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So i am in a dilemma
two guys keep msging me and seem to be flirting, im just being friendly for the now while i assess which one is the better guy
one is english, non religious but likes learning abt it, does muay thai, does art, has had previous gfs, 18 and is a longtime friend from school
the other is dagestani, is orthodox christian, does MMA, works on a farm, has never had a gf and seems very clueless about dating in general and his parents may possibly disapprove of me
wtf do I do? , both are my type and both have some drawbacks
 
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Idk depends what you are into, youre prolly young so i would say to go for the english dude since the dagestani one will have very traditional values
 
Idk depends what you are into, youre prolly young so i would say to go for the english dude since the dagestani one will have very traditional values
true yeah, hes very sweet tho and i am catholic
(im 18)
 
So i am in a dilemma
two guys keep msging me and seem to be flirting, im just being friendly for the now while i assess which one is the better guy
one is english, non religious but likes learning abt it, does muay thai, does art, has had previous gfs, 18 and is a longtime friend from school
the other is dagestani, is orthodox christian, does MMA, works on a farm, has never had a gf and seems very clueless about dating in general and his parents may possibly disapprove of me
wtf do I do? , both are my type and both have some drawbacks
why would the second one’s parents disapprove of you?
 
why would the second one’s parents disapprove of you?
I am english, catholic and have dyed hair
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peep the split dye jfl
 
So i am in a dilemma
two guys keep msging me and seem to be flirting, im just being friendly for the now while i assess which one is the better guy
one is english, non religious but likes learning abt it, does muay thai, does art, has had previous gfs, 18 and is a longtime friend from school
the other is dagestani, is orthodox christian, does MMA, works on a farm, has never had a gf and seems very clueless about dating in general and his parents may possibly disapprove of me
wtf do I do? , both are my type and both have some drawbacks
2nd
 
I am english, catholic and have dyed hair
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peep the split dye jfl
ohh i see
then not much to do there but i mean if u both r adults then parents probably wont be in the picture as much as you’d think unless you get married and stuff
and ur hair is so cutee!! i just dyed mine from black to brown hehe
 
I am english, catholic and have dyed hair
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peep the split dye jfl
Icl not mirin the hair, just from a critical pov i think you would attract more guys with natural hair, just dyed makes itr harder but also splitted you are attracting like a very niche certain taste
 
ohh i see
then not much to do there but i mean if u both r adults then parents probably wont be in the picture as much as you’d think unless you get married and stuff
and ur hair is so cutee!! i just dyed mine from black to brown hehe
love ittt
yeah its just so confusing theyre both my type, good personalities just in diff ways, built and gl
i fucking spoiled for choice idk what to do
 
Icl not mirin the hair, just from a critical pov i think you would attract more guys with natural hair, just dyed makes itr harder but also splitted you are attracting like a very niche certain taste
unironically i pull more guys than i did natural (surprisingly all the men i like also love the hair)
i think it just makes me stand out and it doesnt look out of place in regards with my face
 
So i am in a dilemma
two guys keep msging me and seem to be flirting, im just being friendly for the now while i assess which one is the better guy
one is english, non religious but likes learning abt it, does muay thai, does art, has had previous gfs, 18 and is a longtime friend from school
the other is dagestani, is orthodox christian, does MMA, works on a farm, has never had a gf and seems very clueless about dating in general and his parents may possibly disapprove of me
wtf do I do? , both are my type and both have some drawbacks
2-3 years in Dagestan and forget
 
love ittt
yeah its just so confusing theyre both my type, good personalities just in diff ways, built and gl
i fucking spoiled for choice idk what to do
im in a sorta similar dilemma i have two guys irl that r both attractive that like me, ones not really my type tho but he’s still cute
but im too nd and loyal to my evil e bf that hates me and i feel terrible whenever i talk to a guy irl 😞 like i don’t want to cuck anyone but jesus theyre calling my name
 
