"guys don't approach you because you're to pretty"

[galaxygirl]

people used to ask me out as a joke in person interactions are dead stacies don't get asked out anymore neither does anyone else

my last thread of sanity i love you.

we have to exchange some socials or anything tbh

 

[Faxx]

im not my pfp if thats what ur talking ab haha

Nah I saw your op

 

[nun]

yeah i AM so beautiful that men avoid me like the plague. heh. yall wouldnt understand my struggle… im just so unique and awesome like that

 

[galaxygirl]

Nah I saw your op

thank u bhai have the best day ever

 

[NewFuckingDay]

again they only wont shame you if youre pretty

when i was obese and ugly men didnt have any problem making fun of me and laughing at what i did and said

That’s cuz u were fat though, men make fun of other fat men too and vice versa, if ur average looking and approach a man absolutely 0 bad things can happen vs if a man done it

 

[machineovercooked]

my last thread of sanity i love you.

we have to exchange some socials or anything tbh

I love u too but if im ur last thread of sanity that's cooked tbh
i will make an alt when i'm done posting on ig (indentured servitude from my sorority )

 

[machineovercooked]

That’s cuz u were fat though, men make fun of other fat men too and vice versa, if ur average looking and approach a man absolutely 0 bad things can happen vs if a man done it

average looking is ugly tho

 

[Randomized Shame]

would you want to be approached by a girl u thought was ugly?
nobody likes being approached by ugly people from any gender

That was my point mainly. Men will make the argument that because they have zero standards, anyone who will ever approach another man is 100% appreciated 100% of the time, which is just simply not true. Men are not a monolith (obviously), we don't have a tendency to have the exact same personalities so some men will react more negatively to someone approaching them they deem to be ugly, than someone else.

In my opinion, I've never been approached in my entire life. If someone were to approach me, either gender, it would not matter what they looked like, it would just be the sentimental aspect that someone thought I was worthy enough to be approached in that manner. I recognize not all men actually feel this way, and would actually be upset in some instances over the gesture.

 

[galaxygirl]

That’s cuz u were fat though, men make fun of other fat men too and vice versa, if ur average looking and approach a man absolutely 0 bad things can happen vs if a man done it

touche

 

[machineovercooked]

That was my point mainly. Men will make the argument that because they have zero standards, anyone who will ever approach another man is 100% appreciated 100% of the time, which is just simply not true. Men are not a monolith (obviously), we don't have a tendency to have the exact same personalities so some men will react more negatively to someone approaching them they deem to be ugly, than someone else.

In my opinion, I've never been approached in my entire life. If someone were to approach me, either gender, it would not matter what they looked like, it would just be the sentimental aspect that someone thought I was worthy enough to be approached in that manner. I recognize not all men actually feel this way, and would actually be upset in some instances over the gesture.

100% agree
people who say they don't have standards are lying lmao

 

[NewFuckingDay]

average looking is ugly tho

not for a woman, if ur an average woman and approach any male it would be much more friendly than if an average man done the same how do you not get this, am I sounding too incel or sumthing?

 

[swanneo]

Your a woman do whatever u want u wont be shamed by a man cuz ur just a little woman

na bro men will probably make fun of u in their GC or in person they're evil

 

[galaxygirl]

That was my point mainly. Men will make the argument that because they have zero standards, anyone who will ever approach another man is 100% appreciated 100% of the time, which is just simply not true. Men are not a monolith (obviously), we don't have a tendency to have the exact same personalities so some men will react more negatively to someone approaching them they deem to be ugly, than someone else.

In my opinion, I've never been approached in my entire life. If someone were to approach me, either gender, it would not matter what they looked like, it would just be the sentimental aspect that someone thought I was worthy enough to be approached in that manner. I recognize not all men actually feel this way, and would actually be upset in some instances over the gesture.

very nice

good reminder that everybody is a completely different person, and we've all lived completely different lives. therefore it would actually be stranger if we all reacted to events in the same way

 

[NewFuckingDay]

would you want to be approached by a girl u thought was ugly?
nobody likes being approached by ugly people from any gender

if an ugly girl approached me I’d be as friendly as possible since they are just a woman and I don’t wanna hurt her feelings, women dont have this thought for men

 

[NewFuckingDay]

na bro men will probably make fun of u in their GC or in person they're evil

You are surrounded by some childish men then, never in my life have i seen that

 

[LASACRKO]

yeah can confirm most guys consider liking a story as flirting or commenting under your instagram post
if your socials are bone dry that's a sign

icl i don't really see stuff happen in person anymore, only friends approach each other, a guy asked my friend for notes and we just looked at him weirdly

Most guys cope with iois but real ones are easy to notice since with what I see some girls want u to notice

They start mirroring ur actions, looking a lot and even standing near u out of nowhere

Ofc it’s about putting it all together most girls avoid being nice to guys probably to not give off the wrong idea but it comes to a point that the one time a girl so much as offers a n***a a pencil they think it’s a sign

 

[galaxygirl]

if an ugly girl approached me I’d be as friendly as possible since they are just a woman and I don’t wanna hurt her feelings, women dont have this thought for men

very respectable newday

but again back to my point that we all are different people, and therefore react differently to different events. a girl may also be as friendly as possible in order not to hurt a guy's feelings, and a man may also just snub a girl regardless of how she feels.

