How do I cope with this

[Garce]

Downgrading in a partners look but upgrading in everything else (brain,wealth,personality) yes of course it better and I’ll feel better with the second partner but if I’m so used to look at a face that satisfy me better - I’m actually asking because I didn’t feel it yet but I know I will

 

[Penalizer69]

Do emotional components not influence how physically attracted you are to someone?

By this I mean if I were to like someone I could be prone to overrating their looks. In my eyes that's the most beautiful person, but in reality it's just a normie. Do you not get the same?

 

[TonyDr]

Downgrading in a partners look but upgrading in everything else (brain,wealth,personality) yes of course it better and I’ll feel better with the second partner but if I’m so used to look at a face that satisfy me better - I’m actually asking because I didn’t feel it yet but I know I will

Having a guy you're physically & sexually attracted to should be the first priority in dating imo. Because if you date a guy that you aren't into, at some point he will feels it, you'll resent him to be ugly to your taste, and he will resent you too

 

[Garce]

Having a guy you're physically & sexually attracted to should be the first priority in dating imo. Because if you date a guy that you aren't into, at some point he will feels it, you'll resent him to be ugly to your taste, and he will resent you too

I do think he looks good it’s just the previous one is much better , let’s say the first is lhtn the second is like lmtn-mmtn

 

[Deleted Member 113067]

brutal

 

[Garce]

Do emotional components not influence how physically attracted you are to someone?

By this I mean if I were to like someone I could be prone to overrating their looks. In my eyes that's the most beautiful person, but in reality it's just a normie. Do you not get the same?

They do influence the physical attraction but I don’t have feeling from him yet so that’s maybe why I feel this way.

 

[Garce]

brutal

Water

 

[TonyDr]

I do think he looks good it’s just the previous one is much better , let’s say the first is lhtn the second is like lmtn-mmtn

Just by the way you talk about him you should just leave that new guy alone, you aren't gonna be happy with him

 

[Garce]

Just by the way you talk about him you should just leave that new guy alone, you aren't gonna be happy with him

We’re not dating yet I’m just thinking if I’ll catch feelings I will be attracted at the same amount , because currently I am attracted to him just not as much as I was attracted to the first guy who’s hmtn-lhtn .
The second guy does everything the first guy didn’t do that made us fall apart that’s a big thing here - he fulfilles every thing I want in someone

 

[doll]

Downgrading in a partners look but upgrading in everything else (brain,wealth,personality) yes of course it better and I’ll feel better with the second partner but if I’m so used to look at a face that satisfy me better - I’m actually asking because I didn’t feel it yet but I know I will

If ure not attracted to him why are u even with him in the first place

 

[TonyDr]

The second guy does everything the first guy didn’t do that made us fall apart

The problem sis is, you was still dating that 1st guy even if he wasn't doing things for you.

On the other hand, you seem to be interested by the new guy only for the things he can/he's gonna provide for you and not him as a person.
Also it seems like y'all broke recently so you should just give time for yourself and be single.

 

[Garce]

The problem sis is, you was still dating that 1st guy even if he wasn't doing things for you.

On the other hand, you seem to be interested by the new guy only for the things he can/he's gonna provide for you and not him as a person.
Also it seems like y'all broke recently so you should just give time for yourself and be single.

Obviously I’m not interested in the person if I’m yet to catch to feelings .
I dated the first guy because I was 14 and dumb and I was too deep in to emotionally break up with him for very long after I’ve realized he’s not what I look for in a partner

 

[Garce]

If ure not attracted to him why are u even with him in the first place

I’m still not with him, I’m attracted to him but not as much as I was to the first guy