how do i improve my social skills

[atlastranquility ༘⋆༄.°⋆]

I’ve always been a quiet person with pretty bad social anxiety, I have like no friends at my school and think anyone who interacts with me thinks im weird
social anxiety aside im hella awkward and bad at starting/keeping conversations
Obviously I need to improve on this so I can function in the real world

 

[ecoli]

exposure therapy and/or medication

 

[atlastranquility ༘⋆༄.°⋆]

what would u recommend for exposure therapy? ive thought about joining clubs or stage crew next year

 

[ecoli]

what would u recommend for exposure therapy? ive thought about joining clubs or stage crew next year

just try to talk to random people or join a club or something

 

[atlastranquility ༘⋆༄.°⋆]

How do I seem more normal to people though 🫩 like r there any good conversation starters/tips for maintaining a conversation

 

[atlastranquility ༘⋆༄.°⋆]

Great Thanks for the advice I guess

 

[atlastranquility ༘⋆༄.°⋆]

Great Thanks for the advice I guess

I have people that I talk to occasionally but I only have 1 or 2 classes with them and don’t get the chance to see them outside of school

 

[dejectedchud_]

I’ve always been a quiet person with pretty bad social anxiety, I have like no friends at my school and think anyone who interacts with me thinks im weird
social anxiety aside im hella awkward and bad at starting/keeping conversations
Obviously I need to improve on this so I can function in the real world

What i did to make my social anxiety better is just talk and text my close friends more. If you get more comfortable with them then you'll slowly start getting better at things like starting a conversation, keeping a conversation, ect. Even if your sending them vids on tiktok and stuff it helps cuz you find there interests

 

[2R0I2P0]

what would u recommend for exposure therapy? ive thought about joining clubs or stage crew next year

debate team helped me a lot's it didn't tone down my weirdness im just interested in weird topics but definetely helped my charisma

 

[Ramus]

you should get a job as a waiter that lwk helped me

 

[HerculesJr.]

you should get a job as a waiter that lwk helped me

Bro gooodesss

I wanna be a waiter but I have a bit of a bad short term memory, is it still a good idea ??

 

[Ramus]

Bro gooodesss

I wanna be a waiter but I have a bit of a bad short term memory, is it still a good idea ??

bro herccccccc

its fine you just write the orders down on a notepad or tablet and send them back to the kitchen ^^

 

[NoIamHuman]

Get a job that requires lots of social interaction

 

[HerculesJr.]

bro herccccccc

its fine you just write the orders down on a notepad or tablet and send them back to the kitchen ^^

@Evilemofoid
See? Someone did call me it it's too tuff 🫪

 

[Evilemofoid]

@Evilemofoid
See? Someone did call me it it's too tuff 🫪

Sure suree

 

[Quanky]

I just go out and talk to random people

 

[jkcwakcjw]

How do I seem more normal to people though 🫩 like r there any good conversation starters/tips for maintaining a conversation

if u could act normal as a child ur probably normal now its just u have a bad mindset and maybe overthink

 

[dior]

How do I seem more normal to people though 🫩 like r there any good conversation starters/tips for maintaining a conversation

no its very case dependent which sucks, i had a huge switch from freshman - sophomore year, and people who helped me integrate socially into larger friendgroups. If your already an upperclassmen in highschool ur kind of fucked till college im ngl

 

[JDD]

I just copied what the popular kids did, and it helped me statusmax and act more NT

 

[justsomechud]

I’ve always been a quiet person with pretty bad social anxiety, I have like no friends at my school and think anyone who interacts with me thinks im weird
social anxiety aside im hella awkward and bad at starting/keeping conversations
Obviously I need to improve on this so I can function in the real world

get a sales job where you have to intereact with people, youll learn all the social skills and how to sell people your ideas (convince them)

 

[looksmaxxinggirll]

I’ve always been a quiet person with pretty bad social anxiety, I have like no friends at my school and think anyone who interacts with me thinks im weird
social anxiety aside im hella awkward and bad at starting/keeping conversations
Obviously I need to improve on this so I can function in the real world

join a bunch of clubs and do a sport and get a job and therapy (from personal experience)

 

[roper.]

I’ve always been a quiet person with pretty bad social anxiety, I have like no friends at my school and think anyone who interacts with me thinks im weird
social anxiety aside im hella awkward and bad at starting/keeping conversations
Obviously I need to improve on this so I can function in the real world

personally i started trying to give less fucks and just gpnfor it even if its awkward
i try to be as friendly as a can while also moxing in humor so im not boring

what o did was genuinely just approach people and try to get in contact more, and build up my reputation

though it was difficult at first sonce i was really shy
now it just happens tbh

 

[matiasheanolikeswomen]

dm me 200 bucks
and you will get Chad or Stacy levels of social skills
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[FairnessandEquality]

I’ve always been a quiet person with pretty bad social anxiety, I have like no friends at my school and think anyone who interacts with me thinks im weird
social anxiety aside im hella awkward and bad at starting/keeping conversations
Obviously I need to improve on this so I can function in the real world

your probably quiet because of negative reinforcement loop
if your good looking then you will get positive reinforcement and thus you become more low inhib and good social skills.

 

[Roxas]

I’ve always been a quiet person with pretty bad social anxiety, I have like no friends at my school and think anyone who interacts with me thinks im weird
social anxiety aside im hella awkward and bad at starting/keeping conversations
Obviously I need to improve on this so I can function in the real world

You’ve just got to put yourself out there, get a clique that is more talkative and monkey see monkey do