Discussion Has anyone ever cold approached before?

[Neo.Backup]

Experiences pls?

 

[Neo.Backup]

I get that incels are often socially awkard but remaining socially awkward is going to further your inceldom and create an echo chamber.

 

[Shrek]

Experiences pls?

only when ive been out drinking... I might post a progression thread on here when I start approaching

 

[Neo.Backup]

only when ive been out drinking... I might post a progression thread on here when I start approaching

Create a megathread. i was thinking of doing the exact same thing.

 

[Shrek]

Create a megathread. i was thinking of doing the exact same thing.

i like it, i might actually just make a NT progression thread where i document sparking up conversations with random people and stuff

some people might find it interesting

 

[Pendejo]

only when ive been out drinking... I might post a progression thread on here when I start approaching

Do it.

Some guy on Looksmax did that:

DOCUMENTING EVERY COLD APPROACH @ 16yo | Looksmax.me - Men's Self-Improvement & Aesthetics

Most of the people in my last thread wanted to see the results of my future cold approaches so here we go. :feelsahh: Background: 16yo, 6'2/188cm, average face. I would honestly rate myself at 5/10, nothing special. Live in the Baltic States (25% population is Russian) I have lost like 9KG...

looksmax.me

 

[Pendejo]

Create a megathread. i was thinking of doing the exact same thing.

Are you going to cold approach?

 

[Rei]

I get that incels are often socially awkard but remaining socially awkward is going to further your inceldom and create an echo chamber.

How do you expect them to escape their social awkwardness when all they get is negative feedback and get made fun of/criticized for every small thing they do or don't for that matter.

 

[danny deVitocel]

Yeah i get cold approached by JBs all the time

 

[Neo.Backup]

Are you going to cold approach?

yep

 

[Neo.Backup]

How do you expect them to escape their social awkwardness when all they get is negative feedback and get made fun of/criticized for every small thing they do or don't for that matter.

Everyone has experienced criticism before but those who are too weak to stand up for themselves will have to re-occur in there lives if they don’t stand up for themselves. Fight back.

 

[Rei]

Everyone has experienced criticism before but those who are too weak to stand up for themselves will have to re-occur in there lives if they don’t stand up for themselves. Fight back.

Can't really fight back against people who are light-years ahead of you socially.

 

[Ritalincel]

Listen, man. If i cold approach a f*male, i will be straight up rejected. Now you will say "Can not know unless you had tried @me". But here is the trick - if i get too emotionally affected i will get an heart attack. Well yes, my medicine will prevent that, but it is like playing russian roulette. It is over for tachycardia celibates.

 

[Rei]

my medicine will prevent that,

Hmm yes yummy Jewish medicine prescribed by Dr. Bergstein to prevent your heart from exploding in your chest.

 

[Ritalincel]

Hmm yes yummy Jewish medicine prescribed by Dr. Bergstein to prevent your heart from exploding in your chest.

to prevent fight-or-flight mode, beta blockers to reduce heart rate. Lifestyle chanages will not take an effect instantly, thing.

 

[Neo.Backup]

Can't really fight back against people who are light-years ahead of you socially.

then learn.

 

[Neo.Backup]

Listen, man. If i cold approach a f*male, i will be straight up rejected. Now you will say "Can not know unless you had tried @me". But here is the trick - if i get too emotionally affected i will get an heart attack. Well yes, my medicine will prevent that, but it is like playing russian roulette. It is over for tachycardia celibates.

my strategy is too hit on a girl and if i get rejected switch to lets just be friends. Be friends so she trusts me enough to let me into her friend group and then create friends groups from in contact female.

 

[Neo.Backup]

my strategy is to roast you alive over a fire as you are a dumb cuck

incelcope.jpeg

 

[Rkelly]

just fucking lol at your (((Strategy))), you cant be serious about that

have you ever browsed a blackpill site before or did your xenoestrogen filled brain just rationalize everything youve seen and heard?

Mjolnir to me!

 

[Neo.Backup]

just fucking lol at your (((Strategy))), you cant be serious about that

have you ever browsed a blackpill site before or did your xenoestrogen filled brain just rationalize everything youve seen and heard?

ur coping hard.

 

[Rkelly]

my strategy is too hit on a girl and if i get rejected switch to lets just be friends. Be friends so she trusts me enough to let me into her friend group and then create friends groups from in contact female.

Readily going into the friendzone isn't a great idea even if she lets you in the friend group...

Girls tell their friends everything.
Basically you will be known as the guy she rejected and who copes by being her friend.

No girl wants to be with the 'rejected' guy it's a status thing. So all her friends will see you as lower value immediately.

My advice if getting rejected is keep cool and move onto a totally new person.

Better yet don't do cold approaches. Only warm approaches.

Warm approaches = they have given clear iois then you proceed to get their number etc

 

[Ritalincel]

Readily going into the friendzone isn't a great idea even if she lets you in the friend group...

Girls tell their friends everything.
Basically you will be known as the guy she rejected and who copes by being her friend.

No girl wants to be with the 'rejected' guy it's a status thing. So all her friends will see you as lower value immediately.

My advice if getting rejected is keep cool and move onto a totally new person.

