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i was liking this boy since november, we were friends, we talk everyday, he was very kind saying he loved me and blah blah blah
he has bipolar disorder just for context lol
he was always very flirty with me, till one day i confessed to him(mid january), after that we remained as friends, but even more flirty and talking more.
then late january we started a relationship, it lasted till mid February, he was very intense saying he would die for me and stuff
then he started talking abt his mental health and broke up with me bc he said he was not sure if he loved me and he is confused abt his feelings, broke my heart frr
even so, he continued being flirty, he even said he was in love in me and i was perfect and blah blah blah
i was pressuring him too much to explain what he felt tbh, and he got very mad, but i apologized and we are back being friends
what are the chances i can still get him if i wait enough? or what should I do in this situation?
 
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i was liking this boy since november, we were friends, we talk everyday, he was very kind saying he loved me and blah blah blah
he has bipolar disorder just for context lol
he was always very flirty with me, till one day i confessed to him(mid january), after that we remained as friends, but even more flirty and talking more.
then late january we started a relationship, it lasted till mid February, he was very intense saying he would die for me and stuff
then he started talking abt his mental health and broke up with me bc he said he was not sure if he loved me and he is confused abt his feelings, broke my heart frr
even so, he continued being flirty, he even said he was in love in me and i was perfect and blah blah blah
i was pressuring him too much to explain what he felt tbh, and he got very mad, but i apologized and we are back being friends
what are the chances i can still get him if i wait enough? or what should I do in this situation?
very complicated guy tbh
seems to me like he cant really decide what he wants, but i guess its because he is bipolar
if you really do like him then i think it could work out and i think you guys will get back together probably
@Shkypot would never treat u this way tho 👀
 
very complicated guy tbh
seems to me like he cant really decide what he wants, but i guess its because he is bipolar
if you really do like him then i think it could work out and i think you guys will get back together probably
@Shkypot would never treat u this way tho 👀
i will wait years for this guy tbh, i will do everything to make him like me
but yea the shkypot lore was funny HAHAHAHA
 
drop it he isnt serious about it
 
i was liking this boy since november, we were friends, we talk everyday, he was very kind saying he loved me and blah blah blah
he has bipolar disorder just for context lol
he was always very flirty with me, till one day i confessed to him(mid january), after that we remained as friends, but even more flirty and talking more.
then late january we started a relationship, it lasted till mid February, he was very intense saying he would die for me and stuff
then he started talking abt his mental health and broke up with me bc he said he was not sure if he loved me and he is confused abt his feelings, broke my heart frr
even so, he continued being flirty, he even said he was in love in me and i was perfect and blah blah blah
i was pressuring him too much to explain what he felt tbh, and he got very mad, but i apologized and we are back being friends
what are the chances i can still get him if i wait enough? or what should I do in this situation?

Just wait it out to be honest, he’s gonna realise that your serious about your relationship with him if you let him take his time and be patient and when the time is right ask him out
 
Just wait it out to be honest, he’s gonna realise that your serious about your relationship with him if you let him take his time and be patient and when the time is right ask him out
he said last week that i was perfect and that he was in love with me(in english it doesn’t make sense, but he basically said he has passion for me but not sure if he LOVES me) and that he wants to wait so things don’t rush, he said that after the poem i sent
then yesterday i vented to him abt everything i feel, i saidthat i love him very much and that i’m extremely sad about this situation and he explained that in the situation he is he is not sure if hes in love with me and he doesnt know how he feels
what u think?
 
he said last week that i was perfect and that he was in love with me(in english it doesn’t make sense, but he basically said he has passion for me but not sure if he LOVES me) and that he wants to wait so things don’t rush, he said that after the poem i sent
then yesterday i vented to him abt everything i feel, i saidthat i love him very much and that i’m extremely sad about this situation and he explained that in the situation he is he is not sure if hes in love with me and he doesnt know how he feels
what u think?
I still think you should wait it out, unfortunately can’t force a person to love you :sadge:
 
I still think you should wait it out, unfortunately can’t force a person to love you :sadge:
yeah tbh, i was changing myself completely for him
but i’ll just wait to see what happens and i won’t talk abt it with him unless he does it first or show signs
 
I still think you should wait it out, unfortunately can’t force a person to love you :sadge:
but thanks a lot though, your advice was very helpful
 

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