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Serious Genuine question is this pedophilia

I'm going to take a hard stance here and just say yep, in most cases. I was radically different two years ago and far less mature. Edating lowers that inhibition even further. Maybe if you were 18 dating a 16 year old IRL with a valid get-together story it'd fly, but you're defending a pretty significant edge case here that you should just let go of ASAP
I agree but junior vs freshly graduated hs student dont think that different i would say 19/20 is when you start thinking differently and more mature
 
when i was 14 i "dated" a 19 year old. i don't regret it but it probably doesn't apply to this case
Are you a female. If so you can help me grasp this situation a little better
 
@MoggerJaw so when do you think you will stop finding under aged girls attractive
 
What do u mean bro. You’re doing the ad hominem bs
Searched it up online and it seems like ur saying im personally attacking you but no im genuinely curious to know ur thoughts
 
I’m genuinely curious cause the morality of it is indeed itching my brain. But I seriously don’t get why the transition from
Irl to edating makes the situation flip over its head. The way you describe it paints me in a very bad light
Perhaps I am dramatizing the situation, only because you're very obviously on the cusp of entering it. If you haven't done anything, you have zero commitment, and the only attachment you have to making this relationship work is some shallow spark / FOMO. If I could show you that it's a bad idea and you have so little to lose... why not leave it ASAP?

Also, IRL dating vs EDating is incredibly different, as someone who has technically done both. In extreme shorthand, a lot of the psychosocial elements of dating aren't properly read by your brain when you're not in person (because that was never meant to happen) so you constantly exist in the idea of who you're dating + the glamor of long distance love + instant gratification. IMO it removes almost all of the healthy parts of dating and really online-dating should only be used by people who can manage the nosedive of falling in love
 
Perhaps I am dramatizing the situation, only because you're very obviously on the cusp of entering it. If you haven't done anything, you have zero commitment, and the only attachment you have to making this relationship work is some shallow spark / FOMO. If I could show you that it's a bad idea and you have so little to lose... why not leave it ASAP?

Also, IRL dating vs EDating is incredibly different, as someone who has technically done both. In extreme shorthand, a lot of the psychosocial elements of dating aren't properly read by your brain when you're not in person (because that was never meant to happen) so you constantly exist in the idea of who you're dating + the glamor of long distance love + instant gratification. IMO it removes almost all of the healthy parts of dating and really online-dating should only be used by people who can manage the nosedive of falling in love
This is the wrong approach to life. If you want me to elaborate lmk
 
This is the wrong approach to life. If you want me to elaborate lmk
I'm older than you and have e-dated and irl-dated during various stages of my life. I have a significantly different approach to how I date but I'm just speaking from experience
 
hood department of looksmaxxing forum is on my ass for this shit. ‘My maturity was lower at 16’ okay maybe it was but anecdotes don’t account for generalities. If we go by actual science pre frontal cortex development doesn’t stop till age 25 or more.
 
I'm older than you and have e-dated and irl-dated during various stages of my life. I have a significantly different approach to how I date but I'm just speaking from experience
Extremely cliche but it’s the age old saying of our parents. They can advice us against doing dumb stuff in life but to get the true lesson u have to experience it. I think you should explore life by your own accords and see what works. If your argument is based on it being dangerous I don’t like the argument. Everything is. If im a morally bad person/corrupt person then I want to avoid that pitfall
 
n***a the fact you're going through all this to rationalize things should be telling. take a step back.

plenty of wonderful women your age in the world.
True
 
n***a the fact you're going through all this to rationalize things should be telling. take a step back.

plenty of wonderful women your age in the world.
Although I think you’re coming from the right place. You and me both know that the argument ‘date your age or you’re weird’ is just fucking stupid. More than half of the relationships on earth don’t meet your moral standards then
 
Bruh how tf is a 16 year gold not been through puberty wuddahell
16 yo is well past puberty for females , males finish puberty a bit later , the guy I responded to was talking about girls under 14
 
Although I think you’re coming from the right place. You and me both know that the argument ‘date your age or you’re weird’ is just fucking stupid. More than half of the relationships on earth don’t meet your moral standards then
yeah but if a 33 year old dates a 24 year old that's entirely different than a similar age gap just with both younger. same with 2 year age gaps. means dramatically more when dealing with adolescents. you're mentally a lot more developed than her.
 
Although I think you’re coming from the right place. You and me both know that the argument ‘date your age or you’re weird’ is just fucking stupid. More than half of the relationships on earth don’t meet your moral standards then
There talking about date above 18 and not underaged girls
 
n***a the fact you're going through all this to rationalize things should be telling. take a step back.

plenty of wonderful women your age in the world.
It's natural for him to be attracted to girls younger than him . It's a natural power dynamic as @faithful suggested before
 
It's natural for him to be attracted to girls younger than him . It's a natural power dynamic as @faithful suggested before
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When do you think it would be weird to go after a 16 yr old
I mean if the age gap isn't that big it's normal .
All males of all ages will be attracted to a 16 yo girl , the question is who is "entitled" to this girl more between all these age groups
 
I mean if the age gap isn't that big it's normal .
All males of all ages will be attracted to a 16 yo girl , the question is who is "entitled" to this girl more between all these age groups
Holon on this reply for a second though
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Holon on this reply for a second though
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What I mean is raw attraction , a 40yo wouldn't be able to tell if a girl is 16 , he's just seeing a developed female . Once he knows she's 16 he will adhere to whatever moral system he believes in and that decides whether he acts upon this attraction or not
 
Not a problem, high schools are full of these age ranges


The more serious question is: why are you looking for e-dating but not dating?
 

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