how do I break up with my boyfriend

[drear]

I wanna get right to the point: I really need help with breaking up with my boyfriend, I'm actually very unsure if I even should
My boyfriend and I have an interesting history together starting from March of last year blahblahblah, around April of this year we began to be very off and on and after a month off for September, at the start of October we agreed to give it another shot for like the 8th time maybe.

Currently, we barely even talk due to his work (he has long night shifts from Thurs-Sunday, so he is either asleep or at work) and I'm honestly fine with that, I don't mind how he chooses to spend his free time either. When he is off work, he's mostly gaming, and we have been getting once a day together since Halloween. Except last time we saw each other he left without saying "I love you" and yeah it might sound stupid to start thinking about breaking up because of that BUT I thought we reached that checkpoint since he started saying it again a couple weeks back.

I'm not a terribly ugly girl and I believe I have made significant progress towards being a more understanding and permissive girlfriend so what I'm feeling is "hey if you keep feeling on and off about me why don't we just break up?" I have about 2 other guys who have shown slight interest in me in the past month so I would rather jump at new opportunities than to keep beating this dead horse. But am I giving up on him or am I sticking up for myself? I know sharing this with him will cause a drift between us, he'll start thinking negatively because of me if he isn't already and I can't ask any of my friends for advice because I already know they will push me into a breakup because they HATE him. Honestly, I don't care what I get out of this; advice, opinions, even reactions anything is fine idc I just want to feel "seen" I guess

 

[cake]

turn him into a cuckold

 

[cake]

You should cheat on him and tell him his dick is too small

 

[drear]

turn him into a cuckold

You should cheat on him and tell him his dick is too small

I think I liked your original reply more LOL silly goose

 

[vexnaut]

foids would rather take advice from incels than talk to their boyfriend about it

 

[drear]

foids would rather take advice from incels than talk to their boyfriend about it

I know sharing this with him will cause a drift between us, he'll start thinking negatively because of me if he isn't already

+ I rather not waste the little time I have with him to discuss these topics; he does not like it when I look too much into things

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

dont break up
he is just busy
he doesn't hate u he likes u
new guys just wanna pump and dump if ur ugly
talk and discuss things out with ur bf

new guys are not worth it why would you start over again knowing there is uncertainty

u both should work on ur behaviour and personality

(ALL THIS WILL HAVE A CHANCE TO WORK IF YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO HIM, IF YOU DATED HIM WITHOUT FEELING STRONGLY ATTRACTED TO HIM, BREAK UP IMMEDIATELY AND STOP WASTING TIME, IT WON'T EVER WORK OUT )

 

[aes]

i also think u should send him a link to ourhotwives.org and turn him into a cuckold.

if ur looking for a high testosterone dravidian BVLL hml biggest penis in all of Lakshadweep

 

[drear]

dont break up
he is just busy
he doesn't hate u he likes u
new guys just wanna pump and dump if ur ugly
talk and discuss things out with ur bf

new guys are not worth it why would you start over again knowing there is uncertainty

u both should work on ur behaviour and personality

(ALL THIS WILL HAVE A CHANCE TO WORK IF YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO HIM, IF YOU DATED HIM WITHOUT FEELING STRONGLY ATTRACTED TO HIM, BREAK UP IMMEDIATELY AND STOP WASTING TIME, IT WON'T EVER WORK OUT )

very encouraging tytyty

 

[Pavel]

Say him: -Hi honey, you are recessed subhuman kys and you need an orbital box osteotomy with bilateral tripod osteotomies to double your facial height to width ratio and increase your palpebral fissure length and a 12 mm quandrangular modified Lefort 3 as described by Dr. Sinn with a 10 mm Lefort I with 5 degrees of counterclockwise rotation and a mandibular BSSO with 3 inches of advancement and a chin wing osteotomy to create a hyper ante face which was discovered by Dr. Sailer who you can not afford to go to. Throw in an Almond eye surgery Dr. Taban style, meaning with lateral canthoplexy, lower lid retraction surgery and orbital decompression. Make an aggressive wraparound jaw implant with exactly these specifications: 15 mm of lateral jaw angle augmentation with 6 mm horizontal augmentation to your ramus. Use PEEK not silicone and remember to use 2 titanium screws on each side for fixation. As for the chin, recontour it to a wide square style. And that's like 5% of everything you need to become ltn

 

[allexxs]

I wanna get right to the point: I really need help with breaking up with my boyfriend, I'm actually very unsure if I even should
My boyfriend and I have an interesting history together starting from March of last year blahblahblah, around April of this year we began to be very off and on and after a month off for September, at the start of October we agreed to give it another shot for like the 8th time maybe.

