female validation is cope

[proporti0n]

I don't trust other women when it comes to judging female attractiveness.

women compliment to maintain social harmony, not to be honest. if you express insecurity, most women respond to the emotion, not the reality. they's why reassurance is endless, even when nothing has changed. telling another women she's unattractive in a public setting is basically social suicide unless you're surrounded by "mean girls".
that's also why genuinely unattractive sub5 overweight women get hyped up, while attractive women get backhanded or jealous comments. female feedback is not objective.

i don't trust normie male attention either. men's standards for sexual access are low. getting sex doesn't mean you're attractive, it means you're available. sexual interest is not the same as being chosen, claimed, or committed to. below average women can get sex easily. commitment from a high value man is a different metric.

it's easy to cope as a female. men still want you, friends will hype you up, and if you express insecurity or the want to change you get bombarded with "everyone is beautiful in their own way" bullshit.

as a woman if you want to be serious about looksmaxxing you have to want it for yourself, and want it bad. stop using attention as proof, stop crying underrating when you actually get real feedback.


just my rant for tonight

 

[puddiiing]

100% agree, everything here was facts

 

[ifadbinimran]

If u want a woman to rate u base on what they think then u cant ask them directly, use a friend who has close female friends and make him ask them how good looking u r base of ur picture

 

[proporti0n]

100% agree, everything here was facts

before i even got hardcore into bp, tik tok made me realize this. if an unattractive girl posts about being fat/ugly she gets compliments in the comments. "no ur so beautiful" "girl stop you're gorgeous" "ancient greeks would've worshipped you"
if a skinny beautiful girl posts the exact same thing its the opposite. "yeah you're right you're huge" "compliment fishing is crazy" "you're bodychecking and begging for attention"
normies shame communities like this one without realizing they feed into this exact mindset with shit like this.

 

[proporti0n]

If u want a woman to rate u base on what they think then u cant ask them directly, use a friend who has close female friends and make him ask them how good looking u r base of ur picture

either that or a male friend who has a jealous girlfriend. they might over exaggerate but its more honest then those bullshit compliments

 

[puddiiing]

before i even got hardcore into bp, tik tok made me realize this. if an unattractive girl posts about being fat/ugly she gets compliments in the comments. "no ur so beautiful" "girl stop you're gorgeous" "ancient greeks would've worshipped you"
if a skinny beautiful girl posts the exact same thing its the opposite. "yeah you're right you're huge" "compliment fishing is crazy" "you're bodychecking and begging for attention"
normies shame communities like this one without realizing they feed into this exact mindset with shit like this.

Idk I figured out pretty quickly that girls calling an objectively ugly girl "pretty" was just another way that girls higher up on the social ladder made fun of you, or at least treated you like some kind of pet. Like "awh you think you're all that, sure you're sooo pretty girly <33" while calling u a fat bitch behind ur back. Plus most of the people calling beautiful women those things are also insecure about themselves and feel like it's "punching up" against others they see as above them, so it's really a compliment imo.

 

[giga.mia]

Water

 

[Deleted Member 98440]

I don't trust other women when it comes to judging female attractiveness.

women compliment to maintain social harmony, not to be honest. if you express insecurity, most women respond to the emotion, not the reality. they's why reassurance is endless, even when nothing has changed. telling another women she's unattractive in a public setting is basically social suicide unless you're surrounded by "mean girls".
that's also why genuinely unattractive sub5 overweight women get hyped up, while attractive women get backhanded or jealous comments. female feedback is not objective.

i don't trust normie male attention either. men's standards for sexual access are low. getting sex doesn't mean you're attractive, it means you're available. sexual interest is not the same as being chosen, claimed, or committed to. below average women can get sex easily. commitment from a high value man is a different metric.

it's easy to cope as a female. men still want you, friends will hype you up, and if you express insecurity or the want to change you get bombarded with "everyone is beautiful in their own way" bullshit.

as a woman if you want to be serious about looksmaxxing you have to want it for yourself, and want it bad. stop using attention as proof, stop crying underrating when you actually get real feedback.


just my rant for tonight

holy agree

 

[TonyDr]

men's standards for sexual access are low. getting sex doesn't mean you're attractive, it means you're available. sexual interest is not the same as being chosen, claimed, or committed to. below average women can get sex easily. commitment from a high value man is a different metric.

Some women will fall from that imaginary pedestal when they will do that difference

 

[kimothy]

I don't trust other women when it comes to judging female attractiveness.

women compliment to maintain social harmony, not to be honest. if you express insecurity, most women respond to the emotion, not the reality. they's why reassurance is endless, even when nothing has changed. telling another women she's unattractive in a public setting is basically social suicide unless you're surrounded by "mean girls".
that's also why genuinely unattractive sub5 overweight women get hyped up, while attractive women get backhanded or jealous comments. female feedback is not objective.

i don't trust normie male attention either. men's standards for sexual access are low. getting sex doesn't mean you're attractive, it means you're available. sexual interest is not the same as being chosen, claimed, or committed to. below average women can get sex easily. commitment from a high value man is a different metric.

it's easy to cope as a female. men still want you, friends will hype you up, and if you express insecurity or the want to change you get bombarded with "everyone is beautiful in their own way" bullshit.

as a woman if you want to be serious about looksmaxxing you have to want it for yourself, and want it bad. stop using attention as proof, stop crying underrating when you actually get real feedback.


just my rant for tonight

exactly

 

[zygosmasher]

are foids finally waking up to reality?

 

[iletheile]

1000000000% agree even worse irl when a insecurity is clearly obvious they always say shit too like "ohh you can't even see it and your beautiful just the way you are"

 

[proporti0n]

1000000000% agree even worse irl when a insecurity is clearly obvious they always say shit too like "ohh you can't even see it and your beautiful just the way you are"

comments like that are ultimately self centered too. they want to reassure you so they look like a good friend

 

[ragusit]

I don't trust other women when it comes to judging female attractiveness.

women compliment to maintain social harmony, not to be honest. if you express insecurity, most women respond to the emotion, not the reality. they's why reassurance is endless, even when nothing has changed. telling another women she's unattractive in a public setting is basically social suicide unless you're surrounded by "mean girls".
that's also why genuinely unattractive sub5 overweight women get hyped up, while attractive women get backhanded or jealous comments. female feedback is not objective.

i don't trust normie male attention either. men's standards for sexual access are low. getting sex doesn't mean you're attractive, it means you're available. sexual interest is not the same as being chosen, claimed, or committed to. below average women can get sex easily. commitment from a high value man is a different metric.

it's easy to cope as a female. men still want you, friends will hype you up, and if you express insecurity or the want to change you get bombarded with "everyone is beautiful in their own way" bullshit.

as a woman if you want to be serious about looksmaxxing you have to want it for yourself, and want it bad. stop using attention as proof, stop crying underrating when you actually get real feedback.


just my rant for tonight

realest shit ive seen today, and when you actually say the truth when a girl asks for a rating on looks clothes makeup etc and it looks like utter shit you get told youre just a mean bitch lmao this is exactly why my ex friendgroup started hating me cause i wasnt glazemaxxing their ass

 

[sikkuntt]

usually i only compliment girls bcuz i feel bad or they compliment me then i usually shit talk ab attractive girls

 

[cookedasf]

You're absolutely right, the truth is that women are overly empathetic and often incapable of telling you the truth to your face. It's a bit exasperating when they don't encourage you to be a better version of yourself; it's like saying, "I won't tell my alcoholic friend to stop drinking because she's so funny, even though she's ruining her life."