Experience Girl at the vet

[True Spaniard]

First of all i didnt tell this story because at the time my dog was very sick and didnt want to talk about anything related to it. So like 2 months ago i was at the vet, they were gonna check some tumor my dog had on his ear, my and my father were waiting for us to get called and meanwhile this happens a girl around my age enters the clinic with her father and a rabbit if i recall correctly. First glance i got of her actually shocked me bc she was actually super pretty (like htb for the psl autists), not the type of girl i usually go for (blonde and blue/green eyes) because she was brunette and hazel/green eyes, but i still got a very good first impression, my brain just after this started wondering if maybe i should ask for her ig because we at the least had things in common like a pet and the area we live in.

So after some time thinking that it wouldnt be possible because no way im asking for her ig with her father watching in front, but suddenly the oods changed in just a second. Her father said he had to go take something from the truck and just as her father walked out of the vet my father told me he was going to the bathroom, so basically i had the best opportunity to go talk to her and maybe get something out of the convo. All this time even with our parents on the side we were giving like looks each to each other because we both liked each other. Both of our fathers going out of the scenario just accentuated the looks and the hidden laughs. I was wondering how could i do it to not seem awkward and have the best succes rate to get her ig or number that i waited for so long (at least 2 minutes) that the vet ended up calling her and her rabbit.

Suddenly all the fantasy that i made on my head was knocked down and i went to realize one more time and once for all that im just a high inhib pussy that cant even have the balls to go talk to a girl that clearly likes me. Since this i really havent even looked twice at the way of any woman because i just feel like i stress myself for actually nothing that i will get in return. What do you guys think?

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@TonyDr @doll @submissivechud @Aryy @kifykify @Nbernical @Methodical @Br4va @lydia @Dzitsu @junebug @Hector of Troy @genio @Orka @foidslayer @dontcallthemfoidsbro

 

[Br4va]

Dude both of your guys' dads leaving was genuinely such good timing.

Does this happen often for you these situations ?

 

[Aryy]

First of all i didnt tell this story because at the time my dog was very sick and didnt want to talk about anything related to it. So like 2 months ago i was at the vet, they were gonna check some tumor my dog had on his ear, my and my father were waiting for us to get called and meanwhile this happens a girl around my age enters the clinic with her father and a rabbit if i recall correctly. First glance i got of her actually shocked me bc she was actually super pretty (like htb for the psl autists), not the type of girl i usually go for (blonde and blue/green eyes) because she was brunette and hazel/green eyes, but i still got a very good first impression, my brain just fater this started wondering if maybe i should ask for her ig because we at the least had things in common like a pet and the area we live in.

So after some time thinking that it wouldnt be possible because no way im asking for her ig with her father watching in front, but suddenly the oods changed in just a second. Her father said he had to go take something from the truck and just as her father walked out of the vet my father told me he was going to the bathroom, so basically i had the best opportunity to go talk to her and maybe get something out of the convo. All this time even with our parents on the side we were giving like looks each to each other because we both liked each other. Both of our fathers going out of the scenario just accentuated the looks and the hidden laughs. I was wondering how could i do it to not seem awkward and have the best succes rate to get her ig or number that i waited for so long (at least 2 minutes) that the vet ended up calling her and her rabbit.

Suddenly all the fantasy that i made on my head was knocked down and i went to realize one more time and once for all that im just a high inhib pussy that cant even have the balls to go talk to a girl that clearly likes me. Since this i really havent even looked twice at the way of any woman because i just feel like i stress myself for actually nothing that i will get in return. What do you guys think?

Spoiler: Tagging the hbs

@TonyDr @doll @submissivechud @Aryy @kifykify @Nbernical @Methodical @Br4va @lydia @Dzitsu @junebug @Hector of Troy @genio @Orka @foidslayer @dontcallthemfoidsbro

well the only way to get over it is to have more exposure in itself right

 

[True Spaniard]

Dude both of your guys' dads leaving was genuinely such good timing.

Does this happen often for you these situations ?

Nah not exactly these type of situations, but ive also had experiences in the past were i go out with my friends, i see a very pretty girl and i end up chickening out.

well the only way to get over it is to have more exposure in itself right

Nah tbh i feel like i dont want to know anything about women romantically as of now

 

[submissivechud]

First of all i didnt tell this story because at the time my dog was very sick and didnt want to talk about anything related to it. So like 2 months ago i was at the vet, they were gonna check some tumor my dog had on his ear, my and my father were waiting for us to get called and meanwhile this happens a girl around my age enters the clinic with her father and a rabbit if i recall correctly. First glance i got of her actually shocked me bc she was actually super pretty (like htb for the psl autists), not the type of girl i usually go for (blonde and blue/green eyes) because she was brunette and hazel/green eyes, but i still got a very good first impression, my brain just fater this started wondering if maybe i should ask for her ig because we at the least had things in common like a pet and the area we live in.

