Discussion female Looksmaxers

[BlendedBlade]

i was aware that my shirt was revealing and im not trying to act clueless abt that, but im used to wearing more revealing clothing so im just saying i didnt see it as a big deal, i wasnt thinking of that at the time. when ppl started making weird comments i deleted the first pic and only kept the one where my hairs covering my chest, why would i do that if i wanted everyone to see it?

Relax Hannah I know you weren’t thirst trapping but most girls do it

 

[LASACRKO]

i was aware that my shirt was revealing and im not trying to act clueless abt that, but im used to wearing more revealing clothing so im just saying i didnt see it as a big deal, i wasnt thinking of that at the time. when ppl started making weird comments i deleted the first pic and only kept the one where my hairs covering my chest, why would i do that if i wanted everyone to see it?

Yeah but the point I’m making is a top down angle isn’t the first thing that will come to mind when asking for a eye contact rating

Ofc I can believe u just think ur face looks better at that angle I find it far worse when ppl say girls try to look better for themselves since it’s not true at all

 

[hannah]

Relax Hannah I know you weren’t thirst trapping but most girls do it

no i just dont like how hes implying that im looking for sexual attention when i have no interest in that. i understand that i dont usually like to argue on here but that doesnt mean u guys can just disrespect me, it gets tiring

 

[hannah]

Yeah but the point I’m making is a top down angle isn’t the first thing that will come to mind when asking for a eye contact rating

Ofc I can believe u just think ur face looks better at that angle I find it far worse when ppl say girls try to look better for themselves since it’s not true at all

okay

 

[Mess]

at the core, most people just want to feel a sense of worth. not for others, but for themselves. even in isolation, humans seek meaning and self expression. makeup, like anything else, can be a form of reclaiming control or identity. it’s not always a performance.

You were meant to see your own face maybe 5-6 times in your whole life. Improving your looks is for others.
Improving your health is separate, before anyone says it.

 

[BlendedBlade]

no i just dont like how hes implying that im looking for sexual attention when i have no interest in that. i understand that i dont usually like to argue on here but that doesnt mean u guys can just disrespect me, it gets tiring

Where did I specifically disrespect you?

i only made a joke about us having the right opinion that’s it

 

[hannah]

Where did I specifically disrespect you?

i only made a joke about us having the right opinion that’s it

im not talking abt u, i was replying to lasacrko making me sound like smth im not

 

[BlendedBlade]

im not talking abt u, i was replying to
lasacrko making me sound like smth im not

Gold rep me please I don’t like casual likes

 

[junyaa]

Yes and that is the cope

Avarage pretty girl walks around gets “guilty” pleasure of all the other girls jealous of her and all the guys staring but then goes back home looks in the mirror and says nah it’s all for myself I do this because I like to see myself as beautiful

If that was really true older women would do the same shit dress half naked in the winter and post sexual selfies asking oh do I need contacts??

you’re confidently wrong, which is kind of impressive. the idea that enjoying attention means someone can’t also be doing it for themselves is just bad logic. humans are capable of holding more than one motive at a time. it’s not a contradiction.

 

[LASACRKO]

no i just dont like how hes implying that im looking for sexual attention when i have no interest in that. i understand that i dont usually like to argue on here but that doesnt mean u guys can just disrespect me, it gets tiring

ppl will feel bad for u cause ur a woman but if some n***a does shit like that ain’t nobody gonna empathise tbh just take it as a joke girls are used to being glazed so they get sad when ppl say shit like this

To me this whole tantrum just goes to show how little ur used to being actually treated like most of these guys are 99% of the time tbh I’ve seen even more brutal shit

 

[Randomized Shame]

Nothing makes a conversation more productive than to assume everything for everyone.

The reality of it is, you cannot fully do something for just yourself, because we do not live in a vacuum. We are required and forced to interact with other humans and to participate in society. Just because someone bases their value off of values taught to them by society, does not necessarily mean it's not for themselves; Yes, in a world where makeup was not deemed a necessity for women, I'm sure most women not go out of their way to buy products or try to wear it. It does not mean they wouldn't of ever, though.

Hannah's argument is she recognizes certain beauty standards were taught to her by society, but she does not want individual one-on-one validation provided by men; she wants that certain appearance or aesthetic because she personally assigns value to it. SOME women DO do it for that one-on-one male validation, but not ALL women. To invalidate Hannah's argument with examples of women who do it for those reasons are silly, and a waste of time.

 

[junyaa]

You were meant to see your own face maybe 5-6 times in your whole life. Improving your looks is for others.
Improving your health is separate, before anyone says it.

times have definitely changed. we see ourselves constantly now. that means improving how you look isn’t just for others anymore. it’s also about how you choose to relate to yourself every day. the way we interact with our own image is way more personal and frequent than before, so caring about your appearance can be a form of self-respect, not just a performance for others.

