how do i be less awkward..

[himeangel]

preface, im in college trying to secure a few connections and an internship in the accounting field. i admit im a socially awkward person. i was the quiet kid back in high school and my first 2 years in college. recently, i’ve been trying to socialize more in the end of the 3rd year. i joined a club about investing, and holy fuck, i got second hand embarassment from myself talking to the people who managed the club. i felt like a loser stumbling over my words as i try to convince them to let me into a position. i have so much trouble managing a conversation, and it didnt help that my competition was a guy who has a lot more experience than me.

i have a career fair next week, and im nervous. there are going to be so much people there trying to secure jobs, and im desperately looking for one too. i feel like a loser against all my peers since i havent been attending any job fairs or networking like i should have been. better late than never i suppose (hope
pill). what are some ways to handle myself better in conversations? how do i stop fumbling over my words like an idiot? how the hell can i get over my anxiety of being percieved?

 

[jony🖤bp]

preface, im in college trying to secure a few connections and an internship in the accounting field. i admit im a socially awkward person. i was the quiet kid back in high school and my first 2 years in college. recently, i’ve been trying to socialize more in the end of the 3rd year. i joined a club about investing, and holy fuck, i got second hand embarassment from myself talking to the people who managed the club. i felt like a loser stumbling over my words as i try to convince them to let me into a position. i have so much trouble managing a conversation, and it didnt help that my competition was a guy who has a lot more experience than me.

i have a career fair next week, and im nervous. there are going to be so much people there trying to secure jobs, and im desperately looking for one too. i feel like a loser against all my peers since i havent been attending any job fairs or networking like i should have been. better late than never i suppose (hope
pill). what are some ways to handle myself better in conversations? how do i stop fumbling over my words like an idiot? how the hell can i get over my anxiety of being percieved?

Dont rot here socialise and thats Abt it
It Takes time tho
Also dont be cringe or jestermaxx

 

[Xx_Sh4tteredHe4rt_xX]

preface, im in college trying to secure a few connections and an internship in the accounting field. i admit im a socially awkward person. i was the quiet kid back in high school and my first 2 years in college. recently, i’ve been trying to socialize more in the end of the 3rd year. i joined a club about investing, and holy fuck, i got second hand embarassment from myself talking to the people who managed the club. i felt like a loser stumbling over my words as i try to convince them to let me into a position. i have so much trouble managing a conversation, and it didnt help that my competition was a guy who has a lot more experience than me.

i have a career fair next week, and im nervous. there are going to be so much people there trying to secure jobs, and im desperately looking for one too. i feel like a loser against all my peers since i havent been attending any job fairs or networking like i should have been. better late than never i suppose (hope
pill). what are some ways to handle myself better in conversations? how do i stop fumbling over my words like an idiot? how the hell can i get over my anxiety of being percieved?

i think laughing it off and showing humor is key, also having good posture and keeping eye contact (which yes does seem hard tbh) but honestly practice makes perfect and ur gonna wanna put urself out there as much as possible, even if embarssing

 

[jestjestjester]

practice and just fake confidence genuinely fake it til you make it and you'll eventually be able to hold conversation

 

[daddy4u]

instead of subconsciously thinking the other person is judging u, u judge them