 

[machineovercooked]

not for a woman, if ur an average woman and approach any male it would be much more friendly than if an average man done the same how do you not get this, am I sounding too incel or sumthing?

It is both bad
My friend asked out a guy and she was made fun of terribly
and obvs ive seen guys get made fun of

basically what i'm saying is that you get made fun of if ur not attractive worst case scenario for both genders

 

[LASACRKO]

na bro men will probably make fun of u in their GC or in person they're evil

Tbh idc about ppl making fun of me I care about rejection in a personal level but not really about ppl making fun of me anymore

 

[machineovercooked]

n***a a pencil they think it’s a sign

lmaoo
She replied to me on instagram after she asked me for notes - she loves me!!

 

[galaxygirl]

Most guys cope with iois but real ones are easy to notice since with what I see some girls want u to notice

They start mirroring ur actions, looking a lot and even standing near u out of nowhere

Ofc it’s about putting it all together most girls avoid being nice to guys probably to not give off the wrong idea but it comes to a point that the one time a girl so much as offers a n***a a pencil they think it’s a sign

URGENT QUESTION so sorry for off topic everyone but i have to know

DO GUYS DO THE MIRRORING ON PURPOSE OR ON ACCIDENT????? THIS GUY ALWAYS MIRRORS ME AND GLANCES AT ME IN CLASS and im afraid maybe hes trying to lead me on or something??? idfk. also one time after i gave a presentation he found me in the hallway and told me that my presentation was good

delusions or am i finally stacy

 

[galaxygirl]

It is both bad
My friend asked out a guy and she was made fun of terribly
and obvs ive seen guys get made fun of

basically what i'm saying is that you get made fun of if ur not attractive worst case scenario for both genders

tldr dont be ugly

 

[Randomized Shame]

URGENT QUESTION so sorry for off topic everyone but i have to know

DO GUYS DO THE MIRRORING ON PURPOSE OR ON ACCIDENT????? THIS GUY ALWAYS MIRRORS ME AND GLANCES AT ME IN CLASS and im afraid maybe hes trying to lead me on or something??? idfk. also one time after i gave a presentation he found me in the hallway and told me that my presentation was good

delusions or am i finally stacy

It's not normally a conscious choice. Most women will do it, too.

When you admire someone, or spend a lot of time with someone, you will accidentally borrow traits you like from them and add them into your existing personality.

 

[machineovercooked]

URGENT QUESTION so sorry for off topic everyone but i have to know

DO GUYS DO THE MIRRORING ON PURPOSE OR ON ACCIDENT????? THIS GUY ALWAYS MIRRORS ME AND GLANCES AT ME IN CLASS and im afraid maybe hes trying to lead me on or something??? idfk. also one time after i gave a presentation he found me in the hallway and told me that my presentation was good

delusions or am i finally stacy

like all his instagram posts
if he says thats weird to ur face say it's a glitch

 

[NewFuckingDay]

It is both bad
My friend asked out a guy and she was made fun of terribly
and obvs ive seen guys get made fun of

basically what i'm saying is that you get made fun of if ur not attractive worst case scenario for both genders

men usually do this in order to appear “cool” to their peers btw

 

[galaxygirl]

like all his instagram posts
if he says thats weird to ur face say it's a glitch

he doesnt have any damnit

 

[LASACRKO]

URGENT QUESTION so sorry for off topic everyone but i have to know

DO GUYS DO THE MIRRORING ON PURPOSE OR ON ACCIDENT????? THIS GUY ALWAYS MIRRORS ME AND GLANCES AT ME IN CLASS and im afraid maybe hes trying to lead me on or something??? idfk. also one time after i gave a presentation he found me in the hallway and told me that my presentation was good

delusions or am i finally stacy

The mirroring thing is subconscious and both genders can do it since when u constantly watch someone in general and that’s usually the case when u like someone u look at them a lot, the movement starts to replicate

The often quick double glances etc ppl do that cause they wanna keep looking but are shy to actually lock eyes

 

[galaxygirl]

men usually do this in order to appear “cool” to their peers btw

thats another prominent thing that ive noticed in todays society

men(as well as women! but ive seen it in men more often) will usually prioritize their buddies opinions over women. they will only date a girl that all of their friends would also smash, and they want to look like muscleheads to impress other men(nothing wrong with that. just look at male gaze vs female gaze tho. when they work out furiously they think they will impress women--which they might dont get me wrong--but dont.

 

[galaxygirl]

The mirroring thing is subconscious and both genders can do it since when u constantly watch someone in general and that’s usually the case when u like someone u look at them a lot, the movement starts to replicate

The often quick double glances etc ppl do that cause they wanna keep looking but are shy to actually lock eyes

score

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