How do I stop coping and accept my truth?

[rapedjaw]

know I am ugly, but I dream and yearn for that dominant, mainstream “perfect” life the ones who have never been called “chopped” in their life, or if they are, they just laugh it off. To them, it’s a simple joke. They’ve never been bullied, always treated with basic respect, and often beyond that almost like royalty.

How do I stop warning myself that I just want to accept my truth? People say, “Just do this , just do that,” but unfortunately for me, there is no saving me. It’s not just my individual features; it’s my bones, my head shape everything. Surgery can’t reconstruct an entire head shape.

I have accepted it, but I can’t fully accept it. I need to fully accept my main truth. I need to not care. I need to stop being jealous. I need to stop disliking pretty girls just because they’re pretty and I’m jealous. I need to stop needing male validation and showing my body just to get it, because I won’t get it from my face. It’s ruining my life. Please help or give me advice please

 

[Starlet]

@Ghoultune @over0 @Currycelloser @ey88@IMPORTANT: @SkinnyDennis @Dean @rovea @ @Sith @glamourpursuer 2.0 @milkjar@Frickmychudlife @chady @Night @imporlage55 @Ghoultune@Almighty Sigma Wolf
@Garce @Ghoultune @woof @sociopath @ADAM @woof@Ghoultune @ImVerySorry @muscipla @sigmagoy
@favMiatsu @KissMyAxe@Garce @Charvamaxxer @IMPORTANT: @Garce @Starlet @woof @EggWhites4u
@ToryToad @truetard @Joturttle@homiespidy@Darkeningstar @Born Superior @Chainsaw Man@snow @pompompurino @indiapakistan@Casablanco @idkwhatodo@milkjar @Blackpillirony @joestar @RRM @vespertine@Frickmychudlife @Ekte Eva @rickydickydoodahgrimes
@Spuffy @Norwood Reaper @FaceIQ@TonyDr@Randomized Shame @BRUTALIZER_X3000@Currycelloser @EthiopianMaxxer@FATJEX
help this girl out i need it too

 

[ecoli]

keep coping

 

[rapedjaw]

cope is for the brain

keep coping

 

[ecoli]

cope is for the brain

no no

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

know I am ugly, but I dream and yearn for that dominant, mainstream “perfect” life the ones who have never been called “chopped” in their life, or if they are, they just laugh it off. To them, it’s a simple joke. They’ve never been bullied, always treated with basic respect, and often beyond that almost like royalty.

How do I stop warning myself that I just want to accept my truth? People say, “Just do this , just do that,” but unfortunately for me, there is no saving me. It’s not just my individual features; it’s my bones, my head shape everything. Surgery can’t reconstruct an entire head shape.

I have accepted it, but I can’t fully accept it. I need to fully accept my main truth. I need to not care. I need to stop being jealous. I need to stop disliking pretty girls just because they’re pretty and I’m jealous. I need to stop needing male validation and showing my body just to get it, because I won’t get it from my face. It’s ruining my life. Please help or give me advice please

instagram and pinteterest are not ur friends, delete them it makes ur self perception worse.
idk what else to tell u other than be urself unapologetically and u will become more comfortable

 

[rapedjaw]

instagram and pinteterest are not ur friends, delete them it makes ur self perception worse.
idk what else to tell u other than be urself unapologetically and u will become more comfortable

instagram and pinteterest are not ur friends, delete them it makes ur self perception worse.
idk what else to tell u other than be urself unapologetically and u will become more comfortable

Thanks for the advice. I don’t really use Pinterest. I’m pretty sure I don’t even have it and I wasn’t really the type of person to scroll on it anyway. But I like Instagram because I like to post videos like that video that I posted on my account because I just really wish that I could be it but then I do compare myself to the girls so that’s really good advice. Thanks. Have a good day.

 

[limo8]

you cant stop coping you will die of sadness

 

[KittyBreath]

@Ghoultune @over0 @Currycelloser @ey88@IMPORTANT: @SkinnyDennis @Dean @rovea @ @Sith @glamourpursuer 2.0 @milkjar@Frickmychudlife @chady @Night @imporlage55 @Ghoultune@Almighty Sigma Wolf
@Garce @Ghoultune @woof @sociopath @ADAM @woof@Ghoultune @ImVerySorry @muscipla @sigmagoy
@favMiatsu @KissMyAxe@Garce @Charvamaxxer @IMPORTANT: @Garce @Starlet @woof @EggWhites4u
@ToryToad @truetard @Joturttle@homiespidy@Darkeningstar @Born Superior @Chainsaw Man@snow @pompompurino @indiapakistan@Casablanco @idkwhatodo@milkjar @Blackpillirony @joestar @RRM @vespertine@Frickmychudlife @Ekte Eva @rickydickydoodahgrimes
@Spuffy @Norwood Reaper @FaceIQ@TonyDr@Randomized Shame @BRUTALIZER_X3000@Currycelloser @EthiopianMaxxer@FATJEX

 

[rapedjaw]

no no

Coping is something our brain does automatically it pushes uncomfortable truths into the unconscious. But those patterns leak back into our conscious mind, shaping how we see ourselves. If you cope by denying what others say or what you feel , you can end up in a kind of loop, Coping is natural and so easy but if we never move beyond it, we risk living in a delusion instead of facing reality

 

[rapedjaw]

you cant stop coping you will die of sadness

I feel like I will die of sadness anyway If my brain is expecting something and I’m not receiving it in real life, I feel like coping is a short-term thing and also a very isolated thing., Like if you have a job or you’re in school, coping is really not going to help you there if anything, it’s going to make it worse. Your brain tries to cope by saying, “oh yeah, this is what happened,” but every time that belief gets hit with even a tiny bit of doubt—like maybe this isn’t the truth you just get sadder and sadder. Delusion is so dangerous.

 

[Blackpillirony]

know I am ugly, but I dream and yearn for that dominant, mainstream “perfect” life the ones who have never been called “chopped” in their life, or if they are, they just laugh it off. To them, it’s a simple joke. They’ve never been bullied, always treated with basic respect, and often beyond that almost like royalty.

How do I stop warning myself that I just want to accept my truth? People say, “Just do this , just do that,” but unfortunately for me, there is no saving me. It’s not just my individual features; it’s my bones, my head shape everything. Surgery can’t reconstruct an entire head shape.

I have accepted it, but I can’t fully accept it. I need to fully accept my main truth. I need to not care. I need to stop being jealous. I need to stop disliking pretty girls just because they’re pretty and I’m jealous. I need to stop needing male validation and showing my body just to get it, because I won’t get it from my face. It’s ruining my life. Please help or give me advice please

The thing is, everybody has it hard in some way in their life and everybody finds a way to cope. If not, the pressure of existing without a reason is just too much for one to endure. You gotta make peace within and understand that you were not dealt with the best starting cards, doesn't mean you can't self-improve.

Also, it's a world of apperance and superficiality, what you see on social media is all most likely not true. The ideal lives celebrities, models and good looking people project is not a reflection of their personal lives. No need to compare yourself with what they project.

 

[idkwhatodo]

holy fuck n*****s stop spamming me in the same thread

 

[snow]

There’s actually no reason to stop coping, reality is what u make of it. Il prolly post a thread on it when more people are active