Experience Friend of acquaintance (Chadlite) prefers to use Telegram/Discord to talk for dating, but gets ghosted/blocked almost immediately. What's his problem?

[Jova]

Was talking to an acquaintance (MTN manlet) for a bit tonight and he says that his friend prefers to talk to girls using Telegram or Discord as opposed to IG DMs, Facebook Messenger, Snapchat, and even WhatsApp.

Said friend of the acquaintance is a solid maesthetic/masc Chadlite with body halo, but has a relatively low body count (below 5) for his age and looks, and is looking for a girlfriend since he's on the upper end of his 20s (26). He has also had long single spells because he's afraid of falling in love for a woman that may not care about him.

But every woman either blocks the Chadlite (if they meet online) or wants to talk on IG instead, said the acquaintance. The chadlite also doesn't use dating apps because of "overwhelm".

The acquaintance said that the Chadlite said "seeing the profile photo of the woman gives him performance anxiety because he has to watch what he's saying so he doesn't get screenshotted and cancelled" and prefers "a low stress platform to talk where he can be unfiltered and free, and not to talk about mundane things like travel, their parties and music".

What's wrong here?

 

[Jova]

@Whitepill

 

[Jova]

@Goblina @ayaladahan @Tombradylover

 

[Jova]

@TonyTheLooksmaxxDR @AJis18

 

[ayaladahan]

I think the problem isn't the girls, it's him

 

[Jova]

I think the problem isn't the girls, it's him

Why do you think it's him?

 

[vexnaut]

Telegram and Discord? You already know bros got a shit ton of CP

 

[Jova]

Telegram and Discord? You already know bros got a shit ton of CP

He doesn't

 

[vexnaut]

He doesn't

he probably sucks at talking/texting then. Made the women uncomfortable

 

[Jova]

he probably sucks at talking/texting then. Made the women uncomfortable

Acquaintance said the Chadlite hates to talk about music/travel/social circles too much.

 

[vexnaut]

Acquaintance said the Chadlite hates to talk about music/travel/social circles too much.

that kinda explains it, 0 personality. Hes probably only good for a hookup but not for a long time partner

 

[Jova]

that kinda explains it, 0 personality. Hes probably only good for a hookup but not for a long time partner

And the MTN said the chadlite has a body count of 5, all were hookups (the girls didn’t want long term with him) except one 7-month relationship which he ended.

MTN said the chadlite likes to talk about the news, nutrition, his personal hobbies, politics, philosophical stuff/hypothetical questions, documentaries, working out and fitness, his thoughts, and travel to weird places like Afghanistan/iran/yemen/india

 

[vexnaut]

And the MTN said the chadlite has a body count of 5, all were hookups (the girls didn’t want long term with him) except one 7-month relationship which he ended.

MTN said the chadlite likes to talk about the news, nutrition, his personal hobbies, politics, philosophical stuff/hypothetical questions, documentaries, working out and fitness, his thoughts, and travel to weird places like Afghanistan/iran/yemen/india

then they probably dont vibe with him? they got way different personalities, and they don't match with what she actually wanted

 

[Jova]

then they probably dont vibe with him? they got way different personalities, and they don't match with what she actually wanted

You think these foids are normies?

 

[neymar]

> chadlite
> uses discord

 

[vexnaut]

You think these foids are normies?

i really cant tell

 

[Jova]

> chadlite
> uses discord

Yes.

i really cant tell

Why not

 

[TonyDr]

a solid maesthetic/masc Chadlite with body halo, but has a relatively low body count (just 11) for his age and looks, and is looking for a girlfriend since he's on the upper end of his 20s (26). He has also had long single spells because he's afraid of falling in love for a woman that may not care about him.

@Kaari @ratedLTN2 literally me guys

his friend prefers to talk to girls using Telegram or Discord as opposed to IG DMs, Facebook Messenger, Snapchat, and even WhatsApp.

Women aren't on these plateforms, he shoot himself in the foot

The acquaintance said that the Chadlite said "seeing the profile photo of the woman gives him performance anxiety because he has to watch what he's saying so he doesn't get screenshotted and cancelled" and prefers "a low stress platform to talk where he can be unfiltered and free, and not to talk about mundane things like travel, their parties and music".

Unless he talks only to blue hair feminists, women don't mind a mean/bold man, especially if he's a real chadlite. If he has PA he shouldn't stress that much, he can offend them with the right NT skills

 

[Goblina]

Was talking to an acquaintance (MTN manlet) for a bit tonight and he says that his friend prefers to talk to girls using Telegram or Discord as opposed to IG DMs, Facebook Messenger, Snapchat, and even WhatsApp.

Said friend of the acquaintance is a solid maesthetic/masc Chadlite with body halo, but has a relatively low body count (below 5) for his age and looks, and is looking for a girlfriend since he's on the upper end of his 20s (26). He has also had long single spells because he's afraid of falling in love for a woman that may not care about him.

But every woman either blocks the Chadlite (if they meet online) or wants to talk on IG instead, said the acquaintance. The chadlite also doesn't use dating apps because of "overwhelm".

The acquaintance said that the Chadlite said "seeing the profile photo of the woman gives him performance anxiety because he has to watch what he's saying so he doesn't get screenshotted and cancelled" and prefers "a low stress platform to talk where he can be unfiltered and free, and not to talk about mundane things like travel, their parties and music".

What's wrong here?

The problem is that using discord to flirt. Also Alt girls prefer prettyboys.

 

[Jova]

The problem is that using discord to flirt. Also Alt girls prefer prettyboys.

He wasn't necessarily going for alt foids

 

[Jova]

@Kaari @ratedLTN2 literally me guys


Women aren't on these plateforms, he shoot himself in the foot


Unless he talks only to blue hair feminists, women don't mind a mean/bold man, especially if he's a real chadlite. If he has PA he shouldn't stress that much, he can offend them with the right NT skills

What could he do instead?