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I've had some pretty dark rooted experiences with women. Ever since I was a kid all I'd see around me are horrible women that don't care for anything other than themselves. I know not all women are like that but an experience I had today reinforced that hate even more and it's honestly depressing. I don't know how to stop my hate for women, as it's really unhealthy and unrealistic. I'd really appreciate advice given, thank you in advance.
 
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I've had some pretty dark rooted experiences with women. Ever since I was a kid all I'd see around me are horrible women that don't care for anything other than themselves. I know not all women are like that but an experience I had today reinforced that hate even more and it's honestly depressing. I don't know how to stop my hate for women, as it's really unhealthy and unrealistic. I'd really appreciate advice given, thank you in advance.
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I've had some pretty dark rooted experiences with women. Ever since I was a kid all I'd see around me are horrible women that don't care for anything other than themselves. I know not all women are like that but an experience I had today reinforced that hate even more and it's honestly depressing. I don't know how to stop my hate for women, as it's really unhealthy and unrealistic. I'd really appreciate advice given, thank you in advance.
understand that it's their nature , and intrinsic nature fundamentally cannot be evil . would you hate a cat for killing a mouse ? no , even tho it's murder it's the cat's nature to be a predator , intrinsic nature cannot be evil . same with women , learn to accept it's just how they are and your hate and disdain will go away , worked for me
 
I've had some pretty dark rooted experiences with women. Ever since I was a kid all I'd see around me are horrible women that don't care for anything other than themselves. I know not all women are like that but an experience I had today reinforced that hate even more and it's honestly depressing. I don't know how to stop my hate for women, as it's really unhealthy and unrealistic. I'd really appreciate advice given, thank you in advance.
what are you mentally experiencing that makes you think you hate women? intrusive thoughts, general attitude or something else?
 
what are you mentally experiencing that makes you think you hate women? intrusive thoughts, general attitude or something else?
I feel as I am superior to women, and that they're all capable of less physically and mentally making them useless (which isnt true).
 
I've had some pretty dark rooted experiences with women. Ever since I was a kid all I'd see around me are horrible women that don't care for anything other than themselves. I know not all women are like that but an experience I had today reinforced that hate even more and it's honestly depressing. I don't know how to stop my hate for women, as it's really unhealthy and unrealistic. I'd really appreciate advice given, thank you in advance.
yeah man i think u just need to get out there and pray u meet better people. When life messes u up like that u can stay hateful or u can try and move on, and its nice that ur trying to choose the latter
 
I've had some pretty dark rooted experiences with women. Ever since I was a kid all I'd see around me are horrible women that don't care for anything other than themselves. I know not all women are like that but an experience I had today reinforced that hate even more and it's honestly depressing. I don't know how to stop my hate for women, as it's really unhealthy and unrealistic. I'd really appreciate advice given, thank you in advance.
Try not to consume media that consists of misogyny or keep it minimal, think of all the good women in your life, think of the benefits that women provide
 
understand that it's their nature , and intrinsic nature fundamentally cannot be evil . would you hate a cat for killing a mouse ? no , even tho it's murder it's the cat's nature to be a predator , intrinsic nature cannot be evil . same with women , learn to accept it's just how they are and your hate and disdain will go away , worked for me
Weren't they made as the empathetic gender? Why can't they have the tiniest bit of empathy even to their closest peers?
 
Try not to consume media that consists of misogyny or keep it minimal, think of all the good women in your life, think of the benefits that women provide
In general I consume media about politics and scientific facts, which I think is pretty tame. I don't generally talk to women, as I know i wouldn't be the best for them (because of my mentality) and I'd rather not hurt an innocent woman who did nothing wrong.
yeah man i think u just need to get out there and pray u meet better people. When life messes u up like that u can stay hateful or u can try and move on, and its nice that ur trying to choose the latter
Honestly whenever I meet new people my faith in humanity decreases even more
 
In general I consume media about politics and scientific facts, which I think is pretty tame. I don't generally talk to women, as I know i wouldn't be the best for them (because of my mentality) and I'd rather not hurt and innocent woman who did nothing wrong.

Honestly whenever I meet new people my faith in humanity decreases even more
At least ur seeking help, proud of you man
 
idk if this is the same but i dont feel that much empathy twoards men like ill see a disabled guy and not feel bad then see a disabled chick and feel that the world is so fucking unfair. Always been this way since i was 4 whenever a girl died in a movie i would feel so bad but when a guy did i didnt give a gaf. Idk how to fix it
 
I don’t feel empathy towards anyone really except myself
idk if this is the same but i dont feel that much empathy twoards men like ill see a disabled guy and not feel bad then see a disabled chick and feel that the world is so fucking unfair. Always been this way since i was 4 whenever a girl died in a movie i would feel so bad but when i guy did i didnt give a gaf. Idk how to fix it
 
