How common is it to find

[rand anon]

umm yeah i think most girls wouldnt be too picky because u dont find those submissive kinda guys all the time ya fel

i think so but idk/idc what i want long term i cant imagine it

Understood! Well thank you, appreciate all ur responses

 

[rand anon]

I don’t even understand wtf ur asking bud

Well I thought my OP was pretty straightforward, idk how to make it even simpler

Which is unfortunate cause I want as many opinions as I can get

 

[Evilemofoid]

Idk i may be the only one

 

[rand anon]

Idk i may be the only one

Well it seem u may not be, a couple women on here also seem to hve similar preferences

If you don’t mind, could u maybe answer the questions I asked Nomi and chudlite? Or if not I’ll just ask u them again, or maybe tomorrow, I’m kinda tired

 

[Evilemofoid]

Well it seem u may not be, a couple women on here also seem to hve similar preferences

If you don’t mind, could u maybe answer the questions I asked Nomi and chudlite? Or if not I’ll just ask u them again, or maybe tomorrow, I’m kinda tired

Ofc ofc what's ur questions

 

[rand anon]

Ofc ofc what's ur questions

Yayy okay

Do these guys with submissive personalities have to look a certain way? Can they also look submissive? Do they hve to look dominant? Or can they maybe look like they’re a mix/in between? And does ur preference for guys with submissive personalities change depending on if ur going for str/hookups vs long term relationships?

 

[Evilemofoid]

Yayy okay

Do these guys with submissive personalities have to look a certain way?

not particuarly, usually atleast a bit feminine

Can they also look submissive?

duh lmao

Do they hve to look dominant?

No dom chick wants a doom looking guy

Or can they maybe look like they’re a mix/in between?

Yeah any signs of feminity is good

And does ur preference for guys with submissive personalities change depending on if ur going for str/hookups vs long term relationships?

Nah, submissive all the way

 

[Penalizer69]

nah
@Penalizer69 can answer i guess

@Darkeningstar

 

[rand anon]

@Darkeningstar

@Penalizer69 well, what do u think?

 

[Penalizer69]

@Penalizer69 well, what do u think?

He told me your avi is blonde and therefore disgusting

 

[rand anon]

duh lmao

The only reason I ask is because, while I prefer a dom personality in a women, lookswise I prefer them to look sub. So I figured some women might be wired similarly lol

Yeah any signs of feminity is good

Nah, submissive all the way

Yayyy l

Appreciate ur response, thanks

 

[Penalizer69]

They can be attracted to them but their attraction will be short lived

 

[rand anon]

He told me your avi is blonde and therefore disgusting

What?!?!? Why?? Young Canute supremacy

They can be attracted to them but their attraction will be short lived

Fuck maynn kill me

I meant to ask u this though

@Notnotnotover0 would u say I look more dominant, submissive, or in between?

 

[Penalizer69]

I meant to ask u this though

I don't even remember icl. I think you looked kinda masculine but not ogre or anything like that

 

[rand anon]

I don't even remember icl. I think you looked kinda masculine but not ogre or anything like that

I see, well maybe I’ll pm u again if that’s all right

Do u think my manletism negates that? Makes me more sub looking?

 

[Penalizer69]

I see, well maybe I’ll pm u again if that’s all right

It is

Do u think my manletism negates that? Makes me more sub looking?

Irl yes

 

[rand anon]

It is

Yay

Irl yes

Gotcha, so ig overall I look like a mix of sub and dom

 

[rand anon]

Hello greys
Hello greys

 

[Xx_JihadiNafriggER22_xX]

Hello greys
Hello greys

Hello

 

[rand anon]

Hello

I meant to say hello visitors/guests, not greycels Although hello to them too

 

[rand anon]

@HairyCat thoughts?

 

[Deleted Member 113067]

@HairyCat thoughts?

more common than ever

 

[rand anon]

more common than ever

Rly?

And in terms of physical features, do u think those women also prefer those men to look submissive as well?

