Serious Foid problems

[Revolt]

17M
I just turned 17 a couple weeks ago and have been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks now, and i will not lie but i really really like her, we've been speaking consistently for every day, i met up with her twice, i've kissed her and made out with her (shes the first girl ive ever made out with sober) and we're learning about each other like sexual shit, i'm on holiday so i cant meet her during this break but oh my god i like her so much but it makes me really scared, because you see all these posts on social media about chuds getting broken up with girls at about my age (i've never had a relationship btw) but i've been losing weight and i'm somewhat tall at 6'1 and im getting taller, and i have alot of muscle since ive been weightlifting since 13 and my frame is really good too, i've been rated lmtn-mmtn some months ago but i've been debloating and whatnot so i hope it's getting higher. What i'm scared of is whether shes talking to some htn and i'm just getting played or that it's just some cruel fucking joke or that shes just gonna tell me we should be friends if i tell her we should get together (she called me 'my love' once though), but she's been cheated on twice so i seriously dont know what to think, she really wants to meet up again when i get back and i cant wait too, i can't believe i'm stressing over a foid, i just want someone to give me advice about anything bcs idk what to think

 

[Garce]

17M
I just turned 17 a couple weeks ago and have been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks now, and i will not lie but i really really like her, we've been speaking consistently for every day, i met up with her twice, i've kissed her and made out with her (shes the first girl ive ever made out with sober) and we're learning about each other like sexual shit, i'm on holiday so i cant meet her during this break but oh my god i like her so much but it makes me really scared, because you see all these posts on social media about chuds getting broken up with girls at about my age (i've never had a relationship btw) but i've been losing weight and i'm somewhat tall at 6'1 and im getting taller, and i have alot of muscle since ive been weightlifting since 13 and my frame is really good too, i've been rated lmtn-mmtn some months ago but i've been debloating and whatnot so i hope it's getting higher. What i'm scared of is whether shes talking to some htn and i'm just getting played or that it's just some cruel fucking joke or that shes just gonna tell me we should be friends if i tell her we should get together (she called me 'my love' once though), but she's been cheated on twice so i seriously dont know what to think, she really wants to meet up again when i get back and i cant wait too, i can't believe i'm stressing over a foid, i just want someone to give me advice about anything bcs idk what to think

I think she likes you (can’t believe I’ve read this tho) , and if she really does if she say someone more handsome she wouldn’t care as long as you’re here for her.
And you’re not friends if you made out anyways , friends don’t do this.

 

[Thebird]

chad

 

[Revolt]

I think she likes you (can’t believe I’ve read this tho) , and if she really does if she say someone more handsome she wouldn’t care as long as you’re here for her.
And you’re not friends if you made out anyways , friends don’t do this.

Thank you so much for the reply, a little backstory, she was cheated on like maybe a year ago(?) and told me shes scared whether i'll break her heart or if it'll happen again, ans i understand her aswell, i'm scared whether she's using me as a rebound too or im taking this the wrong way, tell me im not

 

[Garce]

Thank you so much for the reply, a little backstory, she was cheated on like maybe a year ago(?) and told me shes scared whether i'll break her heart or if it'll happen again, ans i understand her aswell, i'm scared whether she's using me as a rebound too or im taking this the wrong way, tell me im not

You’re welcome lol, im happy to help if i can..
I can’t tell you your for sure not because i dont know her at all but im hoping she really is over her ex.
Broken heart is something that happens and if it will , thats fine , it makes you tougher and smarter .
I do have an important tip because thats may going to be your first relationship from what i understand:
Don’t put your ego before problem solving,
Truly show that you care ,
Don’t lie even if you think it’s for the better.
I do think she likes you truly from what I’ve read , if you need any more help I’m here

 

[Revolt]

You’re welcome lol, im happy to help if i can..
I can’t tell you your for sure not because i dont know her at all but im hoping she really is over her ex.
Broken heart is something that happens and if it will , thats fine , it makes you tougher and smarter .
I do have an important tip because thats may going to be your first relationship from what i understand:
Don’t put your ego before problem solving,
Truly show that you care ,
Don’t lie even if you think it’s for the better.
I do think she likes you truly from what I’ve read , if you need any more help I’m here