Currently, we barely even talk due to his work (he has long night shifts from Thurs-Sunday, so he is either asleep or at work) and I'm honestly fine with that, I don't mind how he chooses to spend his free time either. When he is off work, he's mostly gaming, and we have been getting once a day together since Halloween. Except last time we saw each other he left without saying "I love you" and yeah it might sound stupid to start thinking about breaking up because of that BUT I thought we reached that checkpoint since he started saying it again a couple weeks back.

I'm not a terribly ugly girl and I believe I have made significant progress towards being a more understanding and permissive girlfriend so what I'm feeling is "hey if you keep feeling on and off about me why don't we just break up?" I have about 2 other guys who have shown slight interest in me in the past month so I would rather jump at new opportunities than to keep beating this dead horse. But am I giving up on him or am I sticking up for myself? I know sharing this with him will cause a drift between us, he'll start thinking negatively because of me if he isn't already and I can't ask any of my friends for advice because I already know they will push me into a breakup because they HATE him. Honestly, I don't care what I get out of this; advice, opinions, even reactions anything is fine idc I just want to feel "seen" I guess

just be sincere

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

Except last time we saw each other he left without saying "I love you" and yeah it might sound stupid to start thinking about breaking up

Bruh are you 16yo or what ?

I have about 2 other guys who have shown slight interest in me in the past month so I would rather jump at new opportunities than to keep beating this dead horse

You're just trying to justify a cheating behaviour. You're interested in new guys. So you have the ick about your bf and try to find a rational excuse to see if the grass is greener on the other side.

But be carefuel that these men has probably no intentions of taking you seriously, just pump & dump. It's the risk. So don't go back to your bf for safety once you got played, because he will hate you long term

Or they can be better boyfriends. You'll see if you want to try.

Just break up rn before doing any more damages tbh

Your relationship feels unhealthy af and it seems you need constant attention and validation from your bf, even when he works, even when he rest
Work shifts are draining for people, they want peace

 

[drear]

I wanna get right to the point: I really need help with breaking up with my boyfriend, I'm actually very unsure if I even should
My boyfriend and I have an interesting history together starting from March of last year blahblahblah, around April of this year we began to be very off and on and after a month off for September, at the start of October we agreed to give it another shot for like the 8th time maybe.

Currently, we barely even talk due to his work (he has long night shifts from Thurs-Sunday, so he is either asleep or at work) and I'm honestly fine with that, I don't mind how he chooses to spend his free time either. When he is off work, he's mostly gaming, and we have been getting once a day together since Halloween. Except last time we saw each other he left without saying "I love you" and yeah it might sound stupid to start thinking about breaking up because of that BUT I thought we reached that checkpoint since he started saying it again a couple weeks back.

I'm not a terribly ugly girl and I believe I have made significant progress towards being a more understanding and permissive girlfriend so what I'm feeling is "hey if you keep feeling on and off about me why don't we just break up?" I have about 2 other guys who have shown slight interest in me in the past month so I would rather jump at new opportunities than to keep beating this dead horse. But am I giving up on him or am I sticking up for myself? I know sharing this with him will cause a drift between us, he'll start thinking negatively because of me if he isn't already and I can't ask any of my friends for advice because I already know they will push me into a breakup because they HATE him. Honestly, I don't care what I get out of this; advice, opinions, even reactions anything is fine idc I just want to feel "seen" I guess

he called me while at work about an hour ago, genuinely sounded like he was losing his sanity I hate his stupid warehouse job so much

 

[drear]

Bruh are you 16yo or what ?


You're just trying to justify a cheating behaviour. You're interested in new guys. So you have the ick about your bf and try to find a rational excuse to see if the grass is greener on the other side.

