HOW DO I FIX MY SOCIAL SKILLS?

[Zeroh]

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

 

[Blackpillirony]

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

Try practicing talking in front of a mirror to practice your body posture and conversation skills. Work on your confidence and try to find hobbies that’ll make it easy to form social connections around, it could be music or climbing for exemple. I was like you a few years ago and these things helped me. Give solution, it’s the check on the right.

 

[Deleted Member 84302]

I cant look at people in the eye

 

[Zeroh]

Try practicing talking in front of a mirror to practice your body posture and conversation skills. Work on your confidence and try to find hobbies that’ll make it easy to form social connections around, it could be music or climbing for exemple. I was like you a few years ago and these things helped me. Give solution, it’s the check on the right.

U deserve the solution, thank you brocel

 

[Zeroh]

I cant look at people in the eye

Same, shit feels impossible

 

[Blackpillirony]

Same, shit feels impossible

Yeah, my trick is to look slightly above the eye area, like their eyebrows. Doesn’t create as much anxiety

 

[Mogden]

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

I lost my social skills. Develop fake charisma and a social mask. It works pretty well

 

[Deleted Member 92703]

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

please talk to girls. at least just have platonic friendships. i've had so many crushes on guys that are "chopped" to my friends. all of the guys i've been w/ is bc they made the first move.

 

[ponyboy]

Use gb-115ed+ a bit of pregab a few times a week max,maybe even some oxytoxin since it seems borderline impossible for you to fix this without pharmaceutical intervention

 

[taka]

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

i was like this till i realised all i needed to do was be drunk for all presentations

 

[the_choppest]

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

For me,making a home girl was the turning point

 

[rope]

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

I also stutter but it’s fine cause I’m a girl, but just try to eat better food you clearly need more fat in ur brain. So just eat a lot of animal fat to fix speech impediments or maybe ur just autistic and try calling with random people on discord or something

 

[rope]

U do

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

U dont have to be entirely normal thats boring but just learn social cues , u also dont have to talk to everyone being a little quiet is maybe good

 

[gen]

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

do u think ur social skills are fked cuz u dont like speaking to peopel or do u not like speaking to people cuz ur social skills are fked

 

[tomahawk]

first, just relax. things dont matter as much as you think. do not hyperfixate onto something minor and be chill.
2nd, the mirror method is great
3rd, ever heard of Patrick Bateman? how he almost never utters a word but just listens. but notice, interactively listens. assuringly, carefully, but in an understanding way. try to start off with something alike 1st.
and for the last dont talk to retards. people around you affect you greatly

 

[daviss..]

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

stutters are lowk cute but in all honesty maybe try a sport? I made friends through that and not that im saying you should but being a little buzzed helps rid the anxiety and makes you funny (results may vary)

 

[Deleted Member 81310]

Hey man, I totally get where you're coming from. Social situations can be super awkward, especially when you're anxious about it. Maybe start small? Like, just try chatting with a classmate about a subject you both like or even just saying hi to someone. It's all about practice, and the more you do it, the easier it gets. No pressure on the eye contact or smiles right away—

 

[Kaligula567]

Hey man, I totally get where you're coming from. Social situations can be super awkward, especially when you're anxious about it. Maybe start small? Like, just try chatting with a classmate about a subject you both like or even just saying hi to someone. It's all about practice, and the more you do it, the easier it gets. No pressure on the eye contact or smiles right away—

^

 

[Deleted Member 87595]

Just go out more and talk to people

 

[iletheile]

Honestly what really helps me Is talking to strangers randomly and with people Who saw me being awkward and miserable i dont

 

[Zeroh]

Hey man, I totally get where you're coming from. Social situations can be super awkward, especially when you're anxious about it. Maybe start small? Like, just try chatting with a classmate about a subject you both like or even just saying hi to someone. It's all about practice, and the more you do it, the easier it gets. No pressure on the eye contact or smiles right away—

appreciate this

 

[pokeluv]

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[Looksmaxlossus]

1. Eat raw primal to have proper biochemistry and healthy nerves.
2. Develop a god complex. It doesn't even have to be fake, you are probably better than most normies even if 1% better just for being blackpilled.
3. Develop a nihilistic mindset. It doesn't fucking matter if a social interaction "goes wrong" because everything is meaningless and we will die anyway.
4. Ascend and look good to have natural confidence (extra optional step)
5. Do humiliating things in public to build resistance. (extra optional step)


Then actually go and talk to people. Do it every day as much as you can.
Buying expensive football gear won't do shit to make you better if you don't actually go and play football.

 

[Scoutpro59]

Try practicing talking in front of a mirror to practice your body posture and conversation skills. Work on your confidence and try to find hobbies that’ll make it easy to form social connections around, it could be music or climbing for exemple. I was like you a few years ago and these things helped me. Give solution, it’s the check on the right.

What should i do when i lwk start shaking when I talk to a girl?

 

[Deleted Member 44008]

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

Couldn't tell u bro tbh

 

[epicalex24]

1. Eat raw primal to have proper biochemistry and healthy nerves.
2. Develop a god complex. It doesn't even have to be fake, you are probably better than most normies even if 1% better just for being blackpilled.
3. Develop a nihilistic mindset. It doesn't fucking matter if a social interaction "goes wrong" because everything is meaningless and we will die anyway.
4. Ascend and look good to have natural confidence (extra optional step)
5. Do humiliating things in public to build resistance. (extra optional step)


Then actually go and talk to people. Do it every day as much as you can.
Buying expensive football gear won't do shit to make you better if you don't actually go and play football.

Does eating raw food actually help that much?

 

[New Water]

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

Force yourself to participate in class, force yourself to talk to girls, force yourself to do all of the things you dread doing. Overtime it will become easier

 

[Looksmaxlossus]

Does eating raw food actually help that much?

Its magic

 

[dci99]

dude, my social skills are so fucked like i genuinely cant speak to anyone, i absolutely hate anything in school or in public where i need to speak to people. When doing school presentations and i stutter i genuinely wanna shoot everybody in that room. i havent spoken to girls irl voluntarily in like 4 years, only in messages. i cant even begin to hold eye contact and dont even get me started on trying to send face snaps i look like i wanna kill them cause i dont know how to smile in photos or look anything similar to normal. how do i fix my social skills?

just like anything else in life time will fix this, also exposing yourself to more social situations will make it significantly faster to get to a point of comfort as uncomfortable as it may be. Don't ever feel like your alone in experiencing this nearly everyone does. Be uncomfortable take pride in having the balls to put yourself in discomfort and you will be good.