 

[swanneo]

If that was really true older women would do the same shit dress half naked in the winter and post sexual selfies asking oh do I need contacts??

dude come on just relax with this it's very disrespectful and she has already stated that it was not her intention, you're making it sound like something she's not. we have breasts and with certain tops they show in pictures lol it's really not that big of a deal. plus the false dilemas you guys are making about being the last person on earth are quite dumb. i can only speak for myself, but improving my appearance, learning about makeup and stuff has helped me get out of a big depression, and seeing yourself in the mirror looking ugly, with acne, bad posture, makes YOU feel bad about yourself, independently of what other people might thing. ofc there's a societal aspect to it, but it's a stretch to reduce it all to 'you do it for attention'

 

[LASACRKO]

you’re confidently wrong, which is kind of impressive. the idea that enjoying attention means someone can’t also be doing it for themselves is just bad logic. humans are capable of holding more than one motive at a time. it’s not a contradiction.

Bro this is some next level coping

The literal word “for myself” means for u exclusively there’s no deep meaning to it

so women want attention because it makes them feel better for themselves and like they fit in

THAT IS WHAT WANTING ATTENTION IS n***a

 

[Mess]

times have definitely changed. we see ourselves constantly now. that means improving how you look isn’t just for others anymore. it’s also about how you choose to relate to yourself every day. the way we interact with our own image is way more personal and frequent than before, so caring about your appearance can be a form of self-respect, not just a performance for others.

Human nature truly hasn't changed that much from many, many years ago.
We want to be accepted by society, we want to fit in.
To fit in, we need to fit society's standards, ie looking our best.
Trick yourself all you want.
Any personal connection you have to your appearance is just a manifestation of you worrying about society's opinion.

 

[LASACRKO]

you’re confidently wrong, which is kind of impressive. the idea that enjoying attention means someone can’t also be doing it for themselves is just bad logic. humans are capable of holding more than one motive at a time. it’s not a contradiction.

I am actually impressed with the dishonesty of this argument

It’s like a serial killer saying he’s not a killer because sometimes he feels like killing and sometimes he only wants to eat pizza

Think about what u said try to use logic

 

[Randomized Shame]

I am actually impressed with the dishonesty of this argument

It’s like a serial killer saying he’s not a killer because sometimes he feels like killing and sometimes he only wants to eat pizza

Think about what u said try to use logic

Wanting attention is not a title, it's a desire. You cannot apply emotions as a constant state of being.

 

[hannah]

ppl will feel bad for u cause ur a woman but if some n***a does shit like that ain’t nobody gonna empathise tbh just take it as a joke girls are used to being glazed so they get sad when ppl say shit like this

To me this whole tantrum just goes to show how little ur used to being actually treated like most of these guys are 99% of the time tbh I’ve seen even more brutal shit

ik that everyone on here gets treated badly, im not denying that. jokes on here are harsh and ppl often gossip or directly put each other down. but ive empathized with everyone whos been made fun of, ive never put ppl down on here, and i try not to gossip abt ppl. ur calling it a “tantrum” as if its childish for me to expect the same in return

 

[LASACRKO]

dude come on just relax with this it's very disrespectful and she has already stated that it was not her intention, you're making it sound like something she's not. we have breasts and with certain tops they show in pictures lol it's really not that big of a deal. plus the false dilemas you guys are making about being the last person on earth are quite dumb. i can only speak for myself, but improving my appearance, learning about makeup and stuff has helped me get out of a big depression, and seeing yourself in the mirror looking ugly, with acne, bad posture, makes YOU feel bad about yourself, independently of what other people might thing. ofc there's a societal aspect to it, but it's a stretch to reduce it all to 'you do it for attention'

I’m just sick of the special treatment n*****s give to certain ppl in this forum

If I make false accusations about some random n***a here and he says he feels disrespected he’s gonna get a bunch of jfl reacts

It’s the truth and unfortunately most men are too cucked to see this so they will agree because girl sad= important man sad= pussy

 

[junyaa]

Human nature truly hasn't changed that much from many, many years ago.
We want to be accepted by society, we want to fit in.
To fit in, we need to fit society's standards, ie looking our best.
Trick yourself all you want.
Any personal connection you have to your appearance is just a manifestation of you worrying about society's opinion.

yes human nature hasn’t changed much, we still seek acceptance and belonging of course. but what’s shifted dramatically is how frequently we see ourselves like i mentioned, which deepens our relationship with our own image. so personal feelings about appearance aren’t just about social pressure, but also about ongoing self perception. im not trying to trick myself, multiple things can be true at once.

 

[Mess]

girl sad= important man sad= pussy

Yeah, I've seen this in action too many times on this forum.
A girl self-bans, and suddenly there's an uproar.
A guy talks about his struggles with mental health, 1-2 replies.

