How did y'all get over someone?

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[ADAM]

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I didn’t I’ve never had a girlfriend

 

[RRM]

There was never a someone

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Talk to other girls, preferably in favourable contexts (shared hobbies/activities and such)

 

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I didn’t I’ve never had a girlfriend

There was never a someone

Avoid loving someone then or else you'll be crying for everyday for weeks

 

[Night]

hating them

but I had my reasons, she treated me like shit so because of that "it was easy"

 

[Quncho]

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You don't, suppressable but it never completely leaves.

 

[RRM]

Avoid loving someone then or else you'll be crying for everyday for weeks

n***a what are you 12

 

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Talk to other girls, preferably in favourable contexts (shared hobbies/activities and such)

I've tried that and sometimes it works but when I see my oneitis with someone I'll just start getting jealous and sad

 

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n***a what are you 12

I'm 16 saar

 

[ADAM]

Avoid loving someone then or else you'll be crying for everyday for weeks

n***a I’m not a bitch

 

[Deleted Member 74518]

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idk but if u find out tell me immediately

 

[Transposon]

Forgot about them eventually. ‘Out of sight out of mind’ theory

 

[over0]

You try to think logically, talking to someone helps usually as they're unbiased and can put things into perspective.

Look back on the relationship and figure out what you did right and wrong, were there any red flags on their side you can look out for in the future? Was the relationship destined to fail realistically?

When you meet the person you spend the rest of your life with you will be great full, you've got over bad things in the past and eventually you will go back to normal

 

[Toggle]

idk but if u find out tell me immediately

WOuld definitely do bhai

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

I've tried that and sometimes it works but when I see my oneitis with someone I'll just start getting jealous and sad

This is mainly a lack of opportunity, don’t worry

 

[Specter]

hating them

but I had my reasons, she treated me like shit so because of that "it was easy"

Are you perhaps referring to huntergirl?

 

[Toggle]

You try to think logically, talking to someone helps usually as they're unbiased and can put things into perspective.

Look back on the relationship and figure out what you did right and wrong, were there any red flags on their side you can look out for in the future? Was the relationship destined to fail realistically?

When you meet the person you spend the rest of your life with you will be great full, you've got over bad things in the past and eventually you will go back to normal

It was mainly my ND as fault, she was giving me hints and shit but I didn't get any of it. While other guys did so our relationship slowly started going stale.

 

[Night]

Are you perhaps referring to huntergirl?

n***a im NOT that retarded

 

[over0]

It was mainly my ND as fault, she was giving me hints and shit but I didn't get any of it. While other guys did so our relationship slowly started going stale.

Learn from it, seems like it wasn't gonna last if she was entertaining other guys anyway and you deserve better

 

[Toggle]

Learn from it, seems like it wasn't gonna last if she was entertaining other guys anyway and you deserve better

Thank you over!!

 

[Mandy?]

Get a new one

 

[Night]

Get a new one

mf slays every week btw

 

[Specter]

mf slays every week btw

This name is shit. Must revert back to cr1st14n.

 

[blanquita444]

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U get over people by not thinking abt them

 

[Night]

This name is shit. Must revert back to cr1st14n.

 

[over0]

mf slays every week btw

Slaying is suboptimal

 

[Night]

Slaying is suboptimal

yeah but not everyone can do it

 

[Specter]

Slaying is suboptimal

What exactly do you mean by this?

 

[over0]

What exactly do you mean by this?

It's a cope that doesn't really if at all benefit you

 

[Specter]

It's a cope that doesn't really if at all benefit you

I agree.

 

[fashist]

time unfortunately
or finding someone/something else to distract you

 

[Stardust_]

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I didn’t really, I just wanted to be a better person

 

[Stardust_]

hating them

but I had my reasons, she treated me like shit so because of that "it was easy"

Why did she feel the need to do that?

 

[Stardust_]

I've tried that and sometimes it works but when I see my oneitis with someone I'll just start getting jealous and sad

Then show her that you are the better person by focusing on you

 

[over0]

time unfortunately
or finding someone/something else to distract you

Why am I seeing so many people saying to find someone else.

Imagine finding out ur patner was originally using you to get over someone else or wasn't over their ex when you first got together not to mention its toxic as shit, you forget how to be alone and this breeds toxic attachment behaviour

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

There was never a someone

There will be someone one day

 

[Stardust_]

Slaying is suboptimal

What’s the point of that though when you are heartbroken

 

[RRM]

There will be someone one day

We share something atleast

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

We share something atleast

We trucels need to be strong together

 

[over0]

What’s the point of that though when you are heartbroken

Wdym?

 

[Stardust_]

Wdym?

I mean moving on and ‘’slaying’’ others when you can try to focus on yourself for a while

 

[RRM]

We trucels need to be strong together

Trucel is an overrate

 

[over0]

I mean moving on and ‘’slaying’’ others when you can try to focus on yourself for a while

You shouldn't slay at all but yeah especially in this case hook ups are really bad

 

[Stardust_]

Why am I seeing so many people saying to find someone else.

Imagine finding out ur patner was originally using you to get over someone else or wasn't over their ex when you first got together not to mention its toxic as shit, you forget how to be alone and this breeds toxic attachment behaviour

Exactly

 

[wifey]

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what are you hiding tg?

 

[kazama]

Throwing her into some

 

[fashist]

Why am I seeing so many people saying to find someone else.

Imagine finding out ur patner was originally using you to get over someone else or wasn't over their ex when you first got together not to mention its toxic as shit, you forget how to be alone and this breeds toxic attachment behaviour

yeah it’s generally not good advice it’s just what i’ve done in the past

 

[Schizotypalcel]

Don't rush into another relationship.
Do some reflection, they don't want you anymore or never wanted you. That says it all, you are stuck up on someone that will never look your way. You are infatuated possibly, obsessive like. Those aren't real genuine feelings but a longing of a inconsistency you don't know how to heal.

Find a hobby, hang with family and friends and show yourself what a genuine connection looks like instead of longing for said inconsistency. You got one life, don't waste it dreaming about something that won't happen. Make other things happen instead.