So after some time thinking that it wouldnt be possible because no way im asking for her ig with her father watching in front, but suddenly the oods changed in just a second. Her father said he had to go take something from the truck and just as her father walked out of the vet my father told me he was going to the bathroom, so basically i had the best opportunity to go talk to her and maybe get something out of the convo. All this time even with our parents on the side we were giving like looks each to each other because we both liked each other. Both of our fathers going out of the scenario just accentuated the looks and the hidden laughs. I was wondering how could i do it to not seem awkward and have the best succes rate to get her ig or number that i waited for so long (at least 2 minutes) that the vet ended up calling her and her rabbit.

Suddenly all the fantasy that i made on my head was knocked down and i went to realize one more time and once for all that im just a high inhib pussy that cant even have the balls to go talk to a girl that clearly likes me. Since this i really havent even looked twice at the way of any woman because i just feel like i stress myself for actually nothing that i will get in return. What do you guys think?

Spoiler: Tagging the hbs

@TonyDr @doll @submissivechud @Aryy @kifykify @Nbernical @Methodical @Br4va @lydia @Dzitsu @junebug @Hector of Troy @genio @Orka @foidslayer @dontcallthemfoidsbro

what's w you and posting four paragraph stories
gimme a bit to read

 

[Br4va]

Nah not exactly these type of situations, but ive also had experiences in the past were i go out with my friends, i see a very pretty girl and i end up chickening out

Ahhhh I see. Damn bro you should just say fuck it once and come up. Or make your friends force you to come up to a girl. You can get rejected

 

[Nenestar]

 

[submissivechud]

First of all i didnt tell this story because at the time my dog was very sick and didnt want to talk about anything related to it. So like 2 months ago i was at the vet, they were gonna check some tumor my dog had on his ear, my and my father were waiting for us to get called and meanwhile this happens a girl around my age enters the clinic with her father and a rabbit if i recall correctly. First glance i got of her actually shocked me bc she was actually super pretty (like htb for the psl autists), not the type of girl i usually go for (blonde and blue/green eyes) because she was brunette and hazel/green eyes, but i still got a very good first impression, my brain just fater this started wondering if maybe i should ask for her ig because we at the least had things in common like a pet and the area we live in.

So after some time thinking that it wouldnt be possible because no way im asking for her ig with her father watching in front, but suddenly the oods changed in just a second. Her father said he had to go take something from the truck and just as her father walked out of the vet my father told me he was going to the bathroom, so basically i had the best opportunity to go talk to her and maybe get something out of the convo. All this time even with our parents on the side we were giving like looks each to each other because we both liked each other. Both of our fathers going out of the scenario just accentuated the looks and the hidden laughs. I was wondering how could i do it to not seem awkward and have the best succes rate to get her ig or number that i waited for so long (at least 2 minutes) that the vet ended up calling her and her rabbit.

Suddenly all the fantasy that i made on my head was knocked down and i went to realize one more time and once for all that im just a high inhib pussy that cant even have the balls to go talk to a girl that clearly likes me. Since this i really havent even looked twice at the way of any woman because i just feel like i stress myself for actually nothing that i will get in return. What do you guys think?

Spoiler: Tagging the hbs

@TonyDr @doll @submissivechud @Aryy @kifykify @Nbernical @Methodical @Br4va @lydia @Dzitsu @junebug @Hector of Troy @genio @Orka @foidslayer @dontcallthemfoidsbro

yeah yeah so just be lower inhib tbh, you probably aren't ever gonna see her again so who cares what she thinks of ouu

 

[Jimcel]

First of all i didnt tell this story because at the time my dog was very sick and didnt want to talk about anything related to it. So like 2 months ago i was at the vet, they were gonna check some tumor my dog had on his ear, my and my father were waiting for us to get called and meanwhile this happens a girl around my age enters the clinic with her father and a rabbit if i recall correctly. First glance i got of her actually shocked me bc she was actually super pretty (like htb for the psl autists), not the type of girl i usually go for (blonde and blue/green eyes) because she was brunette and hazel/green eyes, but i still got a very good first impression, my brain just fater this started wondering if maybe i should ask for her ig because we at the least had things in common like a pet and the area we live in.

