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Serious how can people e date

fatfuckingchud said:
cause what if she went to the gym to work off being fat and you jst disrespected her hard work
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she has to first buy a gym membership instead of rotting on forums and not even looksmaxxing (more like foodmaxxing)
 
foidslayer said:
no thanks pretty sure my monitor will fall through my desk if she does
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I'm on phone and everytime she posts herself on the forum my pocket feels heavier
 
fatfuckingchud said:
genuinely though you've never spoken in real life
and jst go outside and talk to real life people and ask a real person out
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because the selection of ppl irl is quite limited, also if you have bad social skills you’re penalized more in person than online
 
icnone said:
because the selection of ppl irl is quite limited, also if you have bad social skills you’re penalized more in person than online
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unless you have extremely high standards i dont think that the selection of irl people is limited
 
fatfuckingchud said:
unless you have extremely high standards i dont think that the selection of irl people is limited
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it’s less like high standards and more like narrow standards
it’s hard to find people I have chemistry with because most people irl are unlike me
 
icnone said:
it’s less like high standards and more like narrow standards
it’s hard to find people I have chemistry with because most people irl are unlike me
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sounds like you're the problem
start working on your charisma
 
fatfuckingchud said:
if you are a friendly and charismatic and also good looking person its easy to get along with most people
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Imo I wouldn't say it's a problem. Some people are just wired to be more compatible with people like them. If you ask them to cast a wider net, they might not end up with somebody they're happy with.

There's also the fact that getting along with people is a two way street. If you are not friendly and charismatic, you should at least be able to enjoy the company of a person who is friendly and charismatic. I find myself not really enjoying anyone's company, though that might just be the fact I hang out with the wrong crowd. But I did in the past, and that emphasizes the need for finding a person who is compatible with you.
 
icnone said:
Imo I wouldn't say it's a problem. Some people are just wired to be more compatible with people like them. If you ask them to cast a wider net, they might not end up with somebody they're happy with.

There's also the fact that getting along with people is a two way street. If you are not friendly and charismatic, you should at least be able to enjoy the company of a person who is friendly and charismatic. I find myself not really enjoying anyone's company, though that might just be the fact I hang out with the wrong crowd. But I did in the past, and that emphasizes the need for finding a person who is compatible with you.
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this was a very well written paragraph and i enjoyed reading
but i will say, you hang around people that are like you, so if you're surrounded by unlikable people doesn't that make you unlikable?
 
fatfuckingchud said:
this was a very well written paragraph and i enjoyed reading
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ty!
fatfuckingchud said:
but i will say, you hang around people that are like you, so if you're surrounded by unlikable people doesn't that make you unlikable?
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Unlikeability is a subjective quality, not an objective one. Someone who is unlikeable to one may be very likeable to another (politics is an example of this). This subjectivity also goes deeper than personality type. Two people of the same personality might differ on how much they like a third similar person for any number of reasons

In middle school, I used to hang around with a bunch of people who did dumb stuff and gamed all day, and I genuinely enjoyed their company. But in college I find myself hanging more around neutral people with conventional personalities. I don't really see people like the friends I had in middle school.
 
icnone said:
ty!

Unlikeability is a subjective quality, not an objective one. Someone who is unlikeable to one may be very likeable to another (politics is an example of this). This subjectivity also goes deeper than personality type. Two people of the same personality might differ on how much they like a third similar person for any number of reasons

In middle school, I used to hang around with a bunch of people who did dumb stuff and gamed all day, and I genuinely enjoyed their company. But in college I find myself hanging more around neutral people with conventional personalities. I don't really see people like the friends I had in middle school.
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i actually disagree, that's like saying that looks aren't objective and everyone has different types when that's not the reality
 
fatfuckingchud said:
i actually disagree, that's like saying that looks aren't objective and everyone has different types when that's not the reality
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Looks are a mix of objectivity and subjectivity. Everyone has their own preferences and their preferences especially align at the LTB/MTB categories, but in HTB and beyond there's a huge divergence. I've seen people give examples of Stacys that I thought were MTBs.
 
icnone said:
Looks are a mix of objectivity and subjectivity. Everyone has their own preferences and their preferences especially align at the LTB/MTB categories, but in HTB and beyond there's a huge divergence. I've seen people give examples of Stacys that I thought were MTBs.
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but it's not based on how good looking you think they are, it's about the science behind their face
 
fatfuckingchud said:
like the measurements between the things in your face determines your rating
not how other people perceive you
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The entire point of rating is to give you an average indication of your beauty.

Let's say people rated you out of 10. The rating people give you a probability distribution, and we can calculate the average of this distribution to get what you attractiveness on average is. That doesn't mean your attractiveness is locked to that value. In the extreme case, you could be a 5/10 and somebody could genuinely think you are a 9/10. When we say LTN, MTN, HTN, etc we categorize people into buckets of these average ratings.

Now regarding what I meant about objectivity and subjectivity: if your average rating is closer to the lower end of the spectrum, then the variance of your ratings (how spread out they are) will be lower because people tend to align on what they think looks ugly. But as you get to the higher end of the spectrum, variance increases because people's ideas of what beauty looks like diverge.
 
Dopeman said:
Irl you would, im timid
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i think most of my friends like guys who are timid cause it shows youre nervous and its cuter as well
there are plentyyyy of girls who like sub guys
 
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