Going for that emo-soft-goth-boy look, How do I maximize my chances to not die alone ?

[Ceisriel]

Context: I’ve been messed up for 2 years, focusing solely on work and studying, barely leaving my home unless it was for work.

I gave up on dating because, despite never having severe acne, not balding, never being overweight, and having an average face (around a 5.5), the only women I seemed to attract were severely obese or ex-obese with bodies so damaged they looked 70 at age 21.

However, I noticed that during a brief period when I dyed my hair and occasionally wore colored lenses, I attracted more "normal-looking" women.

It's been 2 months since I started training seriously. So, aside from building more muscle, wearing blue lenses, in-shoe heels, dressing better, and dyeing my hair... what else can I improve? Should I lean into the goth-boy look and go full-on with piercings and tattoos? Should I laser off my facial hair (I can only grow a goatee anyway)?

My goals are mostly looking young and distinguishing myself so that girls give me more attention even if I'm quite average facewise.

I've also given up on the idea of working as a programmer, and I’m getting my personal trainer license soon, hoping it will help me meet people.

here's some badly formatted pics

 

[Clone]

Maybe too masculine for that

 

[Ceisriel]

Maybe too masculine for that

you are probably the first person ever in my 2 decades of life to say that, almost everyone I knew since childhood till now said I look either gay or like some lesbian

 

[sigma]

mogs me and slays tbh