So after some time thinking that it wouldnt be possible because no way im asking for her ig with her father watching in front, but suddenly the oods changed in just a second. Her father said he had to go take something from the truck and just as her father walked out of the vet my father told me he was going to the bathroom, so basically i had the best opportunity to go talk to her and maybe get something out of the convo. All this time even with our parents on the side we were giving like looks each to each other because we both liked each other. Both of our fathers going out of the scenario just accentuated the looks and the hidden laughs. I was wondering how could i do it to not seem awkward and have the best succes rate to get her ig or number that i waited for so long (at least 2 minutes) that the vet ended up calling her and her rabbit.

Suddenly all the fantasy that i made on my head was knocked down and i went to realize one more time and once for all that im just a high inhib pussy that cant even have the balls to go talk to a girl that clearly likes me. Since this i really havent even looked twice at the way of any woman because i just feel like i stress myself for actually nothing that i will get in return. What do you guys think?

Spoiler: Tagging the hbs

@TonyDr @doll @submissivechud @Aryy @kifykify @Nbernical @Methodical @Br4va @lydia @Dzitsu @junebug @Hector of Troy @genio @Orka @foidslayer @dontcallthemfoidsbro

bro brunette, green eyes is my type

htb rare asf

Last thing, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

 

[True Spaniard]

Ahhhh I see. Damn bro you should just say fuck it once and come up. Or make your friends force you to come up to a girl. You can get rejected

Trust me bro i try to convince myself to just do it and dont gaf about anything, but when its the time to just stand up and take the decision to do so my body just doesnt let me

yeah yeah so just be lower inhib tbh, you probably aren't ever gonna see her again so who cares what she thinks of ouu

Nah it wasnt really about what she thinks of me i dont really care, but its just the fact that it seems i will never get over having such fear to approach a single woman even if she was giving me infinite iois

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

That sucks, but i can relate though. I had a dude I really like literally give me his hoodie and then spray it with his perfume, and i was still scared to make a move for so long that he eventually ended up with another girl I think one has to take risks, especially when there's clear signs of interest, although thats often scary to do

 

[Nbernical]

yeah yeah so just be lower inhib tbh, you probably aren't ever gonna see her again so who cares what she thinks of ouu

Just be lower inhib, genius.

 

[Nbernical]

Have I ever seen your face? Send in PMs I'm curious

 

[submissivechud]

Just be lower inhib, genius.

I mean you get what I mean though, obviously it's not some one and done kinda thing, changing mental state takes time and I'm not his therapist.
Just take whatever drug @genio tells you and you should be chillin

 

[submissivechud]

Have I ever seen your face? Send in PMs I'm curious

Spaniard htn

 

[submissivechud]

That sucks, but i can relate though. I had a dude I really like literally give me his hoodie and then spray it with his perfume, and i was still scared to make a move for so long that he eventually ended up with another girl I think one has to take risks, especially when there's clear signs of interest, although thats often scary to do

arent you leabian

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

arent you leabian

No

 

[submissivechud]

Nah it wasnt really about what she thinks of me i dont really care, but its just the fact that it seems i will never get over having such fear to approach a single woman even if she was giving me infinite iois

if you don't care what she thinks then why are you scared

 

[Br4va]

Trust me bro i try to convince myself to just do it and dont gaf about anything, but when its the time to just stand up and take the decision to do so my body just doesnt let me

I get it and I don’t blame you. That’s why I think you should ask your friends for a bit help.

 

[Nbernical]

I mean you get what I mean though, obviously it's not some one and done kinda thing, changing mental state takes time and I'm not his therapist.
Just take whatever drug @genio tells you and you should be chillin

Just take pregabalin 24/7 theory theory theory, how has nobody ever thought of this?

 

[submissivechud]

Just take pregabalin 24/7 theory theory theory, how has nobody ever thought of this?

@Aryy thought of this when she was 8

 

[True Spaniard]

bro brunette, green eyes is my type

htb rare asf

Last thing, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Yeah bro but its just the same phrase over and over again, like "you miss all the shots you dont take" or "the worst she can say is no" but even if i try to convince myself of that i just cant start taking the action because my brain just gotta think of all the possible scenarios before doing something and before i can figure it out the opportunity is just lost @submissivechud

Have I ever seen your face? Send in PMs I'm curious

Dms on discord dude

 

[lydia]

Don’t be so hard on yourself, i mean, u were stressed about your dog, so it’s totally normal that your mind wasn't in the right place. but honestly, if she was looking at you and laughing, she was definitely interested and probably waiting for you to say something. don’t let this one moment ruin your confidence with women. U clearly have what it takes, so next time just shoot your shot. hope your dog is doing better now!!!

