Experience How do I deal with my cat passing away?

[foidslayer22]

This is a serious question, my cat's been the only living thing to actually be with me through everything and I know she understands when I'm sad. She can feel it; she comes up to me, cuddles with me, licks my hand, keeps meowing and plays with me until I'm fine. One day she'll die and it might be in my own arms. Everyday I wake up to her next to me ready to play and eat and stay with me by my side. I can't deal with even thinking about it it's stressing me out so much knowing one night I'll have to bury her and wake up the next day not having her presence.

 

[foidslayer22]

do i jusr adopt a new cat that looks like her and gaslight myself into thinking my cat chose to spend her second life with me too i genuinely want answers

 

[Shkypot]

This is a serious question, my cat's been the only living thing to actually be with me through everything and I know she understands when I'm sad. She can feel it; she comes up to me, cuddles with me, licks my hand, keeps meowing and plays with me until I'm fine. One day she'll die and it might be in my own arms. Everyday I wake up to her next to me ready to play and eat and stay with me by my side. I can't deal with even thinking about it it's stressing me out so much knowing one night I'll have to bury her and wake up the next day not having her presence.

do i jusr adopt a new cat that looks like her and gaslight myself into thinking my cat chose to spend her second life with me too i genuinely want answers

Idk, I guess just go through the grief and move on (as harsh, ignorant and stupid it is), you’ll be a better person after it I hope

 

[foidslayer22]

Idk, I guess just go through the grief and move on (as harsh, ignorant and stupid it is), you’ll be a better person after it I hope

i think i should try my best to give her the best life i can provide for her

 

[Deleted Member 87595]

Kys

That's what fashist will recommend

 

[foidslayer22]

i tried

 

[Shkypot]

Kys

You will go to heaven with the cat

i tried

Don’t take any advice from this clown

 

[Deleted Member 87595]

Don’t take any advice from this clown

Tried to be like fashist

He taught me the word kys

 

[Penalizer69]

I think it's something you naturally come more to terms with over time. If it's not something you have to worry about for a while then don't think about it

 

[sparkle]

Sorry brah

 

[winterfoid]

everything has to come to pass at some point, there's no point in grieving what might happen because you'll be stuck in anticipation of it and miss the moments you'll later remember fondly. there's a season for everything and you may find someone or something that will also stick with you for whatever you go through

even still loss never really goes away, but it does get more manageable every day that you decide to deal with it. don't try to dwell on the future of it too much

 

[moonlight1]

do i jusr adopt a new cat that looks like her and gaslight myself into thinking my cat chose to spend her second life with me too i genuinely want answers

try keeping two cats, so when one passes atleast u have the other. but still gonna be so sad, there’s much you can do abt it, just try to take care of her health so she lives more

 

[evie]

i would kill myself the get someoje to sew me and my kitty tg

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

get a new cat

 

[aspiringd0ll]

(Sorry for the rlly long reply)

I lost my cat of 7 years (literally my best friend and the reason I didn't kms several times) 5 months ago due to her running away from home after switching houses. she was scared of other cats in the area so she ran and didn't know the way back.

Slowly I grew to accept the situation but often I blame myself for not being a better owner, and for not appreciating her more/treating her better while she was still here with me </3 (I don't even know whether she's alive or not.. I just hope someone rescued my baby and that she didn't die of cold or hunger... )

About the pain of losing a cat, no, it doesn't get better, I still cry the same about her at least twice a week but I'm a sensitive person
It's okay to grieve your pet's death you can't really get over it if you don't cry it out

Right now what you should do, is give her the best life she could ever have! Be affectionate, give her treats, spend as much time together, play with her, give her a safe and clean environment

After she dies, there is no easy path. Yes, you could adopt a new cat, but dont expect her to be the same, you can love the new cat a lot, but your old one will always have a special place in your heart

Right now I'm thinking of adopting another cat too, but whenever I see a cat on the street or an owner taking care of his cat, I can't stop thinking about my poor baby, so I think it would take a few months to years for me to get into the mental state of getting a new cat
And yes, I loved my cat a lot, more than I loved anyone else </3

 

[Jinukcular]

This is a serious question, my cat's been the only living thing to actually be with me through everything and I know she understands when I'm sad. She can feel it; she comes up to me, cuddles with me, licks my hand, keeps meowing and plays with me until I'm fine. One day she'll die and it might be in my own arms. Everyday I wake up to her next to me ready to play and eat and stay with me by my side. I can't deal with even thinking about it it's stressing me out so much knowing one night I'll have to bury her and wake up the next day not having her presence.

Get meth so you get lowk depression and don’t see point into thinking abt the past (it helped me focusing on class while knowing my grandparents died on front of me in a car accident when I was 7)

 

[Jinukcular]

Get meth so you get lowk depression and don’t see point into thinking abt the past (it helped me focusing on class while knowing my grandparents died on front of me in a car accident when I was 7)

I generell don’t know how to react and deal w anything but I hope you might find another way to be happy again