But be carefuel that these men has probably no intentions of taking you seriously, just pump & dump. It's the risk. So don't go back to your bf for safety once you got played, because he will hate you long term

Or they can be better boyfriends. You'll see if you want to try.

Just break up rn before doing any more damages tbh

Your relationship feels unhealthy af and it seems you need constant attention and validation from your bf, even when he works, even when he rest
Work shifts are draining for people, they want peace

harshly put but i appreciate it ty for that, I DO WANNA ADD THO that me talking about the other dudes who have shown interest isn't because I myself am interested, it just tells me I wouldn't have trouble finding someone new. I don't wanna leave my bf because I do have strong feelings about him and tbh I am not very high maintenance anymore, I'm fine with seeing each other once a week and barely talking but he has a history on switching his feelings on and off towards me so when it comes to that issue, I rather just try finding someone else instead of trying to fix things again

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

I don't wanna leave my bf because I do have strong feelings about him and tbh I am not very high maintenance anymore, I'm fine with seeing each other once a week and barely talking but he has a history on switching his feelings on and off towards me so when it comes to that issue, I rather just try finding someone else instead of trying to fix things again

So have a big conversation and put strong boundaries. Explain your need and he needs to listen to you and act like you wish to be treated. If he doesn't agree, leave him
If he agrees, if he breaks your boundaries, you leave him
If he doesn't want to have that conversation, you leave him

 

[ripskeem]

how old are u…?

 

[Ceisriel]

If you'd rather talk to some strangers and incels on this forum over him.... just leave him, say nothing, just leave....

maybe just a "it's over" text so he doesn't come to your house when you are in bed with someone else.

 

[James Othy]

I wanna get right to the point: I really need help with breaking up with my boyfriend, I'm actually very unsure if I even should
My boyfriend and I have an interesting history together starting from March of last year blahblahblah, around April of this year we began to be very off and on and after a month off for September, at the start of October we agreed to give it another shot for like the 8th time maybe.

Currently, we barely even talk due to his work (he has long night shifts from Thurs-Sunday, so he is either asleep or at work) and I'm honestly fine with that, I don't mind how he chooses to spend his free time either. When he is off work, he's mostly gaming, and we have been getting once a day together since Halloween. Except last time we saw each other he left without saying "I love you" and yeah it might sound stupid to start thinking about breaking up because of that BUT I thought we reached that checkpoint since he started saying it again a couple weeks back.

I'm not a terribly ugly girl and I believe I have made significant progress towards being a more understanding and permissive girlfriend so what I'm feeling is "hey if you keep feeling on and off about me why don't we just break up?" I have about 2 other guys who have shown slight interest in me in the past month so I would rather jump at new opportunities than to keep beating this dead horse. But am I giving up on him or am I sticking up for myself? I know sharing this with him will cause a drift between us, he'll start thinking negatively because of me if he isn't already and I can't ask any of my friends for advice because I already know they will push me into a breakup because they HATE him. Honestly, I don't care what I get out of this; advice, opinions, even reactions anything is fine idc I just want to feel "seen" I guess

You shouldn't break up just because you have opportunities elsewhere. And you shouldn't be with someone just because you don't have opportunities elsewhere.

 

[James Othy]

Bruh are you 16yo or what ?


You're just trying to justify a cheating behaviour. You're interested in new guys. So you have the ick about your bf and try to find a rational excuse to see if the grass is greener on the other side.

But be carefuel that these men has probably no intentions of taking you seriously, just pump & dump. It's the risk. So don't go back to your bf for safety once you got played, because he will hate you long term

Or they can be better boyfriends. You'll see if you want to try.

Just break up rn before doing any more damages tbh

Your relationship feels unhealthy af and it seems you need constant attention and validation from your bf, even when he works, even when he rest
Work shifts are draining for people, they want peace

Hate her long term? That would be the day that I'd take her back after going and getting defiled by another dude. She'd probably end up missing some teeth after having the audacity to try getting back together with me.

 

[Ceisriel]

You shouldn't break up just because you have opportunities elsewhere. And you shouldn't be with someone just because you don't have opportunities elsewhere.

it's her life, if she can afford an uppgrade let her, it's her life if she'd rather be miserable in company than miserable alone let her.

