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Gonna go on a date in a couple days with a girl I think is way above my league

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Normally I wouldn’t be as stressed about this kinda thing, but rn my mental health is so shit from having had a break up literally a couple days ago. I don’t think I’ll be as NT as I normally am

Yeah, ik it’s my fault for even having set this up, but I didn’t wanna waste this chance with a baddie like her. To be honest I was shocked when she even matched with me and texted first. I literally downloaded Hinge on a whim when I was down in the dumps

Anyways guys, wish a brother luck. Also tell me what you want me to say to her if you’ve got any ideas
 
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Good luck man. It's understandable to be feeling complicated or even down after a breakup. Like I said previously, I didn't really feel the grief until a few days later after the breakup. So it's understandable.

Just remember that you pulled her because you're desirable man. You immediately got a baddie because women see you as a desirable man. So go into the date proud 💪 When I first started dating I felt kind of embarrassed about the thought of a woman liking me but when I went into the mindset of "Most men struggle to even get a message back and I'm over here setting up dates and shit" it boosted my confidence a bit.
 
Good luck man. It's understandable to be feeling complicated or even down after a breakup. Like I said previously, I didn't really feel the grief until a few days later after the breakup. So it's understandable.

Just remember that you pulled her because you're desirable man. You immediately got a baddie because women see you as a desirable man. So go into the date proud 💪 When I first started dating I felt kind of embarrassed about the thought of a woman liking me but when I went into the mindset of "Most men struggle to even get a message back and I'm over here setting up dates and shit" it boosted my confidence a bit.
You don’t know how much I appreciate you as a user man

Thank you, I needed to hear that
 
Normally I wouldn’t be as stressed about this kinda thing, but rn my mental health is so shit from having had a break up literally a couple days ago. I don’t think I’ll be as NT as I normally am

Yeah, ik it’s my fault for even having set this up, but I didn’t wanna waste this chance with a baddie like her. To be honest I was shocked when she even matched with me and texted first. I literally downloaded Hinge on a whim when I was down in the dumps

Anyways guys, wish a brother luck. Also tell me what you want me to say to her if you’ve got any ideas
Go for it.
 
@Mota hes basically my more emotional, less shitposting regen

also shes not way above your league any girl interested in you is not above your league dont ever think that

good luck tho
Lol idk how ppl think we’re similar
 
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Normally I wouldn’t be as stressed about this kinda thing, but rn my mental health is so shit from having had a break up literally a couple days ago. I don’t think I’ll be as NT as I normally am

Yeah, ik it’s my fault for even having set this up, but I didn’t wanna waste this chance with a baddie like her. To be honest I was shocked when she even matched with me and texted first. I literally downloaded Hinge on a whim when I was down in the dumps

Anyways guys, wish a brother luck. Also tell me what you want me to say to her if you’ve got any ideas
gl n***a just smell good and take a fucking shower and if you get the fucking girl dont forget me
 
Dates never work for a long relationship unless you are chad or rich
 
Update: I'm feeling a bit better these days, still not truly myself but the date is in 2 days.

I saw her in motion, I've got nothing to worry about lmao
the date will be good i think, it will either make u realise that u don’t gaf about ur ex or that u miss her lmao. either way use the opportunity to the fullest and don’t half ass the date
 
Update: I'm feeling a bit better these days, still not truly myself but the date is in 2 days.

I saw her in motion, I've got nothing to worry about lmao
best of luck! you’ve got this, glad you’re feeling better vro
 
the date will be good i think, it will either make u realise that u don’t gaf about ur ex or that u miss her lmao. either way use the opportunity to the fullest and don’t half ass the date
yeah, I'll try not to. It won't be fair on her to have me set everything up just to have my mind on another girl the whole time
best of luck! you’ve got this, glad you’re feeling better vro
Thanks pooks
 
She just sent me a pic of her outfit

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Ts is beautiful
 

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