 

[kifykify]

Nig I was reading and expected a peak ending
Allat for you to be a pussy

 

[Nbernical]

Don’t be so hard on yourself, i mean, u were stressed about your dog, so it’s totally normal that your mind wasn't in the right place. but honestly, if she was looking at you and laughing, she was definitely interested and probably waiting for you to say something. don’t let this one moment ruin your confidence with women. U clearly have what it takes, so next time just shoot your shot. hope your dog is doing better now!!!

He has no chance to ever talk to a woman again, stop coping you utter subhuman.

 

[TonyDr]

What do you guys think?

I don't think

 

[Venus]

Damn bro hope your dog’s doing better now

As for getting better at talking to girls or people in general, you gotta start small and work your way up. Smile at strangers -> say hi -> compliment strangers randomly -> make small talk etc etc

If asking for someone’s number is too big of a task then try to overcome smaller tasks first

-high inhib dyke that never leaves her room

 

[True Spaniard]

Nig I was reading and expected a peak ending
Allat for you to be a pussy
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Ye ye not everything in life is giggles and shit unfortunately man

I don't think

 

[Venus]

Nig I was reading and expected a peak ending
Allat for you to be a pussy
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I was like oh wow hes gonna announce he has a gf now

 

[True Spaniard]

Damn bro hope your dog’s doing better now

As for getting better at talking to girls or people in general, you gotta start small and work your way up. Smile at strangers -> say hi -> compliment strangers randomly -> make small talk etc etc

If asking for someone’s number is too big of a task then try to overcome smaller tasks first

-high inhib dyke that never leaves her room

Yeah they extracted the tumor he had and hes doing better now tho he gained a few kgs on the process.
As for the socializing part i just find small talk ultra exhausting, its like i have to decipher what the other person is trying to say on every second of the convo. I also struggle a lot because of that

 

[Venus]

its like i have to decipher what the other person is trying to say on every second of the convo

Yeah it’s so hard irl cuz then if you accidentally dont reply as you’re expected to its very embarrassing

I get this way when people are trying to make sarcastic jokes with me but i deadass just dont understand what they’re trying to say

Unfortunately the only way to overcome this is by talking more and more to people. This is the type of thing no amount of theory can make you leayou gotta practice. Personally calling people im already close to helped me a lot, since i could get used to how normal convo works with someone im comfortable with

 

[TonyDr]

Ye ye not everything in life is giggles and shit unfortunately man

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[xoxo]

First of all i didnt tell this story because at the time my dog was very sick and didnt want to talk about anything related to it. So like 2 months ago i was at the vet, they were gonna check some tumor my dog had on his ear, my and my father were waiting for us to get called and meanwhile this happens a girl around my age enters the clinic with her father and a rabbit if i recall correctly. First glance i got of her actually shocked me bc she was actually super pretty (like htb for the psl autists), not the type of girl i usually go for (blonde and blue/green eyes) because she was brunette and hazel/green eyes, but i still got a very good first impression, my brain just after this started wondering if maybe i should ask for her ig because we at the least had things in common like a pet and the area we live in.

So after some time thinking that it wouldnt be possible because no way im asking for her ig with her father watching in front, but suddenly the oods changed in just a second. Her father said he had to go take something from the truck and just as her father walked out of the vet my father told me he was going to the bathroom, so basically i had the best opportunity to go talk to her and maybe get something out of the convo. All this time even with our parents on the side we were giving like looks each to each other because we both liked each other. Both of our fathers going out of the scenario just accentuated the looks and the hidden laughs. I was wondering how could i do it to not seem awkward and have the best succes rate to get her ig or number that i waited for so long (at least 2 minutes) that the vet ended up calling her and her rabbit.

Suddenly all the fantasy that i made on my head was knocked down and i went to realize one more time and once for all that im just a high inhib pussy that cant even have the balls to go talk to a girl that clearly likes me. Since this i really havent even looked twice at the way of any woman because i just feel like i stress myself for actually nothing that i will get in return. What do you guys think?

