Fucked up mental

[Chifuyu]

lowk idk what u guys are talking abt
idk why hot men wouldnt get attention
maybe the women are too scared to approach because me personally i wouldnt bother

Like once I was in a metro and I stood next to this really gl guy, people on the forum would call him a chad, but I noticed none of the women around us were looking at him, and he was on his phone. I was checking him out more than any of the women on there. It blew my mind.

 

[chudlite67]

Then we can invite the entire .org user base too

wait no im scared of them

 

[chudlite67]

Like once I was in a metro and I stood next to this really gl guy, people on the forum would call him a chad, but I noticed none of the women around us were looking at him, and he was on his phone. I was checking him out more than any of the women on there. It blew my mind.

weird idk
maybe ur just gay

 

[Chifuyu]

weird idk
maybe ur just gay

Damn. No I’m not gay, I was just observing haha.

 

[chudlite67]

Damn. No I’m not gay, I was just observing haha.

yeah im not gay either

 

[Chifuyu]

yeah im not gay either

I might be like asexual though or at least on that spectrum

 

[Starlet]

huh
interesting
idk i guess im just not friends with these types of girls

I hate that it is pretty true, I overhear women’s conversations all the time and they do talk like that

 

[Chifuyu]

I hate that it is pretty true, I overhear women’s conversations all the time and they do talk like that

I’m glad you are admitting the truth, you’re a real one (I’m joking about the hating women part).

Since you’re a woman, do you have any idea why they’re like that? Maybe you could ask one of them why they prefer guys like that.

 

[chudlite67]

I hate that it is pretty true, I overhear women’s conversations all the time and they do talk like that

damn..

 

[Starlet]

I’m glad you are admitting the truth, you’re a real one (I’m joking about the hating women part).

Since you’re a woman, do you have any idea why they’re like that?

I actually don’t really make friends with those women like that because I find it hard to relate (so not many friends in general). But I felt like saying it here because I’ve been in a lot more public spaces with girls lately and JUST the other day I heard them talking to eachother about how they “hate nice guys” and it’s gross. Don’t exactly remember what reasons they said tho but it could be a multitude of things

I can understand and agree with a lot of men in these spaces because I’ve seen it from experience and I’m self aware enough to realize it is very much a nature thing, I used to do and recognized a lot of behaviors like those that are often talked about in myself in the past. Probably is rare but I like to think that through basically cognitively forcing myself out of it (plus life experiences, guilt, research, and building stronger morals too) that I’ve changed a lot

Maybe you could ask one of them why they prefer guys like that.

Good idea. Though idk if this is a good or bad thing but I find it very hard not to judge them

 

[Chifuyu]

I actually don’t really make friends with those women like that because I find it hard to relate (so not many friends in general). But I felt like saying it here because I’ve been in a lot more public spaces with girls lately and JUST the other day I heard them talking to eachother about how they “hate nice guys” and it’s gross. Don’t exactly remember what reasons they said tho but it could be a multitude of things

I can understand and agree with a lot of men in these spaces because I’ve seen it from experience and I’m self aware enough to realize it is very much a nature thing, I used to do and recognized a lot of behaviors like those that are often talked about in myself in the past. Probably is rare but I like to think that through basically cognitively forcing myself out of it (plus life experiences, guilt, research, and building stronger morals too) that I’ve changed a lot


Good idea. Though idk if this is a good or bad thing but I find it very hard not to judge them

Wow, what an insightful answer. Thank you. I get it, we attract what we are, so when you surround yourself with people you can’t relate to? It just feels wrong. My friends are a lot like me. I don’t befriend dickheads. And also, I agree with that. We change through life experiences, shedding the bad. At least, those who experience guilt would feel this way. I’ve been in the same boat.

 

[Overthrown]

Atleast you’re genuinely willing to unlearn this mindset

 

[rand anon]

That's just a natural gender thing. I don't believe most people of opposite sexes can befriend each other without alternative motives

I think hatred, dislike, whatever is a normal and healthy emotional response to negative reinforcement. People will try to tell you otherwise but they feel the same. As long as you don't act on it you're fine I think

Do to others as is done to you, no more, no less. But if you meet someone random you assume the best of course

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