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

Hate her long term? That would be the day that I'd take her back after going and getting defiled by another dude. She'd probably end up missing some teeth after having the audacity to try getting back together with me.

Long term to say he will have that idea in his mind that she probably has fucked dudes during break and it will haunt him for years.
You never take a woman back after a break

 

[James Othy]

it's her life, if she can afford an uppgrade let her, it's her life if she'd rather be miserable in company than miserable alone let her.

That's not the point.

 

[James Othy]

Long term to say he will have that idea in his mind that she probably has fucked dudes during break and it will haunt him for years.
You never take a woman back after a break

Yes, exactly. That too.

 

[Brezel]

I totally get why you’re feeling conflicted. It sounds like you’re not getting the love and attention you deserve, and that’s completely valid. If he’s not saying “I love you” anymore, that’s a sign something’s off, and it’s okay to question things. You deserve to feel valued, and if you’re not, it might be time to move on— It’s not about “giving up,” but respecting yourself and knowing when it’s not right anymore. Maybe talking to him about how you feel will give you some clarity. you deserve someone who shows you love and makes you feel important.

 

[try2bechad]

Say ur grandma died and block him

 

[Pavel]

Say ur grandma died and block him

nah too brutal. edited

 

[choripan]

Why do women drop the most brutal blackpills
JFL if you think that you can work hard for a better future with your girlfriend because she's fantasizing about getting pumped and dumped by chad lmaooo
And then she's gonna blame it on you for not "giving her love" actually working your ass off for a better future is not love it seems lmao only love woman can accept is an empty word coming out of chad mouth while they penetrate them xddd
it's over

 

[Pavel]

Why do women drop the most brutal blackpills
JFL if you think that you can work hard for a better future with your girlfriend because she's fantasizing about getting pumped and dumped by chad lmaooo
And then she's gonna blame it on you for not "giving her love" actually working your ass off for a better future is not love it seems lmao only love woman can accept is an empty word coming out of chad mouth while they penetrate them xddd
it's over

 

[try2bechad]

nah too brutal. edited

Huh you russian

 

[Ceisriel]

Why do women drop the most brutal blackpills
JFL if you think that you can work hard for a better future with your girlfriend because she's fantasizing about getting pumped and dumped by chad lmaooo
And then she's gonna blame it on you for not "giving her love" actually working your ass off for a better future is not love it seems lmao only love woman can accept is an empty word coming out of chad mouth while they penetrate them xddd
it's over

Humans are just animals and love is merely a stupid hormone, never trust anyone, men or women... the same way you wouldn't trust a lizard.

 

[Velvet Star]

Say him: -Hi honey, you are recessed subhuman kys and you need an orbital box osteotomy with bilateral tripod osteotomies to double your facial height to width ratio and increase your palpebral fissure length and a 12 mm quandrangular modified Lefort 3 as described by Dr. Sinn with a 10 mm Lefort I with 5 degrees of counterclockwise rotation and a mandibular BSSO with 3 inches of advancement and a chin wing osteotomy to create a hyper ante face which was discovered by Dr. Sailer who you can not afford to go to. Throw in an Almond eye surgery Dr. Taban style, meaning with lateral canthoplexy, lower lid retraction surgery and orbital decompression. Make an aggressive wraparound jaw implant with exactly these specifications: 15 mm of lateral jaw angle augmentation with 6 mm horizontal augmentation to your ramus. Use PEEK not silicone and remember to use 2 titanium screws on each side for fixation. As for the chin, recontour it to a wide square style. And that's like 5% of everything you need to become ltn

hahaha you are always sooo funnyyy baby like I cant even rn

 

[Wilk]

I wanna get right to the point: I really need help with breaking up with my boyfriend, I'm actually very unsure if I even should
My boyfriend and I have an interesting history together starting from March of last year blahblahblah, around April of this year we began to be very off and on and after a month off for September, at the start of October we agreed to give it another shot for like the 8th time maybe.

Currently, we barely even talk due to his work (he has long night shifts from Thurs-Sunday, so he is either asleep or at work) and I'm honestly fine with that, I don't mind how he chooses to spend his free time either. When he is off work, he's mostly gaming, and we have been getting once a day together since Halloween. Except last time we saw each other he left without saying "I love you" and yeah it might sound stupid to start thinking about breaking up because of that BUT I thought we reached that checkpoint since he started saying it again a couple weeks back.

