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shigeharu said:
or go as far as call you gay , like bro sorry but yes the main reason i would talk to a girl is to have sex with her , i have friends that i hang out with and share hobbies with already
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A romantic bond is not comparable to a friendship?
 
shigeharu said:
yes its 100% comparable , the only difference between a friend and a girlfriend/boyfriend is you having sex with them or not
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You have probably never been in love then
 
catlady said:
You have probably never been in love then
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look back at your last relationship , take the sex aspect out and that guy would just be another friend , nothing different about it , you people love to talk about love like it's an outerworldly experience lol this is real life not disney
 
shigeharu said:
look back at your last relationship , take the sex aspect out and that guy would just be another friend , nothing different about it , you people love to talk about love like it's an outerworldly experience lol this is real life not disney
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i wanna experience love
 
shigeharu said:
yes its 100% comparable , the only difference between a friend and a girlfriend/boyfriend is you having sex with them or not
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shigeharu said:
look back at your last relationship , take the sex aspect out and that guy would just be another friend , nothing different about it , you people love to talk about love like it's an outerworldly experience lol this is real life not disney
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It wouldn’t be in my opinion. It’s far more intimate.
 
icnone said:
i wanna experience love
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sex is the basis of "love" , take sex out there's no such thing as "love" it would just be another friendship , you people are so brainwashed by this fake idea of "love" it's actually insane lol
 
shigeharu said:
sex is the basis of "love" , take sex out there's no such thing as "love" it would just be another friendship , you people are so brainwashed by this fake idea of "love" it's actually insane lol
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explain exclusivity then
 
shigeharu said:
how lmao
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You’re supposed to feel more comfortable with them, be 100% yourself, spend more time doing some random bs with them, not care about whether they judge you or not, think about them often… idk if I just don’t have the right circle, but I almost was never totally myself around them and would avoid speaking about things that were very personal.
 
catlady said:
You’re supposed to feel more comfortable with them, be 100% yourself, spend more time doing some random bs with them, not care about whether they judge you or not, think about them often… idk if I just don’t have the right circle, but I almost was never totally myself around them and would avoid speaking about things that were very personal.
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this is the literal definition of a friend LMAO
 
shigeharu said:
look back at your last relationship , take the sex aspect out and that guy would just be another friend , nothing different about it , you people love to talk about love like it's an outerworldly experience lol this is real life not disney
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“ive never felt this so called feeling “love” so its not real”
 
shigeharu said:
explain how the statement is wrong : ❌
meme : ✅
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if sex were the only difference maker there would be no norms about exclusivity or things like moving in or sharing finances. its not a "super close friendship". and since sex is the only difference in your worldview than wouldnt we expect friends with benefits to not be a thing? as do sexless couples.
 
shigeharu said:
someone you're supposed to be comfortable around ? that you can be 100% yourself with ? not care if they judge you ? you must have horrible friends , because this is the textbook definition of what a friend is
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It’s not like I don’t say anything to them but you get to spend more time with a partner and you’re supposed to be their only partner it’s more exclusive yk?
 
technically a lover is also at the same time a very close friend, but not every close friend is a lover. I feel like the main differences are of course physical attraction but also falling in love with who they actually are. Its hard to explain if youve never been in love but you share a different type of emotional bond with a lover thats more intimate. Its hard to explain because it hard to explain what love is exactly but when you feel it youll know it
 
vespertine said:
if sex were the only difference maker there would be no norms about exclusivity or things like moving in or sharing finances. its not a "super close friendship". and since sex is the only difference in your worldview than wouldnt we expect friends with benefits to not be a thing? as do sexless couples.
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you're talking about social norms such as moving in together and sharing finances that have nothing to do with actual feelings and everything to do with convenience , as to friends with benefits you'd be lying if you said these situations weren't ticking time bombs , those situations always fail because once you break the barriers of the friendship with sex there's no coming back , and are you implying sexless couples are experiencing some sort of higher spiritual form of love ? they most likely stay together because of convenience when it comes to ressources and family life , no sex = no "love"
 
lia.jav said:
technically a lover is also at the same time a very close friend, but not every close friend is a lover. I feel like the main differences are of course physical attraction but also falling in love with who they actually are. Its hard to explain if youve never been in love but you share a different type of emotional bond with a lover thats more intimate. Its hard to explain because it hard to explain what love is exactly but when you feel it youll know it
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physical attraction and sex are the only things that differenciate a friend from a lover i don't know why you people are actually trying to argue against this
 
shigeharu said:
physical attraction and sex are the only things that differenciate a friend from a lover i don't know why you people are actually trying to argue against this
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I dont know why you think people are lying about love when you could just be incapable of falling inlove
 