 

[LASACRKO]

ik that everyone on here gets treated badly, im not denying that. jokes on here are harsh and ppl often gossip or directly put each other down. but ive empathized with everyone whos been made fun of, ive never put ppl down on here, and i try not to gossip abt ppl. ur calling it a “tantrum” as if its childish for me to expect the same in return

U were litterally on most hated lists n***a my whole forum persona is making jokes that’s what I do tho I notice when n*****s take it seriously it’s not even close to this amount of drama

 

[junyaa]

I’m just sick of the special treatment n*****s give to certain ppl in this forum

If I make false accusations about some random n***a here and he says he feels disrespected he’s gonna get a bunch of jfl reacts

It’s the truth and unfortunately most men are too cucked to see this so they will agree because girl sad= important man sad= pussy

weird, i see most people here being respectful to both females and males. it’s much different here compared to .org.

 

[Mess]

multiple things can be true at once.

Yeah, I guess. There are different interpretations of certain topics regarding human nature.
Agree to disagree.

 

[junyaa]

Yeah, I've seen this in action too many times on this forum.
A girl self-bans, and suddenly there's an uproar.
A guy talks about his struggles with mental health, 1-2 replies.

i feel it would depend more on how much people liked the specific person, right? one wouldn’t care if an irrelevant user who happened to be a female self-banned.

 

[Randomized Shame]

Yeah, I've seen this in action too many times on this forum.
A girl self-bans, and suddenly there's an uproar.
A guy talks about his struggles with mental health, 1-2 replies.

I feel like Frax's note thread disproved that. People weren't even fond of him (a lot of them disliked him) but it still had pages of people being kind to him, offering support and wishing he was okay. I'm not saying this never happens, but I think it's how it's brought up onto the forums. Most people who sincerely bring up an issue most likely will sincerely get replies. I think .com proves it's kindness to each other over and over again, and why it stands out against sites like .org.

 

[hannah]

U were litterally on most hated lists n***a my whole forum persona is making jokes that’s what I do tho I notice when n*****s take it seriously it’s not even close to this amount of drama

ur right its whatever im just being dramatic tdy. u were kidding and i shouldnt have taken it srsly, thats just how i am but i was wrong and im sorry

 

[Mess]

i feel it would depend more on how much people liked the specific person, right? one wouldn’t care if an irrelevant user who happened to be a female self-banned.

Oh yeah, but comparing the active male userbase to the active female userbase, there's a clear difference in reactions to certain scenarios.

 

[LASACRKO]

Oh yeah, but comparing the active male userbase to the active female userbase, there's a clear difference in reactions to certain scenarios.

even I treat women a little differently because of the instinctual importance both men and women give to women

But I try to not do it and I can bet my ass if this was a guy I was saying this to it wouldn’t have gotten nearly as far he wouldn’t even have gotten comforted ppl would just Jfl his shit and watch the beef unfold

Tho when it’s a foid the army comes to see if she’s gonna start crying we can’t let her cry guys

 

[Mess]

I feel like Frax's note thread disproved that. People weren't even fond of him (a lot of them disliked him) but it still had pages of people being kind to him, offering support and wishing he was okay. I'm not saying this never happens, but I think it's how it's brought up onto the forums. Most people who sincerely bring up an issue most likely will sincerely get replies. I think .com proves it's kindness to each other over and over again, and why it stands out against sites like .org.

That's a rare case; he was an active user on both forums who suddenly, out of nowhere, decided that he was on borrowed time and decided to kill himself. He was very liked on org.

But if there were to be a thread about a guy struggling with mental health, and a girl struggling with mental health, I can almost gaurentee that she will receive 2-3 times the attention that he will receive.

 

[LASACRKO]

That's a rare case; he was an active user on both forums who suddenly, out of nowhere, decided that he was on borrowed time and decided to kill himself. He was very liked on org.

But if there were to be a thread about a guy struggling with mental health, and a girl struggling with mental health, I can almost gaurentee that she will receive 2-3 times the attention that he will receive.

and it’s never gonna change since it’s instinct ppl will just find different ways to cope and say why the way that girl was treated was worse because of this and that

It’s a useless thing to argue I just wanna make jokes independent of the gender but it’s always so tense with the foids

Shit if I did to her half of what I did to @ey88 the users would be flying to my house with guns

 

[hannah]

Hannah's argument is she recognizes certain beauty standards were taught to her by society, but she does not want individual one-on-one validation provided by men; she wants that certain appearance or aesthetic because she personally assigns value to it. SOME women DO do it for that one-on-one male validation, but not ALL women. To invalidate Hannah's argument with examples of women who do it for those reasons are silly, and a waste of time.

ty randomized, u worded it rly well. i was trying to say that my obsession with looks and my mindset stems from how i was brought up. its the way i am and its the way ive always been, before i even knew anything abt men. my looks are what i value the most about myself, its not about men liking me or not liking me.