I'm not a terribly ugly girl and I believe I have made significant progress towards being a more understanding and permissive girlfriend so what I'm feeling is "hey if you keep feeling on and off about me why don't we just break up?" I have about 2 other guys who have shown slight interest in me in the past month so I would rather jump at new opportunities than to keep beating this dead horse. But am I giving up on him or am I sticking up for myself? I know sharing this with him will cause a drift between us, he'll start thinking negatively because of me if he isn't already and I can't ask any of my friends for advice because I already know they will push me into a breakup because they HATE him. Honestly, I don't care what I get out of this; advice, opinions, even reactions anything is fine idc I just want to feel "seen" I guess

" I would rather jump at new opportunities than to keep beating this dead horse. "

" I just want to feel "seen" I guess "

For men, a relationship is about love, while for women it is a business, hence way she called that an "opportunity" as if it were a job etiquette.

It is never about the other person, because they don't care about you. You are only an asset, an object that provides, a slave of mind

 

[Wilk]

Why do women drop the most brutal blackpills
JFL if you think that you can work hard for a better future with your girlfriend because she's fantasizing about getting pumped and dumped by chad lmaooo
And then she's gonna blame it on you for not "giving her love" actually working your ass off for a better future is not love it seems lmao only love woman can accept is an empty word coming out of chad mouth while they penetrate them xddd
it's over

That's why FEMBOYs may be superior

 

[Whitepill]

This might be the second coming of @ripskeem

 

[Wilk]

This might be the second coming of @ripskeem

 

[ripskeem]

This might be the second coming of @ripskeem

not anymore i activated that buy back claim

 

[Wilk]

not anymore i activated that buy back claim,

? Buy back claim ?

 

[Whitepill]

not anymore i activated that buy back claim

Perhaps , reboot card if you will

 

[ripskeem]

? Buy back claim ?

those who know..

 

[choripan]

" I would rather jump at new opportunities than to keep beating this dead horse. "

" I just want to feel "seen" I guess "

For men, a relationship is about love, while for women it is a business, hence way she called that an "opportunity" as if it were a job etiquette.

It is never about the other person, because they don't care about you. You are only an asset, an object that provides, a slave of mind

I'm getting depressed

That's why FEMBOYs may be superior

Age pill is brutal for gays so not superior
It's just over unless you softmaxx before 25 and have as much sex as you can until 30 and then live 50 years of remembering those moments

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

I'm getting depressed

The best rizzlers are the ones who hate women for what they are irl, they just accepted it. Incels fantasize of an ideal woman who doesn't exist

 

[drear]

ok after reading a lot I do wanna clarify some things
1. I would not leave him for anyone better looking or more interesting than him especially not for just sex, I am not that kind of girl
2. I try to be the most understanding gf possible, but he makes it hard to help him with his issues. For example, he dropped out to work because he couldn't deal with the two schedules. I have been encouraging him to look into enrolling again, but he doesn't even want to take general education classes until he knows what he is going to major in. I also encourage him into saving money for his future, but he ends up blowing it all on limited edition cds online or smth so

I don't think I am a bad gf. I make him snacks and I drive up to his place when he is feeling sick, when he comes over, I get everything ready, so he is comfy and satisfied, I don't cause arguments out of nothing and when something is bothering me, I always try resolving it by myself before bothering HIM with it. I'm always affectionate with him and I let him know he can turn to me and my family if he is ever facing problems. I am not miserable with him, I genuinely love this guy which is why when he starts acting in a way that in the past, would mean he is feeling off about me, I start to worry a little and decide that if he doesn't want me then maybe we should break up also SORRY FOR TALKING SO MUCH holy even I get tired of myself j

 

[Pavel]

ok after reading a lot I do wanna clarify some things
1. I would not leave him for anyone better looking or more interesting than him especially not for just sex, I am not that kind of girl
2. I try to be the most understanding gf possible, but he makes it hard to help him with his issues. For example, he dropped out to work because he couldn't deal with the two schedules. I have been encouraging him to look into enrolling again, but he doesn't even want to take general education classes until he knows what he is going to major in. I also encourage him into saving money for his future, but he ends up blowing it all on limited edition cds online or smth so

