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SLAYING
A practical guide for slaying
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The basic formula:
LOOKS + BODY + HYGIENE + DEMEANOR + TARGET SELECTION + GAME
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THE FUNDAMENTALS
You don't need to become some fictional chad to have success with women. The goal is to maximize the things that are actually under your control and put yourself in situations where attraction can develop naturally.
A practical guide for slaying
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The basic formula:
LOOKS + BODY + HYGIENE + DEMEANOR + TARGET SELECTION + GAME
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THE FUNDAMENTALS
You don't need to become some fictional chad to have success with women. The goal is to maximize the things that are actually under your control and put yourself in situations where attraction can develop naturally.
1. LOOKS
Looks are the foundation.
Looks are the foundation.
[]LTN / below average: you'll generally have a harder time relying purely on looks.
[]HLTN: around average. You can absolutely date and have relationships, but other factors become more important.
[]MTN: above average and generally a much easier starting point.
[]HTN: noticeably attractive
Basics:
[]Good haircut suited to your face
[]Healthy-looking skin
[]Good dental hygiene
[]Well-maintained eyebrows
[]Facial hair that actually suits you
[]Appropriate bf %
[]Clothing that fits your proportions
[]Good posture
You want to look like the best version of yourself, not like an autist who spent the last 5 hours copesmashing.
2. BODY
The general aesthetic you're aiming for is:
TALL + LEAN + BROAD
The general aesthetic you're aiming for is:
TALL + LEAN + BROAD
A strong masculine silhouette generally comes from:
[]Broad shoulders
[]A relatively narrow waist
[]Visible muscularity
[]Reasonably low body fat
[]Good posture
[]Proportional legs
The biggest visual priorities are usually your shoulders, back, chest and waist so obviously build your V taper.
You NEED good proportions.
If you're naturally tall, that's obviously an advantage in many dating environments. If you're not tall, don't waste time coping its not worth it js work on what you can.
3. HYGIENE
You should never lose an opportunity because you smell bad or look dirty.
Non-negotiables:
Skin matters too.
Acne will fuck you up unless you're somehow htn with acne
SMELL GOOD. LOOK CLEAN. LOOK HEALTHY.
You should never lose an opportunity because you smell bad or look dirty.
Non-negotiables:
[]Shower regularly
[]Use deodorant
[]Wear clean clothes
[]Brush your teeth twice a day
[]Floss
[]Keep your nails clean and trimmed
[]Keep your hair maintained
[]Wash your face appropriately
[]Use a fragrance that isn't overpowering
[]Keep your shoes reasonably clean
Skin matters too.
Acne will fuck you up unless you're somehow htn with acne
SMELL GOOD. LOOK CLEAN. LOOK HEALTHY.
4. DEMEANOR
You don't want to behave like you're desperate for her approval.
Show interest without worshipping her.
Be somewhat nonchalant. You don't need to constantly compliment her, reply within three seconds every time, or make her the center of your universe.
At the same time don't be an asshole.
If she isn't comfortable, respect that and leave.
There are plenty of other people you'll meet. You don't need to convince someone to like you.
PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES.
Imagine a stranger approaching you exactly how you're approaching her.
Would you feel safe?
Would the conversation feel natural?
Would you feel like you could say no?
Conversation:
actually listen to what she says and build off it.
Ask something -> listen -> respond -> share something about yourself -> continue
The goal is to make the interaction feel easy.
When someone feels comfortable around you, they're much more likely to open up and show their personality.
Confidence is "I'll be fine whether this woman likes me or not."
You don't want to behave like you're desperate for her approval.
Show interest without worshipping her.
Be somewhat nonchalant. You don't need to constantly compliment her, reply within three seconds every time, or make her the center of your universe.
At the same time don't be an asshole.
[]Don't beg for attention.
[]Don't spam her if she isn't responding.
[]Don't pressure her.
[]Don't become angry because she rejected you.
[]Don't act entitled to her attention.
[]Don't pretend you don't care when you obviously do.- Don't chase someone who clearly isn't interested.
If she isn't comfortable, respect that and leave.
There are plenty of other people you'll meet. You don't need to convince someone to like you.
PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES.
Imagine a stranger approaching you exactly how you're approaching her.
Would you feel safe?
Would the conversation feel natural?
Would you feel like you could say no?
Conversation:
actually listen to what she says and build off it.
Ask something -> listen -> respond -> share something about yourself -> continue
The goal is to make the interaction feel easy.
When someone feels comfortable around you, they're much more likely to open up and show their personality.
Confidence is "I'll be fine whether this woman likes me or not."
5. TARGET SELECTION
Who you approach matters.
Think about compatibility and relative attractiveness rather than approaching completely randomly.
Someone around your looksmatch is naturally going to be a more realistic starting point.
