence will become absolutely necessary.
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If you truly love your partner, you wouldn't feel the need to hurt them. Violence should NEVER be an option. And also, women like your wife who tolerate this type of behaviour have often experienced some sort of trauma in the past. Obviously, i don't know your wife personally so i can't say for certain, but the fact that she allows this just proves that she lacks self respect, is insecure and unable to recognize your toxic behaviour
 
n4evis said:
That's so fucking disgusting and disrespectful. The fact that you feel the need to humiliate your wife in order to "solve" an issue just proves what type of person u are
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I don't really give a damn about your opinion. And she humiliated herself before that by throwing a tantrum when I said no to her nagging. Letting her have the last word wasn't good enough so she kept on and got herself a prize worthy of her behavior.
 
James Othy said:
I don't really give a damn about your opinion. And she humiliated herself before that by throwing a tantrum when I said no to her nagging. Letting her have the last word wasn't good enough so she kept on and got herself a prize worthy of her behavior.
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u just clearly dont respect her and nagging doesnt deserve what u did, ur honestly luck she didnt just get up and leave ur ass she probably lacks confidence/feels stupid to leave her husband over smthn like that but u took it too far
 
n4evis said:
What i meant by "emotional intelligence" is being able to understand and manage your own emotions, while also respecting others' emotions too

If you truly love your partner, you wouldn't feel the need to hurt them. Violence should NEVER be an option. And also, women like your wife who tolerate this type of behaviour have often experienced some sort of trauma in the past. Obviously, i don't know your wife personally so i can't say for certain, but the fact that she allows this just proves that she lacks self respect, is insecure and unable to recognize your toxic behaviour
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When I've hit her, or taken certain steps before it gets to that point which someone like yourself wouldn't agree with, it's a matter of principle not emotion, my darling.

And my wife's an absolute tiger. She'd eat someone like you alive.
 
James Othy said:
I don't really give a damn about your opinion. And she humiliated herself before that by throwing a tantrum when I said no to her nagging. Letting her have the last word wasn't good enough so she kept on and got herself a prize worthy of her behavior.
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Okay, but keep those toxic opinions to yourself. There are a lot of young men here and i don't want them to take your shitty advice and abuse their loved ones
 
n4evis said:
Okay, but keep those toxic opinions to yourself. There are a lot of young men here and i don't want them to take your shitty advice and abuse their loved ones
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yeah exactly, its crazy to give this advice without any nuance or anything to justify it, just "she kept bitching so i pissed on the floor and hit her" like what?
 
lowkeydeadinside said:
u just clearly dont respect her and nagging doesnt deserve what u did, ur honestly luck she didnt just get up and leave ur ass she probably lacks confidence/feels stupid to leave her husband over smthn like that but u took it too far
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Well if she were with you I can guarantee she'd leave if you didn't capitulate to her nagging. Any woman would. Even the ones that truly don't have confidence.
 
n4evis said:
Okay, but keep those toxic opinions to yourself. There are a lot of young men here and i don't want them to take your shitty advice and abuse their loved ones
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No, I'll put them out there. If you don't like it you can leave, block me, or go to a therapist and cry about it lol.
 
lowkeydeadinside said:
yeah exactly, its crazy to give this advice without any nuance or anything to justify it, just "she kept bitching so i pissed on the floor and hit her" like what?
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Can you justify anything you've said?
 
n4evis said:
You're the one that should go to therapy and make sure you bring your wife too
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lowkeydeadinside said:
yes, men=stronger than women, men shouldnt hit women unless attacked, good enough for ur monkey brain?
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That's an opinion numb nuts. Not a justification. Take any two men in the world and one of them is definitely going to be stronger than the other.
 
n4evis said:
unemployment final boss, pls go get a job so u could pay for ur wife's nails instead of arguing on a looksmaxxing forum💔
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My wife doesn't like to wear makeup and has never in her life painted her nails. She's not insecure.
 
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