Better yet don't do cold approaches. Only warm approaches.

Warm approaches = they have given clear iois then you proceed to get their number etc

Took me 4(four) times to finish reading this, man. I do not like the word 'cringe', but i guess i should keep that in mind.

 

[Neo.Backup]

Readily going into the friendzone isn't a great idea even if she lets you in the friend group...

Girls tell their friends everything.
Basically you will be known as the guy she rejected and who copes by being her friend.

No girl wants to be with the 'rejected' guy it's a status thing. So all her friends will see you as lower value immediately.

My advice if getting rejected is keep cool and move onto a totally new person.

Better yet don't do cold approaches. Only warm approaches.

Warm approaches = they have given clear iois then you proceed to get their number etc

This is completely the wrong logic. Friendzoning yourself saves face and allows for you to increase your friend circles, which is highly important if u have no friends.

Girls talk, use that to your advantage. You’ll be known as the guy with the balls to ask her out and her friends will more likely try it on with you if you dont fuck things up when your building rapport with this girl

 

[Neo.Backup]

nobody cares how low inhib you are if youre not goodlooking, youll just be called a creep

theres this guy cold approaching at a university and now hes well known everywhere as a creep approaching girls, and he didnt even do anything ""wrong""

its over for you, not for me.

 

[Rei]

switch to lets just be friends.

I only want friendship to begin with, to be honest.

 

[Rei]

Took me 4(four) times to finish reading this, man. I do not like the word 'cringe', but i guess i should keep that in mind.

What does that have to do with the word "cringe", man...?

 

[Rkelly]

This is completely the wrong logic. Friendzoning yourself saves face and allows for you to increase your friend circles, which is highly important if u have no friends.

Girls talk, use that to your advantage. You’ll be known as the guy with the balls to ask her out and her friends will more likely try it on with you if you dont fuck things up when your building rapport with this girl

Ok bro
I'm just telling from experience
I to school and uni almost everyday
I tend to have good observational skills

Girls don't like going out with the rejected guy

It is low status I'm telling you!

It's similar to the effect of being known as the virgin

Obviously if you are Chad or gigachad none of this matters

You are sub Chad
I highly recommend you take my advice

Go ahead and try it your way
Let me know how it goes
Srs

 

[Rei]

ugh,...

Yes, I want a very cute Tomboy friend to play-fight with and """study""" together.

 

[Ritalincel]

What does that have to do with the word "cringe", man...?

@Rkelly was writing misogynistic words, thing.

 

[Rei]

@Rkelly was writing misogynistic words, thing.

Don't worry, we'll give him his deserved punishment over our campfire tonight.

 

[Rei]

bugutu racatabu

I don't know what that is, man...

 

[Rkelly]

I don't know what that is, man...

That means he is gay

 

[Rei]

Ugly women, man.

That means he is gay

What if I am too?

 

[Rei]

the one is blue dress is hot

She doesn't have short hair and a cute face though, man... Also, too dimorphic for me, man.

 

[Rei]

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Very ugly, to be honest, I'd reject her.

I love her...

 

[Rkelly]

Very ugly, to be honest, I'd reject her.

I love her...

Looks like astrosky tbh

 

[Rei]

Looks like astrosky tbh

No, she mogs that Truecel.

 

[Neo.Backup]

Go ahead and try it your way
Let me know how it goes
Srs

Yeah sure

 

[john]

Listen, man. If i cold approach a f*male, i will be straight up rejected. Now you will say "Can not know unless you had tried @me". But here is the trick - if i get too emotionally affected i will get an heart attack. Well yes, my medicine will prevent that, but it is like playing russian roulette. It is over for tachycardia celibates.

You got it right ritty bro.

I've been cold approached by 3 average looking women IRL, but I never asked them out because I knew that they would reject me and accuse me of sexual harassment. Just confessing your love to the wrong person gets you straight to jail. I've given up on cold approaching. I'm only going to looksmax, wait till marriage (or might escortcel if i feel like so), and then reject all roasties and foids who approach me for validation. I'm a smart boi... .

 

[john]

Better yet don't do cold approaches. Only warm approaches.

Warm approaches = they have given clear iois then you proceed to get their number etc

What are warm approaches exactly?

 

[Rkelly]

What are warm approaches exactly?

Approaching a women only once she shows clear indicators of interest versus going up to random women and talking to them

 

[Neo.Backup]

Approaching a women only once she shows clear indicators of interest versus going up to random women and talking to them

Bro...

Warm approach are when you already know the person via ur social circles.

Cold approaching by your standards would be warm approaching is. Because you’re meant to take in the subcontexual clues of if she likes you or not and if she doesn’t give you any clear signs then you move onto the next chick.

 

[Rkelly]

Bro...

Warm approach are when you already know the person via ur social circles.

Cold approaching by your standards would be warm approaching is. Because you’re meant to take in the subcontexual clues of if she likes you or not and if she doesn’t give you any clear signs then you move onto the next chick.

I see
I always called it warm approach
I usually called cold approach just talking to random women regardless of interest in you
Some dating coachs/YouTubers also did too

But I get what your saying now

 

[dohbeep]

Nvm I didn’t even read