Had a fight w my girl

[foidslayer]

she left me on seen for like 3 days

fight was because she got upset ab her not being my first kiss (even tho I didn't kiss her or took her first kiss) and that i sexted a girl

keep in mind i did nothing w them while i was dating her it was when we weren't tg

she got upset because i was quiet and walked infront of her after she shamed me so hard for it and basically acted like i was a manwhore

now because i stood my ground she's ghosting me

what do i do
@Ladiesman217 @Penalizer69

 

[True Spaniard]

Shes schizo n***a leave her

 

[Aryy]

tell her you cant change anything

i mean, you understand she likes you alot and what not thats why she would do this but its silly

 

[twinkdestroyer]

ultimatum always does the trick

 

[lydia]

you didn't cheat, that's the important part. if it all happened before you got together then there's not much you can do besides explain yourself. don't beg or double text a million times. give her space and see if she reaches out

 

[benny]

Shes schizo n***a leave her

 

[foidslayer]

tell her you cant change anything

i mean, you understand she likes you alot and what not thats why she would do this but its silly

no shes deadass so mad im probably blocked now i never bothered to check tbh

 

[foidslayer]

ultimatum always does the trick

from pixel gun 3d?

 

[Bananachip]

you didn't cheat, that's the important part. if it all happened before you got together then there's not much you can do besides explain yourself. don't beg or double text a million times. give her space and see if she reaches out

Good advice

 

[Penalizer69]

More fish in the sea innit

 

[Bananachip]

no shes deadass so mad im probably blocked now i never bothered to check tbh

It doesn’t seem like u have very deep feelings for her maybe break it off now if you guys are gonna keep having issues like this

 

[foidslayer]

It doesn’t seem like u have very deep feelings for her maybe break it off now if you guys are gonna keep having issues like this

she's been my crush since childhood but I'm not here to regulate her emotions

 

[Deleted Member 114044]

Leave

 

[Bananachip]

she's been my crush since childhood but I'm not here to regulate her emotions

That’s part of being in a relationship if you really want to be with someone you have to work through that stuff

 

[Insomnia]

what do i do

run n***a

 

[foidslayer]

That’s part of being in a relationship if you really want to be with someone you have to work through that stuff

yes help her reassure her comfort her sure but not regulating her emotions

i did that allat and she still kept arguing

 

[chudlite67]

she left me on seen for like 3 days

fight was because she got upset ab her not being my first kiss (even tho I didn't kiss her or took her first kiss) and that i sexted a girl

keep in mind i did nothing w them while i was dating her it was when we weren't tg

she got upset because i was quiet and walked infront of her after she shamed me so hard for it and basically acted like i was a manwhore

now because i stood my ground she's ghosting me

what do i do
@Ladiesman217 @Penalizer69

Oh my god just break up
It’s one kiss
Who cares

 

[chudlite67]

The answer is always break up
I am anti LTR

 

[Bananachip]

yes help her reassure her comfort her sure but not regulating her emotions

i did that allat and she still kept arguing

Just give it some time if she’s really not willing to make up over it then she’s probably not ready for a serious relationship anyways

 

[Insomnia]

2 types of people

 

[foidslayer]

Just give it some time if she’s really not willing to make up over it then she’s probably not ready for a serious relationship anyways

after i paid for the date too

diabolical

 

[Ladiesman217]

she left me on seen for like 3 days

fight was because she got upset ab her not being my first kiss (even tho I didn't kiss her or took her first kiss) and that i sexted a girl

keep in mind i did nothing w them while i was dating her it was when we weren't tg

she got upset because i was quiet and walked infront of her after she shamed me so hard for it and basically acted like i was a manwhore

now because i stood my ground she's ghosting me

what do i do
@Ladiesman217 @Penalizer69

Imo shes just really anxious attachment and she needs reassurance so u should probably just ask her in a day or two if she wants to talk about it, reassure her by telling her that you only like her and no one else and that was in the past, and to have a healthy relationship the past should stay in the past

 

[foidslayer]

Imo shes just really anxious attachment and she needs reassurance so u should probably just ask her in a day or two if she wants to talk about it, reassure her by telling her that you only like her and no one else and that was in the past, and to have a healthy relationship the past should stay in the past

yea so like 5 days after the arguement

 

[Penalizer69]

Imo shes just really anxious attachment and she needs reassurance so u should probably just ask her in a day or two if she wants to talk about it, reassure her by telling her that you only like her and no one else and that was in the past, and to have a healthy relationship the past should stay in the past

Yah she probably does but that's not something you can change. As someone with trust issues myself I'm not gonna believe a word anyone tells me

If foidslayer can't handle that he shouldn't be with her, because she won't change.

 

[Ladiesman217]

yea so like 5 days after the arguement

Probably a little less like maybe 2-3 days max

 

[foidslayer]

yea so like 5 days after the arguement

i js checked im blocked

 

[Ladiesman217]

Yah she probably does but that's not something you can change. As someone with trust issues myself I'm not gonna believe a word anyone tells me

If foidslayer can't handle that he shouldn't be with her, because she won't change.