Spoiler: Tagging the hbs

@TonyDr @doll @submissivechud @Aryy @kifykify @Nbernical @Methodical @Br4va @lydia @Dzitsu @junebug @Hector of Troy @genio @Orka @foidslayer @dontcallthemfoidsbro

next time don’t let the chance slip away
When u have a feeling she likes u there is a very low chance for her to reject u if u ask for ig

 

[Hector of Troy]

i've never gotten rejected badly, most foids are nice about it, realistically unless you're bad at picking up social cues , nothing bad will come out of it

i usually use the hakuna matata method, eh who cares?
you could've had a pretty girlfriend if you had gone for it
she looked at you, you looked at her
smile, and go up
that's it

 

[True Spaniard]

next time don’t let the chance slip away
When u have a feeling she likes u there is a very low chance for her to reject u if u ask for ig

Yeah thats totally true, its just that i overthink it too much trying to figure out everysingle possible outcome that i end up chickening out always

i've never gotten rejected badly, most foids are nice about it, realistically unless you're bad at picking up social cues , nothing bad will come out of it

i usually use the hakuna matata method, eh who cares?
you could've had a pretty girlfriend if you had gone for it
she looked at you, you looked at her
smile, and go up
that's it

Unfortunately i think im quite bad at picking up social cues, it gets to a point obv i can understand most of them with effort but i still struggle because its like i have to do it manually and it just doesnt feel natural

 

[Hector of Troy]

Yeah thats totally true, its just that i overthink it too much trying to figure out everysingle possible outcome that i end up chickening out always

Unfortunately i think im quite bad at picking up social cues, it gets to a point obv i can understand most of them with effort but i still struggle because its like i have to do it manually and it just doesnt feel natural

picking up social cues in this context means, do not be touchy if she's not comfortable
if she's directly or indirectly rejecting you, don't stay and insist or beg for the contacts
you're just coping my mayne,
just go for it the next time
if you think it's really hard to come up with something and make a conversation at the moment, say
hello, i saw you afar and i thought you're beautiful, wanted to get to know you more/have your Instagram etc

with this one, there's a clear conversation ready to be had
talk about her pet, the rabbit, why she's there what's the problem then your dog
then make it more personal
when you wanted to leave, ask for her contacts

 

[xoxo]

Yeah thats totally true, its just that i overthink it too much trying to figure out everysingle possible outcome that i end up chickening out always

but the worst possible outcome is her rejecting you and so what? Now u gained more experience approaching a girl and deal with her rejection.
Next time you will be more comfortable trying again

 

[Venus]

Yeah thats totally true, its just that i overthink it too much trying to figure out everysingle possible outcome that i end up chickening out always

This is exactly why you start small and build your way up btw. First you get used to social interaction with previous much 0 risks, and get more comfortable feeling out how people usually react and what they react well to. And then you yourself adapt until it comes naturally. Then onto the next level

All theory btw havent tried this shit out myself once

 

[genio]

First of all i didnt tell this story because at the time my dog was very sick and didnt want to talk about anything related to it. So like 2 months ago i was at the vet, they were gonna check some tumor my dog had on his ear, my and my father were waiting for us to get called and meanwhile this happens a girl around my age enters the clinic with her father and a rabbit if i recall correctly. First glance i got of her actually shocked me bc she was actually super pretty (like htb for the psl autists), not the type of girl i usually go for (blonde and blue/green eyes) because she was brunette and hazel/green eyes, but i still got a very good first impression, my brain just after this started wondering if maybe i should ask for her ig because we at the least had things in common like a pet and the area we live in.

So after some time thinking that it wouldnt be possible because no way im asking for her ig with her father watching in front, but suddenly the oods changed in just a second. Her father said he had to go take something from the truck and just as her father walked out of the vet my father told me he was going to the bathroom, so basically i had the best opportunity to go talk to her and maybe get something out of the convo. All this time even with our parents on the side we were giving like looks each to each other because we both liked each other. Both of our fathers going out of the scenario just accentuated the looks and the hidden laughs. I was wondering how could i do it to not seem awkward and have the best succes rate to get her ig or number that i waited for so long (at least 2 minutes) that the vet ended up calling her and her rabbit.

Suddenly all the fantasy that i made on my head was knocked down and i went to realize one more time and once for all that im just a high inhib pussy that cant even have the balls to go talk to a girl that clearly likes me. Since this i really havent even looked twice at the way of any woman because i just feel like i stress myself for actually nothing that i will get in return. What do you guys think?

Spoiler: Tagging the hbs

@TonyDr @doll @submissivechud @Aryy @kifykify @Nbernical @Methodical @Br4va @lydia @Dzitsu @junebug @Hector of Troy @genio @Orka @foidslayer @dontcallthemfoidsbro

Just know that if it were me I would’ve confessed my love to her with her dad standing there because I’m low inhib

 

[Venus]

because I’m low inhib

Its all the drugs

 

[True Spaniard]

Just know that if it were me I would’ve confessed my love to her with her dad standing there because I’m low inhib

Wait til i get my beta-blockers, concerts and ritalin

 

[genio]

Wait til i get my beta-blockers, concerts and ritalin

Nah this is me btw