If you're significantly below her preferred type, you'll generally have to compensate with stronger social compatibility, personality, status, shared interests, etc.
If you're significantly above her preferred type, you're likely to receive more initial interest.
Look for:
The best target is ultimately someone who wants you back.
Who you approach matters.
Think about compatibility and relative attractiveness rather than approaching completely randomly.
Someone around your looksmatch is naturally going to be a more realistic starting point.
If you're significantly below her preferred type, you'll generally have to compensate with stronger social compatibility, personality, status, shared interests, etc.
If you're significantly above her preferred type, you're likely to receive more initial interest.
Look for:
[]Mutual attraction
[]Compatible personalities
[]Similar lifestyles
[]Shared interests
[]Similar relationship expectations
[]Signs that she's actually interested in you
The best target is ultimately someone who wants you back.
6. GBR METHOD
GIVE -> BACK OFF -> RECEIVE
The idea behind GBR is to avoid becoming overly available while paying attention to whether her interest is actually reciprocal.
DAY 1 - GIVE
When you first get her number/social media:
DAY 2 - BACK OFF
return to your normal life just stop giving her as much attention
If she messages you, respond naturally
DAY 3 - GIVE
If the interaction is still reciprocal obviously
Talk more, flirt and make plans.
Give attention again boyo
THE REST OF THE WEEK
gradually establish a natural rhythm where both people initiate and invest
If she gives you attention receive it.
If she gives little don't compensate by giving more
If she consistently shows interest move things forward
THE REAL PURPOSE OF GBR IS RECIPROCITY.
You're not trying to make her emotionally dependent on you. You're finding out whether she naturally wants to invest in you too.
After a few weeks, you should ideally either be progressing toward an actual date/relationship or realizing that the interest isn't mutual.
Don't run hot-and-cold games indefinitely.
If you like her, eventually make your intentions clear.
GIVE -> BACK OFF -> RECEIVE
The idea behind GBR is to avoid becoming overly available while paying attention to whether her interest is actually reciprocal.
DAY 1 - GIVE
When you first get her number/social media:
[]Match her energy.
[]If she's enthusiastic, be enthusiastic.
[]Keep the conversation flowing.
[]Show genuine interest.- Make her feel valued.
DAY 2 - BACK OFF
return to your normal life just stop giving her as much attention
[]Don't force conversation.
[]Don't double-text repeatedly.
[]Don't cancel your plans just to talk to her.
[]If you're busy, be busy.
If she messages you, respond naturally
DAY 3 - GIVE
If the interaction is still reciprocal obviously
Talk more, flirt and make plans.
Give attention again boyo
THE REST OF THE WEEK
gradually establish a natural rhythm where both people initiate and invest
If she gives you attention receive it.
If she gives little don't compensate by giving more
If she consistently shows interest move things forward
THE REAL PURPOSE OF GBR IS RECIPROCITY.
You're not trying to make her emotionally dependent on you. You're finding out whether she naturally wants to invest in you too.
After a few weeks, you should ideally either be progressing toward an actual date/relationship or realizing that the interest isn't mutual.
Don't run hot-and-cold games indefinitely.
If you like her, eventually make your intentions clear.
7. CLUB GAME
being tall and conventionally attractive (mtn atleast) WILL give you a substantial advantage
Don't walk up to her and tell her u want to fuck her unless ur chad.
Just talk to her, introduce yourself and ask her to dance if she's clearly interested in you
offer to buy her a drink too
Most importantly, pay attention to her response.
If she's smiling, engaging, staying close, initiating conversation, touching you appropriately, or otherwise clearly reciprocating, continue.
If she's giving short answers, moving away, avoiding you, looking uncomfortable, or saying no js
Leave her alone.
"Have a good night."
Then move on.
THE SNOWBALL
Approach her -> Conversation -> Mutual Interest -> Dance -> More Conversation -> Exchange Contact -> Date -> Slay her buddy boyo
[]Good physique
[]Good grooming
[]Good outfit
[]Good scent
[]Strong posture
[]Comfortable body language- Confidence approaching strangers
being tall and conventionally attractive (mtn atleast) WILL give you a substantial advantage
Don't walk up to her and tell her u want to fuck her unless ur chad.
Just talk to her, introduce yourself and ask her to dance if she's clearly interested in you
offer to buy her a drink too
Most importantly, pay attention to her response.
If she's smiling, engaging, staying close, initiating conversation, touching you appropriately, or otherwise clearly reciprocating, continue.
If she's giving short answers, moving away, avoiding you, looking uncomfortable, or saying no js
Leave her alone.
"Have a good night."
Then move on.
THE SNOWBALL
Approach her -> Conversation -> Mutual Interest -> Dance -> More Conversation -> Exchange Contact -> Date -> Slay her buddy boyo
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