Genuine question is this pedophilia

[acketar]

Is it okay for an 18.5 year old to edate a 16 year old

this is gross and weird

 

[faithful]

this is gross and weird

Why do you say that?

 

[faithful]

I mean it's a 2.5 years gap so nothing crazy, but it will be better when both partners are in their +20s, because a 16yo boy/girl is still immature dating wise

Hypothetically what if she was 15 BUt shes turning 16 in 2 months so practically 16

 

[Transposon]

I'm going to take a hard stance here and just say yep, wrong in most cases. I was radically different two years ago and far less mature. Edating lowers that inhibition even further. Maybe if you were 18 dating a 16 year old IRL with a valid get-together story it'd fly, but you're defending a pretty significant edge case here that you should just let go of ASAP.

Perhaps I am dramatizing the situation, only because you're very obviously on the cusp of entering it. If you haven't done anything, you have zero commitment, and the only attachment you have to making this relationship work is some shallow spark / FOMO. If I could show you that it's a bad idea and you have so little to lose... why not leave it ASAP?

Also, IRL dating vs EDating is incredibly different, as someone who has technically done both. In extreme shorthand, a lot of the psychosocial elements of dating aren't properly read by your brain when you're not in person (because that was never meant to happen) so you constantly exist in the idea of who you're dating + the glamor of long distance love + instant gratification. IMO it removes almost all of the healthy parts of dating and really online-dating should only be used by people who can manage the nosedive of falling in love

 

[glamourpursuer 2.0]

U know what u did if anything ur worse than me @Scientologist

oh the tributes

 

[height]

No Essex

 

[cindythetvisleaking]

Ur so creepy

 

[Duracel]

Hypothetically what if she was 15 BUt shes turning 16 in 2 months so practically 16

My main concern is maturity gap, not really the age/years

 

[faithful]

I'm going to take a hard stance here and just say yep, wrong in most cases. I was radically different two years ago and far less mature. Edating lowers that inhibition even further. Maybe if you were 18 dating a 16 year old IRL with a valid get-together story it'd fly, but you're defending a pretty significant edge case here that you should just let go of ASAP.

Perhaps I am dramatizing the situation, only because you're very obviously on the cusp of entering it. If you haven't done anything, you have zero commitment, and the only attachment you have to making this relationship work is some shallow spark / FOMO. If I could show you that it's a bad idea and you have so little to lose... why not leave it ASAP?

Also, IRL dating vs EDating is incredibly different, as someone who has technically done both. In extreme shorthand, a lot of the psychosocial elements of dating aren't properly read by your brain when you're not in person (because that was never meant to happen) so you constantly exist in the idea of who you're dating + the glamor of long distance love + instant gratification. IMO it removes almost all of the healthy parts of dating and really online-dating should only be used by people who can manage the nosedive of falling in love

dnr = im gonna take this as a yes

 

[faithful]

Ur so creepy

banned, never talk ish again

 

[faithful]

My main concern is maturity gap, not really the age/years

What if i age regress

 

[Duracel]

What if i age regress

I'm not sure to understand wdym by that

 

[zombiebeatz2006]

Is it okay for an 18.5 year old to edate a 16 year old

Yes
Pedo is when you like kids

 

[Molotongo]

Is it okay for an 18.5 year old to edate a 16 year old

Its gonna be fine

 

[faithful]

Yes
Pedo is when you like kids

you have to be severely mentally ill to not find a 15 year old girl attractive

 

[rumination]

you have to be severely mentally ill to not find a 15 year old girl attractive

Stop bumping this thread n***a

 

[faithful]

Stop bumping this thread n***a

shut up f*g

 

[jkcwakcjw]

Yes!!! bonus points if u ask if shes a virgin

 

[zombiebeatz2006]

you have to be severely mentally ill to not find a 15 year old girl attractive

:/

 

[Barbie]

age of consent is 16

 

[vespertine]

is it ok for a 63 year old to date a 14 year old?

 

[faithful]

is it ok for a 63 year old to date a 14 year old?

Yes this is water, i'm asking about the larger age gaps

 

[Ruin]

pretty significant edge case

Will you handle the exception?

 

[faithful]

age of consent is 16

specific areas

 

[Barbie]

specific areas

16 and 18 is fine imo goals I could even say

 

[sufjan]

you have to be severely mentally ill to not find a 15 year old girl attractive

they’re PEAK fertility