I've had some pretty dark rooted experiences with women. Ever since I was a kid all I'd see around me are horrible women that don't care for anything other than themselves. I know not all women are like that but an experience I had today reinforced that hate even more and it's honestly depressing. I don't know how to stop my hate for women, as it's really unhealthy and unrealistic. I'd really appreciate advice given, thank you in advance.
I’m in this same traps, I’ve grown less racist more accepting, I can disagree with people better, I have no problems either gays or trans or anything like that anymore but I’ve still grown increasingly more and more sexist I even grown to be ok with
Indians more then women
 
Weren't they made as the empathetic gender? Why can't they have the tiniest bit of empathy even to their closest peers?
observe reality and you'll see that's just not true , it's not healthy to have built up hatred like that tho bro , will lead you to have altercations you wish you didn't have at some point and i'm speaking from experience , don't bottle emotions like that . i see where you come from and truly as you accept women's nature you'll see that there's girls that are actually decent people , will always have women behaviours but good people overall . don't know if you're into books like that but genuinely read the essay "on women" by schopenhaur , it will change your perspective on women and will make you accept their nature in a healthy way
 
Would it be bad to say learn to hate men too? There are plenty of reasons to. If you just look into the truth about human nature I find it pretty easy and reasonable to dislike both genders (for different reasons ofc)
I feel like I can have a conversation with a guy I can disagree with a guy we can have a drink and talk about problems, but I can’t do that with women
 
idk if this is the same but i dont feel that much empathy twoards men like ill see a disabled guy and not feel bad then see a disabled chick and feel that the world is so fucking unfair. Always been this way since i was 4 whenever a girl died in a movie i would feel so bad but when i guy did i didnt give a gaf. Idk how to fix it
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yeah it’s a dark place to be especially if your experiences are reinforcing it

you’re a smart fellow though, so take confirmation bias into account. Whatever u look for you will find, you know?
I try my best to seperate my feelings from my actions and rather just choose the right action than an action that'll fit my emotional bias.
I don’t feel empathy towards anyone really except myself
thats understandable honestly
I’m in this same traps, I’ve grown less racist more accepting, I can disagree with people better, I have no problems either gays or trans or anything like that anymore but I’ve still grown increasingly more and more sexist I even grown to be ok with
Indians more then women
Honestly I don't mind anyone or whatever they do just as they leave me alone they can do whatever.
 
I've had some pretty dark rooted experiences with women. Ever since I was a kid all I'd see around me are horrible women that don't care for anything other than themselves. I know not all women are like that but an experience I had today reinforced that hate even more and it's honestly depressing. I don't know how to stop my hate for women, as it's really unhealthy and unrealistic. I'd really appreciate advice given, thank you in advance.
im sorry youve had these experiences
i can only hope that these can be replaced with good ones and then itll all be worth it🙂
 
Would it be bad to say learn to hate men too? There are plenty of reasons to. If you just look into the truth about human nature I find it pretty easy and reasonable to dislike both genders (for different reasons ofc)
I understand where you're coming from, and I personally believe that both genders have bad and good people. But my inner emotions signal otherwise
 
observe reality and you'll see that's just not true , it's not healthy to have built up hatred like that tho bro , will lead you to have altercations you wish you didn't have at some point and i'm speaking from experience , don't bottle emotions like that . i see where you come from and truly as you accept women's nature you'll see that there's girls that are actually decent people , will always have women behaviours but good people overall . don't know if you're into books like that but genuinely read the essay "on women" by schopenhaur , it will change your perspective on women and will make you accept their nature in a healthy way
I'll read it thank you for the recommendation, great points too mirin
 
Time to become asexual bhai.
 
I've had some pretty dark rooted experiences with women. Ever since I was a kid all I'd see around me are horrible women that don't care for anything other than themselves. I know not all women are like that but an experience I had today reinforced that hate even more and it's honestly depressing. I don't know how to stop my hate for women, as it's really unhealthy and unrealistic. I'd really appreciate advice given, thank you in advance.
Most shit they do it sub consciously if you set your standards for woman's behaviour very low it helps allot thats what i did
 
I feel like I can have a conversation with a guy I can disagree with a guy we can have a drink and talk about problems, but I can’t do that with women
That's just a natural gender thing. I don't believe most people of opposite sexes can befriend each other without alternative motives
I understand where you're coming from, and I personally believe that both genders have bad and good people. But my inner emotions signal otherwise
I think hatred, dislike, whatever is a normal and healthy emotional response to negative reinforcement. People will try to tell you otherwise but they feel the same. As long as you don't act on it you're fine I think

Do to others as is done to you, no more, no less. But if you meet someone random you assume the best of course
 
Time to become asexual bhai.
I already am, which is amazing ngl its cool here.
Most shit they do it sub consciously if you set your standards for woman's behaviour very low it helps allot thats what i did
lowk really good advice you cant get disappointed if you dont expect anything
 
That's just a natural gender thing. I don't believe most people of opposite sexes can befriend each other without alternative motives

I think hatred, dislike, whatever is a normal and healthy emotional response to negative reinforcement. People will try to tell you otherwise but they feel the same. As long as you don't act on it you're fine I think

Do to others as is done to you, no more, no less. But if you meet someone random you assume the best of course
You're actually really smart ngl
 

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