 

[Deleted Member 113067]

i dunno

 

[rand anon]

i dunno

Oki

 

[rand anon]

I see
And what about physically. Do these guys with submissive personalities have to look a certain way? Can they also look submissive? Do they hve to look dominant? Can they maybe look like their a mix/in between?

sure
okay gn.

@nomi hi
@nomi hi

 

[nomi]

@nomi hi
@nomi hi

hello

 

[ToryToad]

Women with submissive/feminine physical traits but a dominant personality, who happen to be into men with submissive/feminine personalities? I think it’s rare but idk

I get what u mean. not as rare as you think. i think you just gotta be very gl

 

[rand anon]

hello

Will u answer the questions??

 

[nomi]

Will u answer the questions??

what questions

 

[rand anon]

I get what u mean. not as rare as you think. i think you just gotta be very gl

Joba mayn

 

[rand anon]

what questions

These

I see
And what about physically. Do these guys with submissive personalities have to look a certain way? Can they also look submissive? Do they hve to look dominant? Can they maybe look like their a mix/in between?

 

[Deleted Member 74478]

Women with submissive/feminine physical traits but a dominant personality, who happen to be into men with submissive/feminine personalities? I think it’s rare but idk

You likely aren’t finding that unless your good looking and appealing to certain types of women

 

[nomi]

These

yes yes and yes
but idrc as long as I can hit the guy I'll be ok

 

[rand anon]

You likely aren’t finding that unless your good looking

Joba

and appealing to certain types of women

What types, and where would one find them

 

[thehammer]

Women with submissive/feminine physical traits but a dominant personality, who happen to be into men with submissive/feminine personalities? I think it’s rare but idk

I mean ive met a few IRL but im pretty sure you can find them in some type of niche dating apps

 

[rand anon]

yes yes and yes

Yayy

but idrc as long as I can hit the guy I'll be ok

Do u mean like playful hitting or like full ass whooping

 

[rand anon]

I mean ive met a few IRL but im pretty sure you can find them in some type of niche dating apps

Which ones?

 

[nomi]

Yayy

Do u mean like playful hitting or like full ass whooping

both

 

[rand anon]

both

I’m scared

 

[rand anon]

@Beatrice. pat Pat

 

[thehammer]

Which ones?

boo is a good one its for "gamers", niche people and all

 

[victorique]

@Beatrice. pat Pat

You're so active these days

 

[rand anon]

boo is a good one its for "gamers", niche people and all

I’ll check it out, thanks

 

[rand anon]

You're so active these days

My job search isn’t going so well, plus I hve no social circle and haven’t spoke with my oneitis in like 4 months, so it’s been kinda lonely

 

[thehammer]

I’ll check it out, thanks

praying for you man

 

[victorique]

My job search isn’t going so well, plus I hve no social circle and haven’t spoke with my oneitis in like 4 months, so it’s been kinda lonely

Hope you find a job soon and why you're not talking with her

 

[rand anon]

Hope you find a job soon

Thank u

and why you're not talking with her

I don’t expect u to go through my post history but I’m too sad to elab about it

Lifefuel / Motivation I hvent interacted with my oneitis in 3 months!

Mar 7, 2026

My mom and her sister got into a tiff in Dec right before she left to visit family in holland, haven’t seen my oneitis since then. Don’t even think about her every hr anymore, just maybe once or twice a day

Progress

They’re prob gonna make up though one of these days, in which case I’m toast

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My oneitis is pregnant

Jan 11, 2026

Found out today

I'm happy for her, but yeah

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[Deleted Member 74478]

Joba

What types, and where would one find them

Prob more artsy girls tbh idk where you can find them unless it’s at a art club/book club or smth

 

[rand anon]

Prob more artsy girls tbh idk where you can find them unless it’s at a art club/book club or smth

I actually tend to match with a good amount of art girls on hinge, I rly need to push myself to start going on dates again