I am english, catholic and have dyed hair
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peep the split dye jfl
yea imo u should defo go with 2nd, he's never had any girl so theres no way he would cheat on u with any past ex girlfriend, i can see he works hard because his parents want him to become the best version of himself and so they're making him work, also orthodox people are really nice (i myself am orthodox and its such a friendly community), also mma is a sport so im sure he'll be able to defend u lol
can u list some drawbacks tho?
also "clueless" means no corrupted interest and defo views you with genuine, also eh his parents may be strict but you could get to know them and build a good connection, i can see hes hardworking but remember that you'll have to teach him how to be a boyfriend lolol
 
im in a sorta similar dilemma i have two guys irl that r both attractive that like me, ones not really my type tho but he’s still cute
but im too nd and loyal to my evil e bf that hates me and i feel terrible whenever i talk to a guy irl 😞 like i don’t want to cuck anyone but jesus theyre calling my name
Screamin your name through the mountains spanky
 
im in a sorta similar dilemma i have two guys irl that r both attractive that like me, ones not really my type tho but he’s still cute
but im too nd and loyal to my evil e bf that hates me and i feel terrible whenever i talk to a guy irl 😞 like i don’t want to cuck anyone but jesus theyre calling my name
ooo leave the e bf icl
wtf can an e bf even do for u
its not like ur going on dates or even sitting in eachothers company watching a movie
ik it might suck but ur missing out on all the cute experiences a present bf can give u
 
yea imo u should defo go with 2nd, he's never had any girl so theres no way he would cheat on u with any past ex girlfriend, i can see he works hard because his parents want him to become the best version of himself and so they're making him work, also orthodox people are really nice (i myself am orthodox and its such a friendly community), also mma is a sport so im sure he'll be able to defend u lol
can u list some drawbacks tho?
also "clueless" means no corrupted interest and defo views you with genuine, also eh his parents may be strict but you could get to know them and build a good connection, i can see hes hardworking but remember that you'll have to teach him how to be a boyfriend lolol
like he has no idea how dating works
how to start dating
how to kiss someone
how to interact as a couple
like hes very sweet but hes very out of his depth like i think hed die if i went in to give him a hug type shit which is odd cos he looks like some big intimidating fella but hes quiet and shy
hes not got much of an education
 
like he has no idea how dating works
how to start dating
how to kiss someone
how to interact as a couple
like hes very sweet but hes very out of his depth like i think hed die if i went in to give him a hug type shit which is odd cos he looks like some big intimidating fella but hes quiet and shy
hes not got much of an education
you can teach him, basically no toxic ex drama and shi like this its like a project atp but he prolly likes u to the point that hes scared to mess up so hes the best one for u IMO
also i feel like hes gonna be extremely loyal if u both dedicate yourselves into the relationship
 
true true still the other dude has never cheated on anyone and seems like hes always been a good partner
idk they options balance out ugh
you can teach him, basically no toxic ex drama and shi like this its like a project atp but he prolly likes u to the point that hes scared to mess up so hes the best one for u IMO
also i feel like hes gonna be extremely loyal if u both dedicate yourselves into the relationship
 
you can teach him, basically no toxic ex drama and shi like this its like a project atp but he prolly likes u to the point that hes scared to mess up so hes the best one for u IMO
also i feel like hes gonna be extremely loyal if u both dedicate yourselves into the relationship
i agree like u can literally train him to be the exact boyfriend u want him to be
for the most part
 
you can teach him, basically no toxic ex drama and shi like this its like a project atp but he prolly likes u to the point that hes scared to mess up so hes the best one for u IMO
also i feel like hes gonna be extremely loyal if u both dedicate yourselves into the relationship
I ngl you guys seem to be advising a 30 yo woman like shes gonna mary that guy, shes 18 and mostly just want to have fun prolly, the second guy wont prolly do that
 
So i am in a dilemma
two guys keep msging me and seem to be flirting, im just being friendly for the now while i assess which one is the better guy
one is english, non religious but likes learning abt it, does muay thai, does art, has had previous gfs, 18 and is a longtime friend from school
the other is dagestani, is orthodox christian, does MMA, works on a farm, has never had a gf and seems very clueless about dating in general and his parents may possibly disapprove of me
wtf do I do? , both are my type and both have some drawbacks
have them fight me watch them get knocked out by me. accept i'll forever be your cl, but the dagestani sounds like the better option
 
I ngl you guys seem to be advising a 30 yo woman like shes gonna mary that guy, shes 18 and mostly just want to have fun prolly, the second guy wont prolly do that
its just gonna be better for her lol
 
based on my interactions, dagestanis are nice people, have a great respect culture
traditional and high emphasis on family even in the younger generations
i say make the first guy learn farmwork and get with him
 

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