Unrelated question bro, but do you think spamming sex with a girl can make her fall in love with you due to oxytocin release and what not, even if you’re not her first love or if she has a high body count? Or is she far gone once she has an extensive past and/or is stuck on an ex?
 
Dandelions said:
Trvth nvke… why would I ever want a close relationship with a girl when I have the homies lol.

Sex and cuddling is like 90% of my attraction towards them
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they're so obsessed with this idea of "love" as some sort of spiritual connection it's pretty crazy
 
Dandelions said:
Unrelated question bro, but do you think spamming sex with a girl can make her fall in love with you due to oxytocin release and what not, even if you’re not her first love or if she has a high body count? Or is she far gone once she has an extensive past and/or is stuck on an ex?
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i think every situation has its complexities i couldnt tell you , but if you keep having sex with the same girl , her becoming attached to you is obviously bound to happen
 
shigeharu said:
but if you keep having sex with the same girl , her becoming attached to you is obviously bound to happen
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How many times do you need to have sex with her for that to happen, and is her getting attached a natural biological response to hormones like oxytocin or is it something mental, maybe like an attachment disorder of some sorts?
 
Dandelions said:
Unrelated question bro, but do you think spamming sex with a girl can make her fall in love with you due to oxytocin release and what not, even if you’re not her first love or if she has a high body count? Or is she far gone once she has an extensive past and/or is stuck on an ex?
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Purely from sex probably not
 
shigeharu said:
you're talking about social norms such as moving in together and sharing finances that have nothing to do with actual feelings and everything to do with convenience , as to friends with benefits you'd be lying if you said these situations weren't ticking time bombs , those situations always fail because once you break the barriers of the friendship with sex there's no coming back , and are you implying sexless couples are experiencing some sort of higher spiritual form of love ? they most likely stay together because of convenience when it comes to ressources and family life , no sex = no "love"
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the burden is on you to show that every sexless couple lacks love, every fwb arrangement fails, and that romantic love without sex doesn't exist. those are very strong claims that can't be taken seriously if not backed up by studies.
 
shigeharu said:
natural human behaviour , exclusivity secures paternity for men , exclusivity secures ressources for women , we're animals at the end of the day we go to the most convenient situation instinctively
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idk man if I were cheated on I'd feel devastated because I would not feel chosen
 
Dandelions said:
How many times do you need to have sex with her for that to happen, and is her getting attached a natural biological response to hormones like oxytocin or is it something mental, maybe like an attachment disorder of some sorts?
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how many times i couldnt tell you bro this is so specific and dependant on the girl , but girl becoming attached from sex is just a natural response because sex = reproduction , a woman having sex with you is her subconciously accepting to carry your child , that attachment comes from the instinct of seeking for protection and ressources from the potential future father . that's why girls who have a ton of bodies are completely unstable because they're basically signalling to their brains that they're constantly having potential pregnancies incoming , that's just not healthy
 
shigeharu said:
how many times i couldnt tell you bro this is so specific and dependant on the girl , but girl becoming attached from sex is just a natural response because sex = reproduction , a woman having sex with you is her subconciously accepting to carry your child , that attachment comes from the instinct of seeking for protection and ressources from the potential future father . that's why girls who have a ton of bodies are completely unstable because they're basically signalling to their brains that they're constantly having potential pregnancies incoming , that's just not healthy
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we’re not like dogs so we dont purely rely on our instincts. Also what about gay people then
 
lia.jav said:
This thread seems like cope for not experiencing true love
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No one here has ever or ever will experience true love. If it was “true love”, you would’ve never broken up with your partner.

So many people say “oh yeah, my ex was my true love”

…. Well, clearly not, because they’re your ex for a reason
 
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