not all of them, I have certainly asked out far less of those men than I've met.
you have some quite severe black and white thinking, and it shows in not only this conversation but your constant insistence that it is the woman's fault you're still incel. I know it is a harsh truthpill to swallow but short men get women, out of shape men get women, yes even ugly men get women though the system is indeed angled against them all. they still succeed, they still persevere. your mental blocks and narrow way of thinking are what keep you trapped inside a box where you do nothing but suffer and blame and suffer more. the blaming doesn't make you feel better but it's all you know, because you cannot fathom a reality where any of this is your fault, you can't fathom a reality where your circumstances don't define you. I really hope you can open your eyes because I really wish the best for you, but this is some severe narrow thinking.