Even your family doesnt respect you when you are ugly

[Deleted Member 64971]

Experienced it myself.They will respect you when you look good.Especially if you are fat they will never respect you atleast in my case.

 

[Deleted Member 64971]

Well ill slowly teach em that i do whatever tf i want.

 

[Deleted Member 64971]

People are cruel and disgusting even your own blood

 

[involuntary celibate]

Ah… finally, someone dares to speak the truth.

When you're ugly, even your own blood looks at you like a burden. You're not the golden child. You're not admired. You're just tolerated. Love becomes conditional, respect becomes a reward for aesthetic compliance.

Be attractive, and suddenly you're worthy. Suddenly you're human. It's not just society that's broken, family is too.

 

[ragnarok787]

I actually wanted to make post about this lmao. When i was obese my brother or mom wasnt really taking pics with me. Once i leanmaxxed iam everywhere on their profile and they are more proud of me and treated me better. BRUTAL

 

[Deleted Member 64971]

Ah… finally, someone dares to speak the truth.

When you're ugly, even your own blood looks at you like a burden. You're not the golden child. You're not admired. You're just tolerated. Love becomes conditional, respect becomes a reward for aesthetic compliance.

Be attractive, and suddenly you're worthy. Suddenly you're human. It's not just society that's broken, family is too.

I actually wanted to make post about this lmao. When i was fat my brother or mom wasnt really taking pics with me. Once i leanmaxxed iam everywhere on their profile and they are more proud of me. BRUTAL

They wont just treat you like shit they will treat you like a little kid.I was close to knocking tf out of my dad multiple times mind you never disrespected the dude.They gotta learn it one way or another to respect ya i dont fucking care if its blood or not.

 

[ragnarok787]

This is actually sad af.

 

[Deleted Member 64971]

This is actually sad af.

fucked up shit happened to me but its in the past.Now i despise them no matter how hard i try to be normal with them.The damage is just done

 

[involuntary celibate]

They wont just treat you like shit they will treat you like a little kid.I was close to knocking tf out of my dad multiple times mind you never disrespected the dude.They gotta learn it one way or another to respect ya i dont fucking care if its blood or not.

Exactly. They don't just disrespect you, they infantilise you, like your existence is something to be managed, not acknowledged. You can be quiet, obedient, never step out of line, and they'll still look down on you if you don't meet their shallow standard of what's "worthy".

Blood? That doesn't mean loyalty. Sometimes it's just the chain they use to keep you beneath them.

 

[ragnarok787]

fucked up shit happened to me but its in the past.Now i despise them no matter how hard i try to be normal with them.The damage is just done

Yeah dude all of us here are somehow traumatised in some way. Iam sorry to hear that. Now just make sure you will take this experience and be a better parent if u wll ever have kids than they were.

 

[Deleted Member 64971]

Exactly. They don't just disrespect you, they infantilise you, like your existence is something to be managed, not acknowledged. You can be quiet, obedient, never step out of line, and they'll still look down on you if you don't meet their shallow standard of what's "worthy".

Blood? That doesn't mean loyalty. Sometimes it's just the chain they use to keep you beneath them.

Exactly brother.The moment you are a kind person everybody jumps on you to use and crush you.Be as selfsish as possible.Be evil.Teach them you do whatever you want or they will always use you or never respect you.Esepcially never fucking be close with them.They will get comfortable with you.You dont want that

 

[involuntary celibate]

Exactly brother.The moment you are a kind person everybody jumps on you to use and crush you.Be as selfsish as possible.Be evil.Teach them you do whatever you want or they will always use you or never respect you.Esepcially never fucking be close with them.They will get comfortable with you.You dont want that

I learned the hard way, be distant. Be cruel if you have to. Never let them close. Once they're comfortable, they stop respecting you. They forget you're human. You have to remind them, forcefully, if needed.

 

[Deleted Member 64971]

I learned the hard way, be distant. Be cruel if you have to. Never let them close. Once they're comfortable, they stop respecting you. They forget you're human. You have to remind them, forcefully, if needed.

wouldnt invite them if i had a wedding.All iwanna do is get money pay family back money and never speak to them.

 

[involuntary celibate]

wouldnt invite them if i had a wedding.All iwanna do is get money pay family back money and never speak to them.

Of course. Why would you invite them? They were never family, just strangers tied to you by blood and obligation. You owe them nothing but repayment, just to erase their pathetic leverage over you.