Tbh im the exact same i have serious trust issues which is why i broke up w my ex and why im having problems w my current gf

 

[limo8]

she left me on seen for like 3 days

fight was because she got upset ab her not being my first kiss (even tho I didn't kiss her or took her first kiss) and that i sexted a girl

keep in mind i did nothing w them while i was dating her it was when we weren't tg

she got upset because i was quiet and walked infront of her after she shamed me so hard for it and basically acted like i was a manwhore

now because i stood my ground she's ghosting me

what do i do
@Ladiesman217 @Penalizer69

no idea

 

[Ladiesman217]

i js checked im blocked

If she truly liked you she’ll regret it after a few days and try to talk to you again, she’s just acting on her impulses rn and is probsmly like imagining u kissing another n***a and secting another n***a or sum shit

 

[foidslayer]

Yah she probably does but that's not something you can change. As someone with trust issues myself I'm not gonna believe a word anyone tells me

If foidslayer can't handle that he shouldn't be with her, because she won't change.

its not that i cant handle her

i just dont want to drain my energy and time on something thats not gonna bring much benefit when there's someone out there without those problems

I'm not here to fix the girl I don't date based on their potential i date based on who they already are

 

[foidslayer]

If she truly liked you she’ll regret it after a few days and try to talk to you again, she’s just acting on her impulses rn and is probsmly like imagining u kissing another n***a and secting another n***a or sum shit

she was talking ab that in the arguement btw

 

[wildfrost11]

either she is psycho or she cheated on you and is tryna act like u also did ‘bad things’ to make her feel less bad for what she did

 

[Ladiesman217]

she was talking ab that in the arguement btw

Yeah ngl I can relate, I know it can be anmoying and tough for the other partner but if my girl even talks to another guy I get hella pissed and shit in fact that’s why I got so pissed at my girl and we had that argument. But trust me it’s gonna be fine for the most part

 

[foidslayer]

either she is psycho or she cheated on you and is tryna act like u also did ‘bad things’ to make her feel less bad for what she did

well idgaf if she cheated lwk her loss
many other mtbs out there

 

[foidslayer]

Yeah ngl I can relate, I know it can be anmoying and tough for the other partner but if my girl even talks to another guy I get hella pissed and shit in fact that’s why I got so pissed at my girl and we had that argument. But trust me it’s gonna be fine for the most part

i wouldn't talk to other girls while in a rls tho

 

[Ladiesman217]

i wouldn't talk to other girls while in a rls tho

Yeah I know but from what im getting she’s the kinda person you need to give constant reassurance because she is textbook anxious attachment

 

[Calcidoll]

tell her you can't change the past, she either accepts it and the mutual love stays or she starts resenting you (both can be found out soon enough).

lowk tho, sometimes people engage in sexual shit for adrenaline and not much for bonding and stuff

 

[foidslayer]

tell her you can't change the past, she either accepts it and the mutual love stays or she starts resenting you (both can be found out soon enough).

lowk tho, sometimes people engage in sexual shit for adrenaline and not much for bonding and stuff

if i say that she'll get mad too im in a pickle

Yeah I know but from what im getting she’s the kinda person you need to give constant reassurance because she is textbook anxious attachment

too late

 

[bananarama]

she left me on seen for like 3 days

fight was because she got upset ab her not being my first kiss (even tho I didn't kiss her or took her first kiss) and that i sexted a girl

keep in mind i did nothing w them while i was dating her it was when we weren't tg

she got upset because i was quiet and walked infront of her after she shamed me so hard for it and basically acted like i was a manwhore

now because i stood my ground she's ghosting me

what do i do
@Ladiesman217 @Penalizer69

retroactive jealousy is hella immature leave her bro

 

[bananarama]

she left me on seen for like 3 days

fight was because she got upset ab her not being my first kiss (even tho I didn't kiss her or took her first kiss) and that i sexted a girl

keep in mind i did nothing w them while i was dating her it was when we weren't tg

she got upset because i was quiet and walked infront of her after she shamed me so hard for it and basically acted like i was a manwhore

now because i stood my ground she's ghosting me

what do i do
@Ladiesman217 @Penalizer69

also why’s everyone fighting w their girl randomly

 

[Calcidoll]

if i say that she'll get mad too im in a pickle

too late

tell her gently and with sweet words

 

[foidslayer]

tell her gently and with sweet words

im blocked

 

[foidslayer]

also why’s everyone fighting w their girl randomly

israeli propaganda to weaken us

 

[Calcidoll]

im blocked

she'll unblock soon enough. don't get your cortisol up.


but ngl if the relationship is 1-2months long before this fight, it's better to let it go

 

[Ladiesman217]

israeli propaganda to weaken us

Ben was out to get you from the start, I mean youre giving out gold like nothing!

 

[foidslayer]

she'll unblock soon enough. don't get your cortisol up.


but ngl if the relationship is 1-2months long before this fight, it's better to let it go

We've been on and off for more than that

 

[Pinksunglasses]

she left me on seen for like 3 days

fight was because she got upset ab her not being my first kiss (even tho I didn't kiss her or took her first kiss) and that i sexted a girl

keep in mind i did nothing w them while i was dating her it was when we weren't tg

she got upset because i was quiet and walked infront of her after she shamed me so hard for it and basically acted like i was a manwhore

now because i stood my ground she's ghosting me

what do i do
@Ladiesman217 @Penalizer69

Dating so cuck lol

 

[Deleted Member 113067]

she is totally understandable
you need to reach out and comfort her that you didnt mean anything bad and still like her
once she understands you dont mean anything bad you can walk infront of her if you must

 

[foidslayer]

she is totally understandable
you need to reach out and comfort her that you didnt mean anything bad and still like her
once she understands you dont mean anything bad you can walk infront of her if you must

genuinely who even gets that upset that their partner is walking infront of them

i cant even reach out im blocked

 

[Deleted Member 113067]

genuinely who even gets that upset that their partner is walking infront of them

i cant even reach out im blocked

she is probably more upset that you didnt apologise or try to sort things out even if its something small
She was upset at you and you didnt text her for 3 days.