Thank you so much for this, i'm genuinely clueless on relationships and i have no clue what to do, i compliment her and i show her i really care since i do and i'm speaking to absolutely no one except her, she calls me handsome and cute and perfect for her and says 'mine' frequently and i reciprocate. She drunk texted me once and said how handsome and perfect i am. I compliment her alot aswell and we flirt alottt and talk early in the morning and late into the night about what we're gonna do when we meet up, even as i'm writing this she's texted me. It's just me, i tend to overthink absolutely everything, and i keep thinking when she's left me on delivered for 20-30 mins that shes speaking to another guy and that maybe this shit is just a joke or that i'm just exposing myself so she can laugh at it with her friends, i'm sorry if im sounding like an idiot, i just want some advice

 

[Garce]

Thank you so much for this, i'm genuinely clueless on relationships and i have no clue what to do, i compliment her and i show her i really care since i do and i'm speaking to absolutely no one except her, she calls me handsome and cute and perfect for her and says 'mine' frequently and i reciprocate. She drunk texted me once and said how handsome and perfect i am. I compliment her alot aswell and we flirt alottt and talk early in the morning and late into the night about what we're gonna do when we meet up, even as i'm writing this she's texted me. It's just me, i tend to overthink absolutely everything, and i keep thinking when she's left me on delivered for 20-30 mins that shes speaking to another guy and that maybe this shit is just a joke or that i'm just exposing myself so she can laugh at it with her friends, i'm sorry if im sounding like an idiot, i just want some advice

She definitely likes you a lot by what you’re saying .
I don’t think she speaks to another guy because she doesn’t reply instantly always , I can be busy sometimes and not reply to my partner and that’s fine , we all live a different life.
You don’t sound like an idiot , I think myself a lot of people feel like this when they don’t have previous partners

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

moid, kys.

 

[BigDihDiddy]

17M
I just turned 17 a couple weeks ago and have been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks now, and i will not lie but i really really like her, we've been speaking consistently for every day, i met up with her twice, i've kissed her and made out with her (shes the first girl ive ever made out with sober) and we're learning about each other like sexual shit, i'm on holiday so i cant meet her during this break but oh my god i like her so much but it makes me really scared, because you see all these posts on social media about chuds getting broken up with girls at about my age (i've never had a relationship btw) but i've been losing weight and i'm somewhat tall at 6'1 and im getting taller, and i have alot of muscle since ive been weightlifting since 13 and my frame is really good too, i've been rated lmtn-mmtn some months ago but i've been debloating and whatnot so i hope it's getting higher. What i'm scared of is whether shes talking to some htn and i'm just getting played or that it's just some cruel fucking joke or that shes just gonna tell me we should be friends if i tell her we should get together (she called me 'my love' once though), but she's been cheated on twice so i seriously dont know what to think, she really wants to meet up again when i get back and i cant wait too, i can't believe i'm stressing over a foid, i just want someone to give me advice about anything bcs idk what to think

Always a risk of breaking up n***a can’t avoid dating cause of that atp

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

17M
I just turned 17 a couple weeks ago and have been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks now, and i will not lie but i really really like her, we've been speaking consistently for every day, i met up with her twice, i've kissed her and made out with her (shes the first girl ive ever made out with sober) and we're learning about each other like sexual shit, i'm on holiday so i cant meet her during this break but oh my god i like her so much but it makes me really scared, because you see all these posts on social media about chuds getting broken up with girls at about my age (i've never had a relationship btw) but i've been losing weight and i'm somewhat tall at 6'1 and im getting taller, and i have alot of muscle since ive been weightlifting since 13 and my frame is really good too, i've been rated lmtn-mmtn some months ago but i've been debloating and whatnot so i hope it's getting higher. What i'm scared of is whether shes talking to some htn and i'm just getting played or that it's just some cruel fucking joke or that shes just gonna tell me we should be friends if i tell her we should get together (she called me 'my love' once though), but she's been cheated on twice so i seriously dont know what to think, she really wants to meet up again when i get back and i cant wait too, i can't believe i'm stressing over a foid, i just want someone to give me advice about anything bcs idk what to think

shes not gonna be making out w u, speaking to u every day and doing sexual stuff w u if she doesnt like u, i would stop looking at all this bp stuff cos it will just make u miserable n paranoid

 

[Pepelmint]

Yeah she probably is. Girls have HTNs in their Dms from every Platform whether Insta/Snap
Just give up on her

 

[Revolt]

shes not gonna be making out w u, speaking to u every day and doing sexual stuff w u if she doesnt like u, i would stop looking at all this bp stuff cos it will just make u miserable n paranoid

You're right, if i scroll on tt or insta i just end up overthinking and stressing, i should really stop this bp shit for now, thanks