I don't think I am a bad gf. I make him snacks and I drive up to his place when he is feeling sick, when he comes over, I get everything ready, so he is comfy and satisfied, I don't cause arguments out of nothing and when something is bothering me, I always try resolving it by myself before bothering HIM with it. I'm always affectionate with him and I let him know he can turn to me and my family if he is ever facing problems. I am not miserable with him, I genuinely love this guy which is why when he starts acting in a way that in the past, would mean he is feeling off about me, I start to worry a little and decide that if he doesn't want me then maybe we should break up also SORRY FOR TALKING SO MUCH holy even I get tired of myself j

/

 

[Wilk]

ok after reading a lot I do wanna clarify some things
1. I would not leave him for anyone better looking or more interesting than him especially not for just sex, I am not that kind of girl
2. I try to be the most understanding gf possible, but he makes it hard to help him with his issues. For example, he dropped out to work because he couldn't deal with the two schedules. I have been encouraging him to look into enrolling again, but he doesn't even want to take general education classes until he knows what he is going to major in. I also encourage him into saving money for his future, but he ends up blowing it all on limited edition cds online or smth so

I don't think I am a bad gf. I make him snacks and I drive up to his place when he is feeling sick, when he comes over, I get everything ready, so he is comfy and satisfied, I don't cause arguments out of nothing and when something is bothering me, I always try resolving it by myself before bothering HIM with it. I'm always affectionate with him and I let him know he can turn to me and my family if he is ever facing problems. I am not miserable with him, I genuinely love this guy which is why when he starts acting in a way that in the past, would mean he is feeling off about me, I start to worry a little and decide that if he doesn't want me then maybe we should break up also SORRY FOR TALKING SO MUCH holy even I get tired of myself j

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

 

[Pavel]

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

what made you laugh. My eng is shit. I don't understand everything

 

[choripan]

ok after reading a lot I do wanna clarify some things
1. I would not leave him for anyone better looking or more interesting than him especially not for just sex, I am not that kind of girl

2. I try to be the most understanding gf possible, but he makes it hard to help him with his issues. For example, he dropped out to work because he couldn't deal with the two schedules. I have been encouraging him to look into enrolling again, but he doesn't even want to take general education classes until he knows what he is going to major in. I also encourage him into saving money for his future, but he ends up blowing it all on limited edition cds online or smth so

I don't think I am a bad gf. I make him snacks and I drive up to his place when he is feeling sick

n***a

when he comes over, I get everything ready, so he is comfy and satisfied

I don't cause arguments out of nothing and when something is bothering me, I always try resolving it by myself before bothering HIM with it.

communicate

I'm always affectionate with him and I let him know he can turn to me and my family if he is ever facing problems.

Wow so special

I am not miserable with him

wow so amazing

I genuinely love this guy which is why when he starts acting in a way that in the past, would mean he is feeling off about me, I start to worry a little and decide that if he doesn't want me then maybe we should break

Cuck him tbh

up also SORRY FOR TALKING SO MUCH holy even I get tired of myself j

 

[Ceisriel]

The best rizzlers are the ones who hate women for what they are irl, they just accepted it. Incels fantasize of an ideal woman who doesn't exist

fucking hell yeah

 

[ragnarok787]

The best rizzlers are the ones who hate women for what they are irl, they just accepted it. Incels fantasize of an ideal woman who doesn't exist

fucking real, you know what u talk about

 

[ragnarok787]

we alll want to believe this kind of thought of ideal woman who doesnt want upgrade , but you are in the end just an asset to her life she can and will replace u any time , love is not real its a stupid hormone that comes and go

 

[Wilk]

The best rizzlers are the ones who hate women for what they are irl, they just accepted it. Incels fantasize of an ideal woman who doesn't exist

fucking real, you know what u talk about

I know this person, she basically made a contract to a old business owner of dating him even though he is ugly..., the business guy was what you would call a "best rizzler"..., still, she betrayed him.

There is absolutely no fucking reason to Rizz. Every dating IS negative. It brings no advantages and just fuck you up