ItsChrys02
Heartbroken one time more than needed
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Hey there!
My name is Christian, I'm 23 and I've ended up here after a terrible breakup, i've invested a lot of effort and time into helping this girl and getting her to be strong and secure about herself
After 3.5 years i've started feeling as something was off
After trying talking to her multiple times about it i asked for a 2 months phase of minimal contact to heal a second and get back to us (not meaning that we could go and act like we weren't toghether, it was done to get better and work better on our relationship) during that period of time she started ghosting me, telling me she didn't know what she wanted, ignoring me and making me feel like i was invading her space while 10 days before that we were loving eachother, it left me confused and i started doubting everything i've done.
This was a girl that really meant a lot to me and that's the reason why i chose this way of doing things, to save the relationship rather than let it go to waste.
Thing is, while i was actually thinking about what i've could've done better, she was already moving as if it was over and i didn't really matter anymore to her... This was not what we agreed to tho...
I've started to go to the gym from the start of this relationship and never stopped. I was a bit fat at the time, while now, i'm atleast muscular, a bit fat still, but miles from where i've started.
But after any breakup i've always strived for a glow up, and from this one i'm going to need a hell of a big one.
I came here looking for ways to improve my face, style (beard, haircut).
I want to get even better, i thought i was reaching my peak but now i need it to be a lot higher than before.
Thanks for reading this!
My name is Christian, I'm 23 and I've ended up here after a terrible breakup, i've invested a lot of effort and time into helping this girl and getting her to be strong and secure about herself
After 3.5 years i've started feeling as something was off
After trying talking to her multiple times about it i asked for a 2 months phase of minimal contact to heal a second and get back to us (not meaning that we could go and act like we weren't toghether, it was done to get better and work better on our relationship) during that period of time she started ghosting me, telling me she didn't know what she wanted, ignoring me and making me feel like i was invading her space while 10 days before that we were loving eachother, it left me confused and i started doubting everything i've done.
This was a girl that really meant a lot to me and that's the reason why i chose this way of doing things, to save the relationship rather than let it go to waste.
Thing is, while i was actually thinking about what i've could've done better, she was already moving as if it was over and i didn't really matter anymore to her... This was not what we agreed to tho...
I've started to go to the gym from the start of this relationship and never stopped. I was a bit fat at the time, while now, i'm atleast muscular, a bit fat still, but miles from where i've started.
But after any breakup i've always strived for a glow up, and from this one i'm going to need a hell of a big one.
I came here looking for ways to improve my face, style (beard, haircut).
I want to get even better, i thought i was reaching my peak but now i need it to be a lot higher than before.
Thanks for reading this!
