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Serious How do I make people like me

still got a few more years to lock in
I think I had a pretty good run I was top 5 of my hs in lifting total (sbd) had a nice long term relationship that brought me a good amount of happiness til it got broken off (mutually) got my gpa from a 0.3 to a 3.6 in less then half a year I’ve done pretty good I think I’m just tired and ready to check out
and dont put your life on the seams of others, i understand that it has a huge affect on your life but it shouldnt guide you to bad things
Im not really trying to i just wanna handle stuff for my family yk best i can atleast
 
I think I had a pretty good run I was top 5 of my hs in lifting total (sbd) had a nice long term relationship that brought me a good amount of happiness til it got broken off (mutually) got my gpa from a 0.3 to a 3.6 in less then half a year I’ve done pretty good I think I’m just tired and ready to check out

Im not really trying to i just wanna handle stuff for my family yk best i can atleast
why not take that as proof that things can be good instead of taking it as the idea that theyre over
 
Dude no they don’t. They may think your behavior is weird, but most will not notice that their child is suicidal.


Unless they’ve explicitly or implicitly suggested that this is what they’re doing through their actions, it’s unnecessary to assume that
A week ago I bought my family icecream and told them I loved them and my brother took me aside and asked me if I was gonna try to kill myself again and I lied to him but I don’t think he believed me
 
why not take that as proof that things can be good instead of taking it as the idea that theyre over
Bc I never felt anything from them man they were good for a bit but I just wanted to feel stronger and I never did I wanted to feel smarter and I never did I just wanna be either a kid again or dead
 
Bc I never felt anything from them man they were good for a bit but I just wanted to feel stronger and I never did I wanted to feel smarter and I never did I just wanna be either a kid again or dead
you can find innocence again, maybe not in being a kid but in others
i never really felt like a kid but ive always felt happy guiding and supporting kids and seeing their innocence
you dont need to be dead, you havent even seen if theres other routes
 
I just really wanna feel happy soon man it’s been years since I’ve really felt happy
 
I’ve been starting to write down when I’m happy to remember that I can feel happy and I haven’t been able to write anything down and it’s been 2 weeks
 
I just really wanna feel happy soon man it’s been years since I’ve really felt happy
i think remember the fact that you can feel happy, and acknowledge that theres so many different things in the world that you havent bothered to see if theyd make you happy
so many different scenarios, locations, people, or hobbies
you havent even tried to be an adult
maybe youll succeed there and find your happiness
 
A week ago I bought my family icecream and told them I loved them and my brother took me aside and asked me if I was gonna try to kill myself again and I lied to him but I don’t think he believed me
sorry about that

I apologize if my advice sounds ignorant or condescending, your life is probably way harder than mine.


do your best to stay strong for the meantime, and don’t allow those pieces of shit (anyone who has wronged or been evil to you) to win. Don’t let them be the reason your life ended prematurely
 
I’ve been starting to write down when I’m happy to remember that I can feel happy and I haven’t been able to write anything down and it’s been 2 weeks
i totally get that
i think nds probably succeed more outside of hs anyway, people start to grow up and realize that some things arent that serious
you may be given a better chance at social life
you dont seem like a bad dude at all
 
sorry about that

I apologize if my advice sounds ignorant or condescending, your life is probably way harder than mine.
Lol my life can’t be harder then anyone else’s humans adapt to their surroundings so my pain is probably the same as yours
do your best to stay strong for the meantime, and don’t allow those pieces of shit (anyone who has wronged or been evil to you) to win. Don’t let them be the reason your life ended prematurely
I just wanna be happy yk when I die it won’t be like a big “fuck you” to the world I think it’ll be more like a rest yk or that feeling right when you get off of work and you can sit for the first time in hours and you just breathe a little deeper idk man
 
Lol my life can’t be harder then anyone else’s humans adapt to their surroundings so my pain is probably the same as yours

I just wanna be happy yk when I die it won’t be like a big “fuck you” to the world I think it’ll be more like a rest yk or that feeling right when you get off of work and you can sit for the first time in hours and you just breathe a little deeper idk man
death isnt the only place you can find that rest
 
i totally get that
i think nds probably succeed more outside of hs anyway, people start to grow up and realize that some things arent that serious
you may be given a better chance at social life
you dont seem like a bad dude at all
I mean most of my life is just work then gym then work then gym

I have to do online school so I can work to help out my mom bc we dont have any child support bc my dad lost his job
 
Lol my life can’t be harder then anyone else’s humans adapt to their surroundings so my pain is probably the same as yours

I just wanna be happy yk when I die it won’t be like a big “fuck you” to the world I think it’ll be more like a rest yk or that feeling right when you get off of work and you can sit for the first time in hours and you just breathe a little deeper idk man
I get what you mean tbh


I think it more or so stems from a desire to stop suffering, not hatred of life itself

I do agree with you that suffering is partially relative, but I feel like it would be kinda ridiculous to say a starving African child with an abusive father suffers the same as someone like Sean o pry
 
I get what you mean tbh


I think it more or so stems from a desire to stop suffering, not hatred of life itself

I do agree with you that suffering is partially relative, but I feel like it would be kinda ridiculous to say a starving African child with an abusive father suffers the same as someone like Sean o pry
Yeah Sean o pry has pain no one can fathom unfortunately…

But seriously I really just think that I’m only gonna find happiness like that but I just wanna know how to get people to like me and stuff bc I’m trying so hard bro
 
Yeah Sean o pry has pain no one can fathom unfortunately…

But seriously I really just think that I’m only gonna find happiness like that but I just wanna know how to get people to like me and stuff bc I’m trying so hard bro
its harder in hs, and i honestly think youre overthinking it
just chill out, even if you think theyre lying pos just lay back and let them lie to eachother
if shits shit then once ur out of hs ur done with them but still had company along the way
 
You’re right but I can’t imagine getting with someone and loving them completely and then feeling them change before my eyes and losing them slowly again
isnt always guaranteed to happen, sometimes people let you love them as they change and sometimes youre able to love them as they change
 
Idk man I just wanna get fucking drunk and pass out I’m hallucinating and throwing up I just wanna die
 
Yeah but women just cheat bro I’m glad I got out of the one rl before some shit like that happened
not all unless ur actually a lltn
at the most id say most women will leave, but the care that u two had will still be there and i think itd still mean something as long as the relationship ends nicely
coming from a guy whos had horrible experiences with plenty of women
 
not all unless ur actually a lltn
at the most id say most women will leave, but the care that u two had will still be there and i think itd still mean something as long as the relationship ends nicely
coming from a guy whos had horrible experiences with plenty of women
I hope so I’ve never seen a successful relationship
 
probably rare but
definitely worth the try
if i genuinely did not believe in love, id just resort to being a manwhore and fucking every mtb within a 10 mile radius that had limerence with me
but i do believe in love
I have never once seen a successful relationship
And I honestly might just ascend to htn like my goat @Dandelions said and be a whore so I can feel like someone’s interested in me
 
I have never once seen a successful relationship
And I honestly might just ascend to htn like my goat @Dandelions said and be a whore so I can feel like someone’s interested in me
Yes my bhai, don’t give up . You will miss out on reaching your insane potential. Keep fighting and live to see the next day
 

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